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Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/9/2011 6:23:12 PM   
gentlemanDomsSub


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Status: offline 		Heythere! anyway me and sir are looking for two collars. One will be an everyday and never take it off collar and the other would be my "play" collar for serving. Do any of you know where I can get a work apropriate collar for the everyday? Any other advice regarding collars or collaring is much appreciated! thank you lots
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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/9/2011 6:42:07 PM   
DeviantlyD


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Status: offline 		I personally know of several D/s types who choose to use a necklace as a symbolic collar. I've also seen something like this or this used also. It looks like a necklace, but for those "in the know" it suggests something more.

Edited to add:

This one is rather nice. Delicate looking (except for the heart which seems a tad on the large side), yet definitely collar-like in that it requires a key to remove.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/9/2011 7:22:25 PM   
littlewonder


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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/10/2011 8:09:57 AM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		my Mistress has given me a silver neclace with a lock pendant on it for everyday and a forman red one for play. as i work in a hospitial i have to be able to remove my collar due to the steel pendant or for surgery for sterility in surgery. now each person and situation will be diffrent some i know have a special ring or other plain item to be worn.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/10/2011 8:26:53 AM   
Hisprettybaby


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Status: offline 		I have a necklace I wear.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/10/2011 9:32:34 AM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		He bought the every day collar at the Sears jewelry counter. Also have a couple rings that serve the same function. Anything he buys me to wear becomes my collar. There isn't just one type of item that can be a collar. Your collar could also be some lovely earrings.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/10/2011 9:33:16 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		My everyday never take it off collar is a necklace  I have gotton compliments on how pretty it is.  To others it is just a necklace but we know what it represents and that is all that matters.  I do have a play cillar but we don't use it often it is a plain black unadorned collar.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/14/2011 7:48:17 PM   
gentlemanDomsSub


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Status: offline 		Thankseveryone for your replys.we appreciate it

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/15/2011 9:56:56 AM   
MstrDennynSlave


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Status: offline 		Master chose a gold necklace for my collar. It has hearts and x's representing kisses and hugs. It is very beautiful and I have had a lot of compliments on it. Only Master and I and my family know its' meaning. It has never come off except for surgical or testing proceedures.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/16/2011 6:15:14 PM   
Squirrely


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Status: offline 		Etsy.com Ive searched it extensively and there has got to be something you would like. Plus I think some of the artists do custom work as well.
just type in bdsm, collars, chokers, or necklaces into the search and a billion things will pop up.

or Google it, there are sites for custom collars...

or check some adult toy sites, there selection usually isn't very good though...


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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/16/2011 8:12:56 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		The most important location for the 'collar' isn't around the sub's neck so much as in the mind of the couple.

I had a sub for several years who was a legal secretary. A law office is NOT a kink-friendly environment.
Her 'collar' was a sterling toe ring with My initials on it.

Use your imagination.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/16/2011 8:25:42 PM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		are you looking for something that has more of a look/feel of a collar? would chain maille be passable in your work environment? 

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/16/2011 8:53:04 PM   
RexDarcy


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Status: offline 		The best discreet collars I have bought were from Chaotic Creations. Most of the work he has done for Me has been hand crafted. He does great work.

http://www.bondagecollars.com/

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/16/2011 8:57:10 PM   
winspiritsbaby


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Status: offline 		Win made me a necklace. With his devious mind he designed it so it can serve as a coller and leash at his whim.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/17/2011 11:55:48 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		Mine is clearly seen in my profile picture. It has no way of being removed without breaking it as he removed the clasp and fixed it on without. It's not a pretty necklace but it's not pug-ugly either. I didn't get any say in it, nor did I have any hand in deciding what it'd be. It wouldn't have mattered what it was as I really wouldn't have cared.

He made heavy leather collar and cuffs for *other* purposes.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/26/2011 12:28:10 AM   
star1897


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Status: offline 		see thewayitis here on Cm he makes great leather collars

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 10/27/2011 3:17:39 AM   
Raenam602


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Status: offline 		My play collar, in my main picture, is from collarfactory.com
you can customize it so well.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 11/7/2011 5:05:55 PM   
kyira


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Status: offline 		Very nice collar, Raenam602, but probably more than most are willing to wear to work... :-)

I like the idea of an anklet or anklets for that purpose, easy to conceal, but still there...

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 11/7/2011 6:30:56 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I wear a silver necklace with a unique heart pendant on it normally. But it's too delicate for play. Sometimes he'll put a leather play collar on me.

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RE: Discreet Collars and play Collars - 11/7/2011 6:38:48 PM   
laborboleta


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Status: offline 		I posted this on another similar forum. Just came upon this site this evening. Beautiful artisan necklaces from around the world. Some look perfect for what you want. Prices range widely. Hope this helps.

http://jewelry.novica.com/necklaces/choker/

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