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Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 2:20:06 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		Hiya, I'm new(ish) here, heard a lot about the site so thought I'd check it out properly :)
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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 2:31:09 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 2:37:59 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		thank you :)

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 4:01:34 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		By your greeting i'd say you were from that island off of the west coast, where's the grass skirt?

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 5:13:24 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		try Geordieland lol

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 7:32:21 AM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		had to peek into your profile to see for sure if you are male or a female (in my defence there is alot of crossdresserds here who look sexy)
Welcome To CM

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 8:05:41 AM   
RexDarcy


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CollarMe. Enjoy the forums and good luck on your search.

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 8:40:08 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		Can I just ask a question that's bugging me because I'm getting quite a lot of abuse on here. Is Collarme actually a BDSM dating site? I was led to believe that it wasn't. Quite a few so called "doms" are getting offended because I'm owned and collared and not actually looking for anything. I'm relatively new to all of this (only been on the edges of this lifestyle for approx 3 years, and only 7 months into a proper D/s relationship) and I'm wanting to educate myself and read up on it all.

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 8:44:30 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well it is part of the virtual web. make sure you dont have looking for anything checked, make yourself 99 years old and 750 pounds, 8 feet tall, and put up a very vanilla pic, and you will see a great amount of reduction in scabrous louts.

Scabrous louts are not confined to CollarMe, they are on all websites and exist in all the real worlds as well.



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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 9:07:37 AM   
yourdarkdesire


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Status: offline 		You are new to the site -- so you will get a lot of trollish mail for a while - just ignore it - it will die down as time passes.

And Welcome!

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:08:09 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		But is this place an actual "dating site" for BDSM? I'm being accused of wasting peoples' time being on here. I'm also alarmed and disgusted by the level of aggression and anger on here. It doesn't seem like a particularly friendly site :(

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:11:02 AM   
searching4mysir


Posts: 2757
Joined: 6/16/2011
Status: offline 		The profile section is set up like a dating site, the forums not so much (they are more community-based).

Welcome to CM.

I have found that you will go through a period of time as "fresh meat" where "Doms" only look at the photo and not the profile and send a canned message.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 10/19/2011 11:13:28 AM >

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:15:31 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		I have to clarify when I said about it not being friendly on here I meant the messages I was receiving and not the boards

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:16:10 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Lots of people are just here for the forums and say that in their profile. Do change your age to 99 and weight to 999 and wait for the traffic to die down after your newness wears off.

While collarme is the dating side, feel free to block/delete/report anyone who is abusive.

Collarchat is the discussion side, and can get abusive too, but in a different way, and that gets cleaned up by our saintly moderators. It's mostly a lot of fun though - strap on a thick skin and enjoy!

You can keep that (lovely) avatar here and have a different (or no) picture there.

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:17:42 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		I like the way you put Doms in inverted commas lol. Yeah, some of them don't act in a very Dom like manner!

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:19:12 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		I vote you keep the avatar.

Welcome.

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:19:15 AM   
GreedyTop


Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		take ROn's (mnottertail)advice..

ignore the messages.. many of them will be accusing you of being fake unless you "get on cam to verify".

it's kinda a rite of passge...

stay here, on the dark side *evil grin*

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:19:43 AM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		Kalikshama - aah I didn't realise the two were seperate!

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 11:37:31 AM   
Sashareign


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Joined: 10/9/2011
From: Land of the lost. My collar marking me as - found.
Status: offline 		thebeginner,

(Borrowing from GreedyTop,) Dark Side FTW!

Some people get hit harder than others with mail they don't want. Sounds like you have gotten hit hard. Probably that nice picture. There are all kinds of mail preferences. Maybe you should check those out. Otherwise, it is a pretty friendly site, that said, there are tens of thousands of users, and not everyone watched Sesame Street and learned their manners. If you can hang in there it can be more than worth it.

Welcome!

-Sasha

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RE: Thought I'd say Aloha - 10/19/2011 12:09:21 PM   
thebeginner


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Status: offline 		aaah I wondered why so many were accusing me of being a fake, so that was their dastardly plan lol.

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