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ModeratorEleven -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 12:33:23 PM)

Settle down, folks.

XI




LaTigresse -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 12:43:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

Hey I got one to. How about Gay Men and Hetero men, are all more intelligent than Domme Women.




The more I see of the male brain at work the more I begin to believe in the Female Supremacy philosphies...........sheesh




Moloch -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 12:57:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

Settle down, folks.
XI


No!  Food Fight!!!! 
My sexual orientation can beat up your sexual orientation! *throws a pie at LaTigresse*




NastyDaddy -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 1:01:11 PM)

Don't quote me as I have no personal experience, but I've heard that baked pie goes very well with baked head.

At any rate, the basic structure of the military never was, nor has been, and is currently not conducive to same sex sexual lifestyles.

My previous comments which apparently upset a highchair was to demonstrate who runs the military and makes the rules... the high cheese does.

This is true today, decades and centuries ago... the anti-gay stance/posture of the military was not invented yesterday... it is not a new novel idea.

Motorpool... yeah hat's off to em', they do a great job!  




Kedikat -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 1:11:04 PM)

Smarter than the average grunt, comment.
The military is being used and abused in general. They are more a private police force sent to ensure the monetary security of the rich.
Idiots at the top are putting soldiers in harms way with bad planning and resources. In places they should not be.
The US military had a real job to do in Afghanistan. One that was justified in many ways, and doable. With an honorable end when accomplished. But they were robbed of that job. Flipped over to Iraq, to help the rich steal a country. Now two battles are being conducted badly.
A decline in volunteers often reflects how people feel the military is being used, not their respect for the military itself. People will fight for and defend what they believe to be right.

My smarter than the average grunt comment was a direct play off the threads headline. And My feelings about how the military is being used badly.




Pavel -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 1:13:34 PM)

They're called Transportation these days.  But they are ever so handy.  And brains is a dish only to be served raw.

I had a SSGT tell me once that the unit is family, and dateing within the family leads to kids with flippers.  While homosexual relationships may not lead to the flipper children, I still think it's terribly poor form to date within any reasonable unit. Within that context, I follow an even broader don't ask, don't tell, in that I don't want to know anything about the people around me, and their sexual liasons.  It's neither my business, nor should it have any impact on my job.

A military is ultimately forged out of the people of a nation.  It'll never be any more accepting of an idea than the society from which it spings.  In any event I've found less overt objection to homosexuals in the military the higher up the chain of command I've spoken to.




NastyDaddy -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 2:20:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Pavel
... I've found less overt objection to homosexuals in the military the higher up the chain of command I've spoken to.


Ya, most of them at the top of the chain are very lonely and desperately looking for stimulating conversation... so you probably made their day I'm sure.

Everybody in any chain of command knows shit rolls downhill, so their primary agenda is to not rock the boat or make waves.

Typical O-1's through O-6's operate in paranoia of being judged or associated with anything controversial... their whole ticket is geared towards better piecharts and statistics than their predecessors... across the board. Most are so busy kissing ass they wouldn't have time for stimulating convo's with any curious ones below them in the chain.  

No surprise you perceived the farther away from the end of the line you get, the more tolerances you find in attitudes.... distance quite often does that.

If you are or were a butter bar, my sympathies... those poor souls have to salute everybody, and it get's hard on the arm.

I swear though I never saw anyone salute while running any better than a butter bar running for a building when retreat sounded and everyone would stop, face the lowering flag at attention and salute. It could be particularly dangerous to get between a butter bar and a building when retreat sounded.




pahunkboy -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 2:27:39 PM)

We dont live in a country. We live in a corporation. Wait till the masses wake up to the plundered treasury. bush has spent more then all other presidents combined. Corp welfare for big oil. Obscreen profits -big oil- from us peons.

Slavery never went away. The corporation, a legal entity is master. We are the slaves, serfs, squaters.

He who has the gold rules. Name a profession NOT outsourced. Attorneys. Of course. To make rule so as the coporate barrons bilk the public good.

Frontline had a recent show over how pensions have been plunderred.  401k replaces guaranteed payments. Try living on Social Security. Try paying 3k a year in real estate taxes.

Then tell me- you want to send your kids to Iraq-

Shared sacrafice? 

Gag me!

As far as gay- who cares!  When I had surgery- it was not my consern what the dr did in bed. When I went for groceries, same deal. Mechanic same deal.

Dont be afraid of gays. Most simply want to live and let live.

The US dollar is not backed by gold. [since 1967] Backed by petro dollars. China, cuba, vensuala, Iran and others- are trying to change this.

When things collapse in the US- the elite will flee to Europe.

It is all in the plan.

Figthing for a country?  haa!!!!

More like the elite 500 of the world. Whom hide behind corporate shells.

Ild like to ram my foot up 499 of the 500s azz!

hugs to all-





LaTigresse -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/25/2006 2:29:26 PM)

throwing BIG bowl of vanilla pudding at Moloch!




