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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/19/2011 10:16:00 PM   
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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 4:36:36 AM   
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But yeah, it would be interesting to hear both sides for sure.

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I don’t think hearing the other side would be of interest to me, the fact that she wouldn’t jack him off in the bar and then give him head in the van is both illogical and totally irrational. A divorced man that misrepresented his marital status did not have sufficient funds to make the evening outstanding long and pleasurable is of little consequence but his refusal to put his tongue where she pisses just seems she was being unreasonable and far, far too demanding.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 6:19:17 AM   
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The fact that you both have a problem with alcohol is not sufficient compatibility in my book.


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 6:41:42 AM   
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That's a dick wad and the type of jerks I meet.


Maybe you should meet them a few times in real life just to get to know each other. Then if you still want to fuck, set up a date. Personally, if some guy said he wanted to meet me and maybe we would have sex on the first date, I wouldn't waste my time with him.


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I'm with Ailey. Next time don't get drunk. Don't date drunks.
The fact that you both have a problem with alcohol is not sufficient compatibility in my book.



The fact? She made a post describing two people out bar hopping and that makes it a "fact that they both have a problem". I am not sure I am following the reasoning here.

Note: the above does not mean I think she wasn't an idiot for going out drinking with a total stranger. I just don't understand how that proves anything to be "a fact"


And just for curiosity sake....to the op....Who is the grey haired lady in your profile and does she know you are using her pic?


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 7:14:30 AM   
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his refusal to put his tongue where she pisses just seems she was being unreasonable and far, far too demanding.



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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 7:29:27 AM   
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Any who, this man and I had a long convo on the phone, we decided to meet with the intention of just getting out for the night and maybe fucking.

...NO PUSSY LICKING, NO DICK SUCKIN'


Next time you plan to hook up, you might want to establish sexual compatibility before hand.

Also, if the not-yet-divorced thing was an issue for you, a public record search would have cleared that up. Of course, you'll have to know his last name and county.












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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 7:32:34 AM   
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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 7:37:51 AM   
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but his refusal to put his tongue where she pisses just seems she was being unreasonable and far, far too demanding.


As would his insistence that she put her mouth where HE pisses for no other reason that he spent some money on a date with her.

She might be a sub, but she isn't HIS sub. She owes him nothing.

This being said, I think they were both being a bit of a jerk. I never drink alcohol on a first meeting, kinky or otherwise. It is far too unsafe.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 8:35:52 AM   
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Sounds like her problem was the (i assume) before unknown wife and kids.Though that would be a night ender right that moment for me.



As far as I'm concerned, the evening would be over then too.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 9:02:40 AM   
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Sounds like her problem was the (i assume) before unknown wife and kids.Though that would be a night ender right that moment for me.

As far as I'm concerned, the evening would be over then too.

OMG.. the evening would not have even happened if it had been me, no where near. No matter what the guy claims, the fact the guy is "visiting" the area and looking for a female just screams MARRIED CHEATER to me...

YUK!!!! block, delete!

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 9:05:17 AM   
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Sounds like her problem was the (i assume) before unknown wife and kids.Though that would be a night ender right that moment for me.



As far as I'm concerned, the evening would be over then too.


I think, being a bit of a smart ass, I would have whipped out my cell phone and said "Let's call her and see if she minds me dating you before the ink is dry...I wouldn't want to be subpoenaed in a nasty divorce case". Chances are he would have been out of there so fast the skid marks in his shorts would have had skid marks.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 9:23:42 AM   
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they can't get very enthused.
Much sulking ensues.
Almost certainly made for one another.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 2:04:56 PM   
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Got you beat. Mine was all about praying. Not that I mind a prayer. However we prayed for a safe drive to the restaurant. We prayed for arriving safe. He took me to KFC where he did the ordering, a chicken meal for him and a chicken biscuit for me. We prayed for our meal. We prayed for a safe trip home. We prayed again for safe arrival. As he walked me to my door he informed me that his prayers had been answered and that God told him we should have sex and we should have a prayer thanks. I prayed him right off the property.


That was funny.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 3:18:19 PM   
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The fact? She made a post describing two people out bar hopping and that makes it a "fact that they both have a problem". I am not sure I am following the reasoning here.

Note: the above does not mean I think she wasn't an idiot for going out drinking with a total stranger. I just don't understand how that proves anything to be "a fact"



She meets some stranger who has only talked to her about having sex with her. She gets drunk, she lets him drive while he's drunk. She doesn't use any common sense. And she's well known at all the bars.

You don't get into a stranger's car sober, yet alone drunk. You don't let a drunk drive. You don't meet the first time to get smashed.

The fact that this to her is the appropriate blind date says to me she's too heavily focused on alcohol. Otherwise, why not meet for coffee instead and see if there's any chemistry instead of agreeing to have sex beforehand?


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 3:32:27 PM   
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Sounds like her problem was the (i assume) before unknown wife and kids.Though that would be a night ender right that moment for me.



As far as I'm concerned, the evening would be over then too.


And the afternoon!


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 6:21:21 PM   
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Keep it rolling!!!  LOL

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 6:25:25 PM   
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The fact? She made a post describing two people out bar hopping and that makes it a "fact that they both have a problem". I am not sure I am following the reasoning here.

Note: the above does not mean I think she wasn't an idiot for going out drinking with a total stranger. I just don't understand how that proves anything to be "a fact"



She meets some stranger who has only talked to her about having sex with her. She gets drunk, she lets him drive while he's drunk. She doesn't use any common sense. And she's well known at all the bars.

You don't get into a stranger's car sober, yet alone drunk. You don't let a drunk drive. You don't meet the first time to get smashed.

The fact that this to her is the appropriate blind date says to me she's too heavily focused on alcohol. Otherwise, why not meet for coffee instead and see if there's any chemistry instead of agreeing to have sex beforehand?



While I don't think anything about her "date" made sense, you are as usual making your high brow, stuck up, opinionated assumptions.

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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 7:39:37 PM   
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I'm loving all the "ASS"umptions and comments.

Keep it rolling!!!  LOL

Then please edumacate us on the points that were misread or misquoted?  You didn't have a good time, this isn't the first time, so isn't it about time you changed your dating tactics?  Or changed the screening process in which you agree to meet men?  Juuuuuuuuuuuuuuust askin.............


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 10:25:53 PM   
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I'm loving all the "ASS"umptions and comments.

Keep it rolling!!!  LOL



Well we can only go with what you told us in the OP. But if you have something to add that will make some sense of the evening, by all means, do share


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RE: Sort of a date? - What not to do - 10/20/2011 10:29:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		so then what you're saying is that what you told us is not the truth....maybe some exaggerating on your part to get some kind of point across as to how bad you thought the date was when in reality it was nothing like that at all?



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