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Endivius -> RE: submissive here (10/18/2011 11:58:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: bitchdog4master
There is a married sub. male who wants to get together with me to explor his Dom side. I just have the impression that b/c he is a sub. to his wife that he does not have a Dom. side.
Would love some input as I am hesitant and feel it will be a disaster. I do not wish to be a teacher to him.
Thank you kindly
Ok, having read the rest of this rediculous thread I'll play devil's advocate here. Primarily since I'm on retainer...
It's important to define the dynamic, if he wants to be a Dominant to you, and not a top. Feel free to explore provided you are being responsible and that both your SO and his SO are comfortable with you two playing together. Set ground rules you can both adhere to, if sex is going to be involved, make sure all parties are aware of this and it does not interfere with your relationships as they stand. Use protection, no excuses. As for teaching him, you can can completely advoid this by being your naturally submissive self for him.
Be the submissive and see how he takes control. If he's got a Dominant side, he will take the reigns naturally. If he does not, then cut your losses. Being in a D/s relationship is fairly complicated when you have more than two people involved. It does not mean that you can not have a good relationship, you should be aware of the implications and be prepared for a difficult road. It might start out roses and turn to shit real fast. Be smart, do not get caught up in sub frenzy and do not let your desires overcome your common sense and judgement. Remember, that you are both married and have responsibilities outside of your kinky desires.
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