NeedToUseYou -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 8:36:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

Hey I got one to. How about Gay Men and Hetero men, are all more intelligent than Domme Women.




The more I see of the male brain at work the more I begin to believe in the Female Supremacy philosphies...........sheesh



Oh, ok, I guess you only quote the part you don't like.........sheesh. Honestly, why not reread the post, and you will see it is nearly identical to a previous posters quote, but no one seems to have a problem with sexism until it is directed at them.

Like clockwork you reply exactly on que, but ignore the original sexist remark. ok, hmmmm, sure.




NeedToUseYou -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 8:39:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Pavel

Oh, okay, because 1894 applies to today so well.  I'm sure the military has not changed in the slightest in one hundred plus years.  Which, for the record falls well into the "decades" comment I made.  Perhaps in your age, your eyes have become clouded.

I'm glad someone has taken notice of my spelling, and as such, I dedicate this next sentance to you, to show my concern for quality control in my postings.

"speling is 4 lozers lolzor. in teh futur cumpooter wil spel 4 me wit maigc spac ray"

I'm rather unconvinced at your 20 years of service comment.  If only because anytime I say anything someone runs off and claims to be a former retired SEAL Specops Ranger with 25 years of service.  I tend to trust the people who claim they were truck drivers for the National Guard for a couple years a bit more.

And on that note, get back in the kitchen and fix me a pie, as you have no more right to tell me when or what to say, than I to demand you bake me things.



Is this directed at me? It says it's in reply to me.(if not it's best to hit the reply/quote button next to the person you are trying to respond to, because it really doesn't seem to relate to my post at all)




LaTigresse -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 12:01:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

Hey I got one to. How about Gay Men and Hetero men, are all more intelligent than Domme Women.




The more I see of the male brain at work the more I begin to believe in the Female Supremacy philosphies...........sheesh



Oh, ok, I guess you only quote the part you don't like.........sheesh. Honestly, why not reread the post, and you will see it is nearly identical to a previous posters quote, but no one seems to have a problem with sexism until it is directed at them.

Like clockwork you reply exactly on que, but ignore the original sexist remark. ok, hmmmm, sure.



oh hell, get a sense of humour already..............hurry!!! I think K-Mart is having a blue light special!!!




ArtCatDom -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 1:19:55 PM)

I find it interesting this is presented as homophobia.

The don't ask, don't tell policy was instituted to protect gay service members from withhunts and persecution. It has by and large worked. I entered military service soon after the policy was implemented. At the time it was instituted, it was seen by both the media and military alike as a pro-homosexual policy change.

Taking an additional pragmatic view on it, the policy is the best balance between force cohesion and gay rights possible in current times. It will be at least a generation (if not more) before gays will be able to openly serve in the military. It's a simple fact that the bulk of military recruits come from areas where homophobia is very prevelent (such as the urban ghetto and fly-over country Appalachia). Openly gay service members would create a large amount of tension and ruin unit cohesion.

During my time in service, I had a number of military friends "out" themselves to me because anyone who talked to me privately about such things learned quickly I didn't give a rat's ass. Having discussed it with some of them, they were fully aware they were not entering a gay-friendly climate when they joined the service. They knew being publicly out would ruin their military career. It's not like they were lied to by their recruiter and told the barracks were like a gay singles bar on the weekend.

The denial of homosexuals to have full and open rights in the military is certainly wrongheaded. But the problem doesn't start with the military. The military is simply doing the best it can to protect the rights of all soldiers (including gays) while maintaining a viable force. The problem lies in our culture and people. If one day homosexuality is broadly accepted in the United States, then the military will surely follow suit.

Just my thoughts on the matter.

*meow*




ArtCatDom -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 1:30:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy

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ORIGINAL: Pavel
Oh, and Nasty Daddy, I have no idea what officer's training manual you're blabbing on about, unless it's from decades before I was a naughty suggestion from my father to my mother.  On that note, I'm begining to support the idea of manditory military service, if only because so many people talk about the military, without a clue as to how it actually works, or what goes on.  It's just assumed because they can spout what someone else wrote, that they somehow "know" all they need to know.


It matters not whether you have any idea or not, about anything really... but if you have room for more knowledge you can google search "bear considerable watching" and find references to the 1894 Officers' Manual.

As far as my blabbing on... tsk tsk I've had my worthless brain long since before the naughty thoughts of your father, and lived quite comfortably without your's or his unsolicited jugements and drivel.

I'm almost in agreement on the concept of mandatory military service... conscripts if you will, and also mandatory spell checking as your posts are getting worse and worse... put more thought of correctness into them please.

If you are putting your service time up against mine you are dead in the water unless you have 20 years under your belt rainbow.

Get your panties out of a wad and quit mouthing off about your assumptions and delusions.
 


The emphesis says it all.

*meow*




NeedToUseYou -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/26/2006 8:13:53 PM)

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oh hell, get a sense of humour already..............hurry!!! I think K-Mart is having a blue light special!!!


