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What do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 2:33:28 PM

CBTinDALLAS

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for a woman to invite you over for a session?
A stranger she doesn't even know.

I REALLY would like to know from a sub/slave's perspective.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 2:36:18 PM

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Since there is really no way to know what is in any individual's head, I would ask the person what she is expecting before heading her way.

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RE: What do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 2:38:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CBTinDALLAS

for a woman to invite you over for a session?
A stranger she doesn't even know.

I REALLY would like to know from a sub/slave's perspective.

You don't get that yet?

Besides... in your case... you can't invite them over if they think that picture is what they are getting.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 2:38:47 PM

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If I was invited to a scene by a Dominant female or male I did not know, I'd generally assume... they just want a scene and don't care who it's with. I'd decline because I am not someone's fetish delivery system.

If they invited me out for coffee and a chat, that's another story.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 2:50:08 PM

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In your case, Keli, I'd assume rent is due soon.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 3:17:01 PM

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In your case, Keli, I'd assume rent is due soon.

It sounds like he has your number!

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/9/2011 3:17:23 PM

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*snort*

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RE: What do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 6:57:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: CBTinDALLAS

for a woman to invite you over for a session?
A stranger she doesn't even know.

I REALLY would like to know from a sub/slave's perspective.

Well I am not sure how she is going to invite him over if she doesn't know him. But on the off chance that someone I don't know asks me over for a session, I would take that as a sign that she was probably nuts and block her.

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RE: What do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 9:56:59 AM

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Robbery. Murder. She's not a woman, but a man. She is a tease and has no intention of really meeting up. She's going to have you go to the house where her husband's mistress lives for sheer revenge. She wants to pull a prank on her cousin and will have you go to her cousin's house while there is a birthday party going on for a 2 year old. There are enless scenarios.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 10:54:01 AM

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Thanks. I appreciate an honest, REAL answer.

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ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

If I was invited to a scene by a Dominant female or male I did not know, I'd generally assume... they just want a scene and don't care who it's with. I'd decline because I am not someone's fetish delivery system.

If they invited me out for coffee and a chat, that's another story.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 10:56:34 AM

CBTinDALLAS

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I am not Keli.
With all of the kinky things you are into, I hardly think you can judge anyone else.

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In your case, Keli, I'd assume rent is due soon.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 11:00:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: CBTinDALLAS

I am not Keli.

Of course you are. Same posting style, same behavior, same lack of basic social skills. Why do you deny it?

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 11:05:57 AM

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Yup, as demonstrated pretty conclusively by Lockit here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3852239/mpage_4/tm.htm#3854051

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 2:03:10 PM

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jeez, keli.. do you REALLY honestly think you are fooling ANYONE with more intelligence than a lump of coal?? SERIOUSLY?

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 2:05:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: CBTinDALLAS

I am not Keli.

Of course you are. Same posting style, same behavior, same lack of basic social skills. Why do you deny it?

Same tits, I ran em thru my tit offender database.

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 2:08:22 PM

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Same tits, I ran em thru my tit offender database.

Your TitEye plugin is going to put TinEye out of business!

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/10/2011 11:22:57 PM

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OP, Your question seems mostly philosophical. You are the Dominant, and You're asking what a submissive would think if a Domme invited you over for a session when the 2 parties didn't know each other?

1) She is a pro - a bad one
2) W/we have a relationship - which doesn't fit with Your question

I can't imagine a real Domme, non-pro, who would invite someone She didn't know at all to her residence. If she were a pro - it wouldn't be her residence.

Ok, I'd think She were a tramp, since you REALLY want to know.

Seriously... You've made it to 50?

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/11/2011 7:20:59 AM

Hisprettybaby

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Yup, as demonstrated pretty conclusively by Lockit here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3852239/mpage_4/tm.htm#3854051

I just knew it was Keli!!

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Same tits

This too!

I'm thinkin' she does that cause every time a NEW profile is made up, it gets more hits.....

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/11/2011 8:39:39 AM

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Roscho is right on.

And yes, it is too Keli. That has been proven.

*NOT* the same tits though. These were stolen off of a czech online personals ad. (a pro of course)

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RE: Why do you think the motivation is... - 10/11/2011 8:42:35 AM

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*NOT* the same tits though. These were stolen off of a czech online personals ad. (a pro of course)

The first set of tits was Czech too. I can tell country of origin visually. Weight and size are a hands-on endeavor.

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