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RomulusR -> anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 10:57:03 AM)

Hi, thiise site was referred to me by a friend from another site. Since being here all I`ve found is scammers trying to steal  my money as well as a few other bad experiances. I talked to 1 Dom who insisted that I would have to be force Bi , even though I am not inot that AT ALL. Is that normal to make a slave suck a cock when he tells you he`s straight? The personals are loaded with Pro`s and scammer.... Have found noone real.



GreedyTop -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 11:16:07 AM)

welcome, and congrats on integrating one of the most common whines on this site into your intro.


Block, delete, report.

learn these, love these.

Use your gut instinct... (I would have said 'common sense', but that is an antique, at best, notion these days).

I hope you have better luck in the future.



RomulusR -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 11:22:37 AM)

Thanks for the reply dude, guess they can`t find a way to earn an honest living & have to steal from people pathetic. I`ve been surfing and let me tell you slim pickings dude!! I decided to go to Pandora`s Box in NYC to try the lifestlye. Really had a blast. Unfortuantely it seems the only was I`ll enjoy te lifestyle is spending lots of money. Btw Pandora`s is a great place , only limits on dead presidents prevented an immediate return.



GreedyTop -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 11:27:08 AM)

Dude? WTF is it with people calling me DUDE lately???

you're in the NYC area? then you have NO fucking excuse for not being able to find a lifestyler..

and btw? havent you noticed the HUGE FUCKING RED LETTERS that spell out: do not send money to anyone... ( etc etc)

yep.. common sense is dead...



ashjor911 -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 3:46:26 PM)

How dare you call GT here a DUDE, Mr newbie....... shame on you read profile damn it,

I would be pissied if someone called me girl to.... but I have to say Welcome To CM



LadyPact -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 3:56:38 PM)

Well, I get to call her Dude because she lurvesssss Me.  [8D]

Welcome to the forums, OP.



windchymes -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 4:10:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Dude? WTF is it with people calling me DUDE lately???

you're in the NYC area? then you have NO fucking excuse for not being able to find a lifestyler..

and btw? havent you noticed the HUGE FUCKING RED LETTERS that spell out: do not send money to anyone... ( etc etc)

yep.. common sense is dead...


Dude, you need to get up on the roof in heels & a mini-skirt! [:D][:D][:D]



RomulusR -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 4:50:30 PM)

Hey, thanks for the well wishes and no ofense with the "dude". Guess I must be lame cause in in NYC area and not doing so well....



lizi -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 4:51:49 PM)

Well, since you are in NY, try meeting people in real life and I bet you'll do a heck of a lot better than on a computer site. And welcome to CM!



RomulusR -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 5:21:34 PM)

I`m not really sure how to meet a Dom in person? One doesn`t just go up and start asking? Gratitiude for any instruction regarding this.



RexDarcy -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 5:54:08 PM)

Do a google search for a munch in you area. Example: munches nyc.



RomulusR -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 6:01:50 PM)

Thanks I`ll try now.



BurntKitty -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/15/2011 8:18:17 PM)

Welcome to CM. As the others have said, get out to munches to meet people.

There's a major convention in NJ in Nov, but it's geared toward workshops and demos. You might enjoy it, however: Exxxotica - NJ
Good luck and have fun.



searching4mysir -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/16/2011 1:51:14 PM)

There is a yahoo group that is very active in NYC with munches once a month and other stuff more frequently. They usually meet in a diner near Paddles in midtown, NY.

Here is a link to one of their events that they post here on the events board:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3880547/tm.htm



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/16/2011 3:57:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RomulusR

Hi, thiise site was referred to me by a friend from another site. Since being here all I`ve found is scammers trying to steal  my money as well as a few other bad experiances. I talked to 1 Dom who insisted that I would have to be force Bi , even though I am not inot that AT ALL. Is that normal to make a slave suck a cock when he tells you he`s straight?


Welcome to CM RomulusR.

People tend to think that if you are not submissive to every Domme, Bitch or Mary that walks in off the street then you are not a true submissive. Don’t listen to any of that bullshit. It takes chemistry. It takes desire.

Many subs feel pleasure not from whatever act they may be performing per se’ but from the fact that what they are doing is exciting or pleasurable to their Domme, Mistress, Dominatrix, Top, *insert name here*.

For argument’s sake, let’s say you and I are in a relationship. This relationship is built on trust, honesty, clear communication and an overabundance of hot, sweaty, depraved sex. It would most certainly include A LOT of what you have heard about as BDSM play ( ie: your pain =>my pleasure; your humiliation => my pleasure, etc) .
What if one day I decided that it would make me so happy and bring me so much pleasure to see you doing something that you found distasteful and difficult,that I just had to see you suck another man’s cock. Just to know that you did it because you love me and you ache to please me, makes me happier and turns me on more than anything ever has in my entire life. Would you do that for me Romulus?



SimplyMichael -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/16/2011 5:02:13 PM)

Shorts all.across America.are.going to be stained with preccum or worse and taboo thoughts of tasting BSB's cunt juices dripping off that cock filling their minds eye as their breath quickens and their hands race up and down.


Kid, I can personally vouch to you that there are a lot of very real amd very genuine Dominant women here on the forum side of CM. As for BossyShoeBitch herself, I have seen her bury her fist in a womans cunt, driver her heel into a mans cock, and can personaly bet that the only. chance you have of tasting her cunt IS to lick her juices of another mans cock.

That bit of wank aside, read the wisdom she is channeling as each word carries a lot of meaning.



RomulusR -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/16/2011 9:29:30 PM)

Thanks for the advice everyone. I guess I`ll have to look for a Dom who understands I have limits with certain things & will hopefully let me make it up in different ways. Or I guess I may be searching a while......



kalikshama -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/17/2011 9:34:06 AM)

It took me about a year to find a guy whose kinks aligned with mine and had the same relationship goals. I had some fun play partners along the way, and learned a lot from them. I'm willing to do things for my current D that I wouldn't for play partners.

BSB's hawt scenario aside, you have a right to your limits.

Do try networking at local events.

I also learned a lot here on the forums - welcome!





OohAahMrs -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/18/2011 5:37:35 AM)

Hey rom, big fun!



OohAahMrs -> RE: anyone real or non Pro in NJ (10/18/2011 5:38:51 AM)

Hey Dude!



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