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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet If you are buying a house with a friend, make sure you have a written co tenancy or co ownership agreement with that person, discussing who is responsible for what, how your relative interests in the house are determined, and what the process for dispute resolution is if it all goes terribly wrong. Make sure the agreement is done in accordance with the laws of your state. Also, take into consideration what happens to the house if something happens to one of you, like one of you dies or is unable to hold up their end of the bargain. Talk to a real estate lawyer in your state. I know, I know, nothing will go wrong. It is going to be just great. But, you asked about things you should think about, and that is my answer, based on being involved in about three disputes between co owners in the last year. Profitable (for me) but nasty. We have already discussed the tenency issues. Should either of us die, the other gets the house. He has no family and my son is the type that would try to take the house from him. I don't want that. I know what you mean about when things go wrong. Been there with a family estate. That's one of the reasons we are looking for a house that has enough space. "D" does a lot of modeling (you know, like building scale cars and stuff) and he needs a space just for that, because it isn't going to dominate the living room like it does in his house now. The guy really doesn't have a mean bone in his body and should be more worried about what I might do, lol. In any case, we talked about it for quite a while and with my health, this is the best option for me since when I get sick (not even an "if" anymore), there is someone who will take care of me. (emphasis added) With the market the way it is, the price point we are looking at with the down payment is going to give us a mortgage of maybe $500.00 a month (with taxes and insurance). He is on permanent disability, and I'm about to be, so the affordability will be relatively easy. That's why we have concluded that now is the best time to do this. We are going to have to have a discussion about the fact that I'm putting the whole down payment in, and he is bringing the good credit, but until we find something, I'm not going to go there. I know nothing about the law. However I was the person to take care of my woman during here fight with cancer. So I believe that the part I put in bold above should be addressed NOW! I think that the structure of how you and your partner take title will become critical if/when either of you becomes ill. If you are on record as owning property the medical providers can and will come after it to satisfy any debts. I was listening to NPR yesterday and they had a program on about long term care and people losing all their assets. I think any time and or money put into structuring taking the title in the "safest" way would be time and money well spent. I hope you enjoy your new home for a long, long time.
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