Little smirky thing or smile, works great if you are being comical. [:D][;)].  Not getting the K-Mart thing though. I'll take your word on it. [:D]




NastyDaddy -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/27/2006 12:10:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ArtCatDom
I find it interesting this is presented as homophobia.

The don't ask, don't tell policy was instituted to protect gay service members from withhunts and persecution. It has by and large worked. I entered military service soon after the policy was implemented. At the time it was instituted, it was seen by both the media and military alike as a pro-homosexual policy change.

Taking an additional pragmatic view on it, the policy is the best balance between force cohesion and gay rights possible in current times. It will be at least a generation (if not more) before gays will be able to openly serve in the military. It's a simple fact that the bulk of military recruits come from areas where homophobia is very prevelent (such as the urban ghetto and fly-over country Appalachia). Openly gay service members would create a large amount of tension and ruin unit cohesion.

During my time in service, I had a number of military friends "out" themselves to me because anyone who talked to me privately about such things learned quickly I didn't give a rat's ass. Having discussed it with some of them, they were fully aware they were not entering a gay-friendly climate when they joined the service. They knew being publicly out would ruin their military career. It's not like they were lied to by their recruiter and told the barracks were like a gay singles bar on the weekend.

The denial of homosexuals to have full and open rights in the military is certainly wrongheaded. But the problem doesn't start with the military. The military is simply doing the best it can to protect the rights of all soldiers (including gays) while maintaining a viable force. The problem lies in our culture and people. If one day homosexuality is broadly accepted in the United States, then the military will surely follow suit.


Very well stated but I suspect if you waded back through history to the very origins of mass forces to combat another's mass forces there were issues which began the military position/homophobia, as I said all along it's not a novel concept.

Whether the issues which developed the stance involved actions of same sex play or sex while in uniform, in the foxhole, on the high seas, above the clouds, behind the chow hall, in the dorms, in the head or where ever... they certainly developed.

For the most part the military is an 'after the fact' agency, if something gets.. or is fucked up bad enough... then fix it, beat yourself on the back, get a good report and climb the ladder (ever hear jokes about kneepads?).

Perhaps it stems from organizationally focused totally big picture I had to walk 15 miles uphill both ways perspective like... if I have to suck cock and kiss ass in order to advance in rank/position, then why invite it in for free at the bottom?  [:)] 

The overall military stance has been around for a few decades indeed... on the order of x1000

Funny thing... the way they pray over all your pieces after you blow up, since that stance is also widespread and timeless in the military, one may have something to do with the other???

Did you hear the one about the two drunk sailors that wanted to keep drinking but only had 78 cents between them?  [:D]
   




puella -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/27/2006 4:53:40 PM)

Being gay and in the US military makes about as much sense as being gay and republican... why would you support an organization that publicly and vociferously denounces you as less than equal?




Alumbrado -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/27/2006 6:05:01 PM)

quote:

...The don't ask, don't tell policy was instituted to protect gay service members from withhunts and persecution. It has by and large worked. I entered military service soon after the policy was implemented. At the time it was instituted, it was seen by both the media and military alike as a pro-homosexual policy change.


Not everyone saw it quite that way.

http://www.cammermeyer.com/

quote:

...In 1993 the Congressional passage of Don't Ask Don't Tell led to further witch hunts, murder and abuse of perceived and self-identified gays and lesbians. Over 1000 service members are discharged annually for homosexuality, many because they wanted to be truthful and told their commanders.  






ArtCatDom -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/27/2006 7:46:51 PM)

Emphesis added.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

quote:

...The don't ask, don't tell policy was instituted to protect gay service members from withhunts and persecution. It has by and large worked. I entered military service soon after the policy was implemented. At the time it was instituted, it was seen by both the media and military alike as a pro-homosexual policy change.


Not everyone saw it quite that way.

http://www.cammermeyer.com/

quote:

...In 1993 the Congressional passage of Don't Ask Don't Tell led to further witch hunts, murder and abuse of perceived and self-identified gays and lesbians. Over 1000 service members are discharged annually for homosexuality, many because they wanted to be truthful and told their commanders.  



This does not dispute my assertion it was seen broadly by the military and media as a pro-homosexual reform.

I'd like to see some citations for those further witchhunts and murders. Everything I've seen contradicts those numbers. Especially revealing is the drastic decline in same-sex misconduct investigations and discharges when discounting self-outted soldiers.

A propaganda website without citations and statistics using loaded language is hardly a credible reference, even if its cause is noble.

*meow*




Alumbrado -> RE: Number of gays leaving military rises. (5/28/2006 12:28:16 AM)

It wasn't intended to dispute a few words selected out of your post, it was intended to point out that neither you, or the media get to define other people's life experiences for them....no matter how noble your cause.


But hey, if anyone wants to think that the media is a more credible source on the issue of DADT than Camermeyer and her cited references, far be it from me to wean them from suckling on that glass teat.




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