fellatrixkris -> RE: Was Scared into almost Submission (5/31/2006 10:32:53 AM)
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I do have to agree to some extent with a lot of you, but I also feel the need to just remind everyone, unfortunatly some people find out about BDSM through chat, web pages, online "Doms" ect not all of them fully take the time to read or learn before hopping into some "on-line" relationship or trying to meet someone who says "I am your Master!!!" They go into chat and see slaves/submissives acting things out and listening to Dominants in the room...they do not know how it is they can or should act. They are so into learning and trying to show they can be a "good subbie" they just submit to the first person who is DOManding...not wise...but not everyone is street/internet smart. RELEASED....honestly, people are this way because well...some people let them get away with it. I am submissive in a 24/7 TPE relationship, but when someone I don't know tells me to do somthing and my Dom is not around, I use my best judgement and usually tell them to FUCK OFF....Please know that just because you are submissive does NOT mean you have to be to everyone in every situation. It does not make you a bad submissive just because you do not want to listen to some internet Dom who wants to tell you what to do. My advice, READ, talk to Real life people whom you and your Dom trust and go to some local munches!
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