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DiannaVesta -> A Woman's Love (5/24/2006 11:04:46 AM)
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This is an article I wrote for The Village @ Femsupreme. We feature articles like this weekly.
A woman is capable of unconditional love.
No matter the circumstances she nurtures, protects and teaches. Her greatest reward is to have that unconditional love returned. Be she dominant or submissive, a woman's nature is superior because of her capacity to love. All men worship and adore women. Even those who seem to sexually exploit women honor them in some strange way. These males and many others are learning about love through their explorations no matter how ridiculous this seems. The truth is that it takes one pussy hair to pull battle ships across the desert. This is a fact of life.
Women are thought to be weak when they shower a male with love and kindness. This mindset was created as a *slave* / inferior archetype ages ago. The crime is that women were never allowed to develop other aspects of their nature. If they were sexy, bitchy, promiscuous or out-spoken they were punished. Women that learn to develop these aspects find greater balance and males find balance through their love and teachings.
I read something somewhere about a study on puppies. One puppy was showered with kindness, another was constantly abused, while a third was given equal doses of punishment and love. The puppy showered with kindness was out of control. An owner can not enjoy a puppy if it's not discipline properly, therefore a puppy can not enjoy it's owner. Everyone knows how an abused puppy acts. One who is constantly punished yet never loved or rewarded. The third puppy was obedient, respectful and both puppy and owner found great joy with one another. The males that honor and worship me throughout the years have come and gone. Many return because of this balance of love and discipline. You can not mistake unconditional love for the requirements a woman has in exchange for her love. This alone would be a lengthy discussion. One I promise to address in the future.My son sent me a card:
Mom, I discovered this poem in the library and immediately I knew I
had to send it.
"A Mother's Heart"
There is an old story
about a boy
an only son
Who fell in love with a girl.
"You don't love me, you
never did," said the girl.
"But if you do, go then
And bring me your mother's heart."
Distraught the boy walked off
And after shedding many tears
came back to his love.
The girl was angry
when she saw him thus
and said,
"Don't you dare come back again
without your mother's heart."
The boy went and killed
a mountain roe deer
and presented it's heart
to the one he adored.
But again she was angry
and said, "Get out of my sight!
I told you what I want
is your mother's heart."
The boy went and killed
his mother, and as he ran
with her heart in his hand
he slipped and fell.
"My dear child, my poor child."
Cried the mother's heart.
"Did you hurt yourself?"
Anonymous
This piece brings to mind so many different occurrences when I've let
you down, and in the end, your unconditional love for me prevails,
always.
Thank you, Mom, I love you immensely, Your Son
There is no doubt that the love of a mother and child is the strongest of all. After all, it's acceptable for a woman to teach a child respect through love and discipline. The matriarch shares an inseparably bond with her male child. Her love is unquestioned and yet she has demands and requirements or rules. Discipline becomes an act of love. Deep down inside all men are simply little boys looking for guidance.
When a male turns to you for comfort of any kind or request to be taught to love/adore you better (even if he uses the wrong words like: I want to be your slave) it's important to fully explain your requirements and rules. It's important to stick with it because like children they will sway and will not learn to respect you. It's also important to reward the male and show appreciation. Rewards are not given to make him do something (lure) for you but to honor good behavior.
If you are a male reading this you should honor your Mistress for the woman she is without objectifying her. She is aware that you have needs and desires, however in order for her to "feel inspired" to fulfill these her needs must first be met. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that women and men are different. A woman, especially a dominant woman, needs to feel respected and cherished. If your intentions are purely physical and sexual she will assume that you are selfish. Nothing turns a woman off more then a selfish man. If you are a smart and clever man you will learn the secrets of winning a lady's attention and then you must learn to keep it. Place her high upon a pedal stool and put her needs first. Shower her with attention and pay attention to every small detail.
Does she enjoy eating exotic foods? If so, learn to cook a special meal for her. Never wait to be asked to massage her or rub her feet. If you see her relaxing offer to do this for her. In fact you should read a book or buy a video about massage. This a very important duty for a slave and one you should be an expert at. You should study and learn how to pamper her like the Queen she is. It is your duty to make her life more pleasurable in every way. If you are successful in doing this you will see a sparkle in her eye and she will be inspired to fulfill your needs.
You should read books and participate in the forums in The Village at FemSupreme. Ask the ladies in the forum ideas and how they enjoy being served. You might also try www.sexslaveacademy.com for additional training via audio, video, articles and lessons.Love,Dianna Vesta
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