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rockback -> Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 7:57:37 AM)

Just wondering why so many Domme's stick their middle finger up? Its not a sign of power... and to be honest we all can stick our middle fingers up. It just makes me laugh, stern faces on with the finger up, its something a 16 year old girl does to her dad when she's tol dshe cant go out with friends!

If there is a genuine reason for this please do let me know :)

Thanks




Marc2b -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:03:16 AM)

So what's the current Vegas line that this is another incarnation of Kevin? 3:1? 5:1?

ETA: to the OP. If you are not the fabled Kevin then you have my apologies and I give you this friendly advice: Stand Back! You're a newbie who is about to get the full newbie treatment. Try not to take it personal. Just think of it as your hazing ritual.







mnottertail -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:04:36 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: rockback

Just wondering why so many Domme's stick their middle finger up? Its not a sign of power... and to be honest we all can stick our middle fingers up. It just makes me laugh, stern faces on with the finger up, its something a 16 year old girl does to her dad when she's tol dshe cant go out with friends!

If there is a genuine reason for this please do let me know :)

Thanks


Because most 18-21 year old children stick their middle finger up to look tough. And that is what you are dealing with.




myotherself -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:21:35 AM)

...and it's not just the girls - the boys do it too.

It means they have no manners and a bad attitude.





rockback -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:22:36 AM)

Sorry lads i just realised i've posted this in Masters! which is ok because i do want a general opinion on this, but i will post it in Mistress' as well and let them speak for themselves!




rockback -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:23:56 AM)

and lass now lol my apologies myotherself :) x




GreedyTop -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:24:57 AM)

dont worry aBbout that.. everyone pretty much posts across the forums :) PLUS - the Mods take a dim view of cross-posting. BEsides, I seriously doubt that many of the women who do post those pics are spending time on THIS side of CM LOL




rockback -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:31:11 AM)

to be brutally honest i'm losing faith with this site and the women on it, is there no one who's in it for the right reasons no more? rather than being petty prostitutes?




JanahX -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:32:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: rockback

to be brutally honest i'm losing faith with this site and the women on it, is there no one who's in it for the right reasons no more? rather than being petty prostitutes?


go tell it to the waaambulance .... cry baby




tazzygirl -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:34:57 AM)

I would say many people have many reasons for being on this site.... I would hazard a guess many of those reasons have nothing to do with money or sex.




GreedyTop -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:36:17 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: rockback

to be brutally honest i'm losing faith with this site and the women on it, is there no one who's in it for the right reasons no more? rather than being petty prostitutes?



oh jeez, hon..


yeah, there are a large number of non-pros here..

my suggestion? click and hide the ones asking for money, and move on to the next one. PATIENCE is a virtue!

Remember, the number of males subs are legion, compared to femdoms. You've gotta really make yourself stand out to get noticed.

GO to the ask a mistress forum, READ the FAQs...take them to heart :)




myotherself -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:36:36 AM)

Well Rockback - according to your profile you live not far from me, in Middlesborough.

Rather than rely on this place to find people, why not get out and go to one of the local munches? It's a good crowd there, and I'm sure you'd meet a lot of people to befriend. And relationships start with friendship, right?





rockback -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:45:37 AM)

good point myotherself! thanks for helping and as for JanahX stop hiding behind a keyboard abusing people you jellyfish! you're making yourself look like a clown!




JanahX -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 8:47:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: rockback

good point myotherself! thanks for helping and as for JanahX stop hiding behind a keyboard abusing people you jellyfish! you're making yourself look like a clown!


that was awesome ... keep up the good work!!

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crazyml -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 9:35:57 AM)

<chortle!>

Hey OP... don't give up - there really are some brilliant friends to me made here on CM, and as has been said there're plenty of really fab non-pro dommes.

That said, while saying "it's a competitive market" might make it seem a little transactional, the really superb non-pro dommes get a bazillion emails from a host of horny sub types so you will need to be really clear about what you would bring (both kink-wise and vanilla-wise) to a relationship.

My advice is to take the advice of both GreedyTop and myotherself...

In the online context - just aggressively hide profiles that aren't a match, and make a real effort in your intro email to any dommes you contact.

In the r/l context... nothing beats going to a munch for getting to know real people.

Good luck.




littlewonder -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 9:43:40 AM)

first...sticking a middle finger up makes them look rough and tough or so they think. In reality it just makes them look like little girls.

Second..how long have you been here? It took me 8 years to find Master on here.

Patience is a virtue.





kalikshama -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 9:54:20 AM)

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So what's the current Vegas line that this is another incarnation of Kevin? 3:1? 5:1?


Kevin doesn't capitalize...




HannahLynn -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 9:58:46 AM)

and signs his posts 'kevin" even when his name is "mark"




Hisprettybaby -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 10:12:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: rockback

Just wondering why so many Domme's stick their middle finger up? Its not a sign of power... and to be honest we all can stick our middle fingers up. It just makes me laugh, stern faces on with the finger up, its something a 16 year old girl does to her dad when she's tol dshe cant go out with friends!

If there is a genuine reason for this please do let me know :)

Thanks

I think they're acting like spoiled little girls and think that means "Domme." Really all it means is spoiled little girl. I see that screwed up face and middle finger and it's so NOT impressive.

quote:

ORIGINAL: rockback
to be brutally honest i'm losing faith with this site and the women on it, is there no one who's in it for the right reasons no more? rather than being petty prostitutes?

Of course there are. It's just that they aren't as loud and in-your-face as those middle fingers are. When you see those profiles with the bad attitudes, etc, block/hide them and keep looking. Eventually you'll find the right woman.




rockback -> RE: Sticking Your Middle Finger Up (10/20/2011 10:16:30 AM)

HannahLyn - you're straight in with the derogatory terms, it just screams lack of tact! i asked a question, to which you have to get abusive!




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