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I have just found that the OP has not been on since the OP. ( you get that right ? ) Three days not reading the replies, after this being his only post after joining 11 months ago. I know CM has the option of emailing you if someone replies, but if I am not mistaken to read the actual reply you have to come to the site. However, the profile is still active and viewable.
As such I think we should simply use this thread as a springboard to discuss this subject. I was very seriously into chastity a few years ago. I can tell you a few things from experience. Since then I have come to the realization that I am primarily dominant, but will enjoy the bottom as sort of a release. But more specifically, possibly because of anatomy, males may get to like the chastity device more.
Consider this, you are on bottom tied spread eagled to the bed while the top is going to ravage you. You cannot do a damn thing about it because of the restraints. Well you could simply be ordered to keep your arms and legs in the position without restraints. I think many can see that this would not be as much fun. It is the PHYSICAL impossibility that intrigues the bottom. Many who do not get into chastity don't seem to see the similarity.
Ordering a bottom not to touch him/herself is not the same thing, just as ordering him/her to hold their hands behind their back is not the same as handcuffing them.
Howeer nobody wants to be tied down forever, and nobody wants to be in a chastity device forever. They just think they do. Even if they were to go through with it, it would be no good. Eventually all sex drive would disappear and things would atrophy. In other words, the orgasm is what impels the engorgement of the erogenous zones. Remove that and just as if you were to sew one arm to your body, the body wold adapt and simply live without it. I deem that undesirable because I think it is harder to get back than to lose, unlike weight. You know how easy it is to gain and hard to lose, this is the same thing but in reverse. An actual psysiological reaction along with the psychological. Many do not realize how much the two are interrelated.
There were some pages up about a Woman named Corrie Russell. She had been into chastity for some time and I guess started to like it too much. To each her own. I'm sure she was no novice when she had a custom permanent chastity belt built for her. The website is gone but I might have some of the pictures. There were mechanical details about the locking mechanism. It was like a ratchet but with no release mechanism. Of course it could be cut off but if you know how tight an actual florentine style chastity belt fits you know it's not something to take lightly. You will have to find someone to do it for you as you are not likely to be able to do it yourself without injury. But the details were there and a series of pictures of her putting it on. I wonder how she is doing.
http://www.beltedgirls.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=29
This I found in a quick search for corrie russell chastity, the first of the first three photos is a drawing of the locking mechanism, the third of the second three I believe is one of her actually putting it on.
Now back when I was really into it I went seven weeks in a 3000 with a tight harness. In a way I would have to say that I felt that it was time to get out. It took some time to become fully functional again. I can still get a hardon like a teenager, but right after getting out of that I was not only sore, but it wasn't like it once was. It took time actually - to recover. I can say this, getting used to being out was comparable to getting used to being in.
Another point to understand is the physical aspect of this. To go long term you need a certain body chemistry. In my case I had to take long baths, a shower just didn't cut it. There has to be enough access to get some soap in there as well as to rinse because you don't want constant contact with soap. Baby oil works well. A male has to find a way to work the member in and out of the cage slightly because if that doesn't happen there is no cleaning. It is not easily accomplished, but it can be done. I do believe it is better to have an acidic body chemistry but don't take that to the bank.
For females there is a whole different set of problems. From what I 've read (I have not kept a female in a belt personally) the belt should be removed preiodically for many reasons, in fact Neosteel sells a restraint kit which they actually call an inspection kit. But a female cannot douche or use tampons and actually I wonder how a napkin would work. I doubt it would work well and the cleaning aspect becomes even worse.
Long term chastity is a pain in the ass, really. But the point really is, the device that enforces it is as important as any restraint. It's like a collar in a way, it just goes around a different part of the body.
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