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I am Contentment. Outgoing, a thinker, an artist and athlete. A tall writer and intelligent welder. A dreamer, a fool, a genius and a monster.

Interested in women with minds that can carry on any conversation, stamina to go on long walks, and bodies that can handle pain.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OP, you have mail.

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ORIGINAL: Endivius

You are trying to convey in text who you are as a person. It is far different than a person to person interaction. Based on the words you choose to use, or omit, the reader is making a decision on whether or not you are interesting.

You do not have to write a book to convey a few of your personality traits. I doubt many of the people who have been here for longer than a few days believe that the love(s) of thier life is going to be found on CM. That is not to say that it cannot happen, or that relationships romantic or otherwise are not formed here. You have to put forth an effort if you want results.

Honestly, I don't see how having multiple accounts would increase your success rate. At the end of the day, your profile is nothing more than a very simple and snap shot description of who you are as a person. It's not hard to incorporate parts of your interests vanilla or kinky into a profile.

You are either over thinking it, or not enough.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Do you want a reply here or in private?

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I am here because I find BDSM infinitely alluring. It's a combination of social interaction, dark fantasy, and interesting devices. And it's all so very creative and unique, each interaction tailored for the encounter. I just love it. Amuses me to no end.

I am a welding student. I make sculptures, tables, bookshelves and other oddities using those skills. I make jewelry using wire and beads. I work on small models as well. Sometimes these require sketching plans in advance, others I just work from my head.

I've begun to dabble into sewing, guitar and knife sharpening, but those skills are still quite lacking. Been taking martial arts classes too, but very new to that as well.

I enjoy writing poetry and creative fiction. I have a book I intend to finish before I die - it's my goal in life.

I ride the bus. I enjoy the social interaction of it. I learn all sorts of perspectives on the same subjects and on new ones. I make friends and further my understanding of things. Could get a car, but it just isn't social enough, so I haven't tried.

I've had dark, twisted, dominating fantasies as long as I can remember. Those really turn me on, but are not the kinds of things I usually talk about. I am typically a nice, kind and outgoing individual that wouldn't broach this subject unless asked.

Vanilla relationships do not appeal to me, they don't turn me on. They never have. I have little to no interest in a normal dating or sex life. They are bland, boring and require going with the flow. I just don't like that.

I want to be unique. An original person, true to myself. In only the last few years have I even known BDSM was a real thing. I am new to BDSM in actual experience.

In terms of romantic/BDSM relationships, I am looking for a woman. I am attracted to older and younger women, but I find one of my key attractions is in those that I can physically overpower.

Relationships will take time and I'm not looking for a one-night stand. I want someone I can carry on a conversation with - this is really important. A conversation with passion and fire and the ability to express it. The ability to talk and to listen.

I'm not looking for a sex toy or silent dummy, I'm looking for a woman with soul and personality. One able to be open-minded enough to consider the abstract, unusual or rare. A strong personality is almost always a plus.

I am patient. If you want a simple social relationship, I can do that, and will wait, until you are ready for more.

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

The more arrogant you are, the more you turn heads, the more mail you get.

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker
The more arrogant you are, the more you turn heads, the more mail you get.

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Alright, an update. Tried to be less witty and more specific, while keeping honesty and trying not to mislead.