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OhBeMyMind -> RE: Do You care if they ask?? (5/25/2006 12:01:11 PM)
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Asking respectfully? Of course, just as you would ask or say anything else.
However, if he says no, I do not want you making suggestions, or communicating how you feel, then you have to decide if that is the type of relationship that you want, if it is....great, if not, then perhaps you may want to start thinking about moving on.
For me, sometimes I find it difficult to ask for what I want or what I feel I need, not for fear of rejection, but more out of feeling guilty in some way, eh, hard to explain. The difference is that Sir wants to know what's going on in my head, he encourages me to pour myself out to him, and little by little it becomes easier, as I realize that it pleases him for me to do so.
If he could care less what I thought or felt, I would have to get to stepping.
In the end, I know he has the final say, I accept it, respect it, and trust that he has his reasons for doing or not doing. I am fortunate that Sir is very level headed, and rational.
Anyway, I may have been of no help at all, and that is okay too, I tried. In any event much luck to ya.
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