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My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:05:50 AM   
PompeyBDSM


Posts: 5
Joined: 10/7/2011
Status: offline 		Hey there,

I was just wondering what people thought of my profile. I have followed all the advice I have been given, for example include face pics, make it clear and well structured.

Any further advice people can give me to have a more successful profile?

:)
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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:18:10 AM   
xxblushesxx


Posts: 9318
Joined: 11/3/2005
From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		I think it's good. Except for the colour changes. The yellow and the white in particular were hard to read. The red on black was good though.

Just out of curiousity, how are you both "unable to accomodate" and looking for a house slave?

Also, it seems you really don't know what you want as in one section you are looking for a live in slave, and then you say that you're not necessarily looking for a relationship. If I were looking, I'd think you are not ready for a relationship just because of your inconsistensies.

You list your interests well (bdsm-wise) but in order to be interested in you as a person first (very important) I'd want to know more about you...the guy...not the switch, sub or master.

Overall, I think it's good, you just need to figure out what you're seeking and be able to clarify that before you can ever hope to find it.

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:19:25 AM   
BKSir


Posts: 4037
Joined: 4/8/2008
From: Salt Lake City, UT
Status: offline 		Honestly, well done I think. That's the kind of profile I like to see. It has a lot of information, but it's almost all pertinent. Very well laid out. Looks like you actually took some time and effort on it.

Best of luck to you here. :)

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:23:19 AM   
PompeyBDSM


Posts: 5
Joined: 10/7/2011
Status: offline 		Thank you both.

I will re-do the colours, add some personal interests and try and iron out the inconsistencies. I had the colour changes to clearly identify different sections but will try and sort that out.

This year I am unable to accommodate, however, next year, I will be renting a new property, I could rent a property specifically with the 24/7 in mind. I should really clarify this. Thank you.

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:24:54 AM   
MistressDarkArt


Posts: 5178
Status: offline 		Good start, Pompey. Observations that might hold someone back from contacting you: you say you can't host but you are OK with a live-in partner you collect rent from so that situation is about as clear as mud. Also, I would use face pics of you that don't include other people. If that's not possible at the very least blur their features so they are not remotely recognizable.

Welcome to CM, and good luck in your search.

ETA: cross-posting while you were replying about your property situation. You might want to make that clear in your profile as well.

< Message edited by MistressDarkArt -- 10/17/2011 11:28:03 AM >

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:30:42 AM   
PompeyBDSM


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Joined: 10/7/2011
Status: offline 		I shall find more pictures and black out the faces of people in the current one.

I have amended the 24/7 situation. I have changed the colours so they alternate red/orange I only added it today, so it doesn't quite go with the theme of the rest of the profile.

All this constructive criticism is very welcome. Thank you.

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:42:25 AM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		I had the same feedback that you are going to address so here is something new:

I'm unsure how a slave interested in a TPE dynamic would feel about a Master who was also interested in being on the same side of the 24/7 kneel. I know of Doms who bottom from time to time, but this is a different mindset. Unless you are absolutely committed to TPE, I'd eliminate or soften it, as this scares lots of people off.

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 11:47:17 AM   
PompeyBDSM


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Joined: 10/7/2011
Status: offline 		Fair enough.

I have always preferred to meet a Dominant if I know that they have a sub side personally. To me, it is less daunting to the sub if I know that the Dominant has experienced it themselves. It allows them to understand the mindset of the sub more as well as have a greater understanding of how much the person can take. That is my personal opinion and I know that others see differently. But I have met many Dom(mes) and the best have been the ones that know how if feels from the other side.

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 12:02:57 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Words cannot describe how nice it is to see someone accepting our "criticism" as constructive, and moving to implement it!

I am not a switch, so perhaps we shall have to agree to disagree, but for me there is a world of difference in a Dom who has bottomed to get experience and one who is actively seeking to be on the slave side of TPE.


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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 12:06:28 PM   
PompeyBDSM


Posts: 5
Joined: 10/7/2011
Status: offline 		I do think I shall have to change the "24/7" section in my profile as it is quite a vague and out of context section. I do see that. Thank you for the compliments guys. Hopefully this thread shall allow me to have a far better profile, with comments from more experienced members. :)

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RE: My profile! - 10/17/2011 12:26:38 PM   
ashjor911


Posts: 7793
Joined: 9/7/2010
From: balcony, having a Smoke
Status: offline 		Welcome To CM

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RE: My profile! - 10/18/2011 5:14:06 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Joined: 7/14/2010
Status: offline 		I never seem to get it up...................................................................Pompey!

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