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For those who have full-time or nearly full-time slaves... - 10/22/2011 6:07:52 PM

Sherrr

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What daily chores and duties do they perform for you?

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 6:21:04 PM

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My last long term, full time sub (now deceased unfortunately) would get bored pretty easy. He would test boundaries for attention so I would always have to try new things with him. He would learn to cook new meals, do my online shopping, learn to fix things around the house, how to eat properly at a table (how to fully set it formally), etc. Often I would have him wash my hair or shave my legs for me (it was honestly something he loved and depriving him would make him sad). If he was really behaving well he would get to dress me, brush my hair or, his favorite, put on my thigh highs and heels.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 6:25:28 PM

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all of them, i don't do a fucking thing around here unless i want to, other than the cooking, i'm better at that than any of them. between them, cheri and heather take care of everything else. that's sort of the whole fucking point isn't it?

they do the laundry, they wash the dishes, they do the tidying up, they wash the floors, they run the vacuum, they make the beds, they do the groceries, they do damn near everything, that's their fucking job.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 6:36:58 PM

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Sorry to hear about your loss, Matilda. Thank you both for the responses. So do you have a set routine every day?

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 6:37:53 PM

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In a service sub relationship that's how it works, but be aware that not all submissives are looking for this. For example, my submissive was not necessarily a service sub but he did take over a lot of the household duties because I worked more than he did. Be careful not to assume that a LT submissive=a service slave

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 6:44:33 PM

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Don't I know it! Call me an ass, but in my opinion no "slave" is worthwhile if he thinks he's too special to clean or do the laundry.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 7:10:43 PM

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So do you have a set routine every day?

no we have no routine really, the three of them are in school so they have variable schedules, suze works part time as well, so that changes a lot, and i do a lot of extra shifts. so we don't even always know in the morning who the fuck will be home for supper on any given day, so any sort of real routine is out of the question.

we do have a few sort of rituals we do try to follow. we try to never shower alone, one of either heather or cheri will join me or suze to wash us and assist us, of course they get washed and "assisted" at the same time.

we try to never do our own hair.

one of the things we do do every night is have a fire, we lay around on the futons in front of the fireplace and talk or fool around, or read, or whatever, but we just be together for a few hours, often we fall asleep there. that is where we are right now. i'm posting and reading the posts to them, cheri is painting her toenails, and heather and suze are roasting fucking marshmallows <can i get a hell yea!!> and we are all gabbing and giggling about shit.

we also make every effort to all be together for sunday dinner, its not always a fucking formal sit down dinner, but it is another time set aside for the four of us to be together and to talk. we often have formal discussions then as well, where we discuss the relationship as a fucking whole, and bring up problems or issues and try work them the fuck out as a team.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 7:13:39 PM

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Sounds nice. My dumb joking side refuses to be suppressed and asks whether you also have pillow fights.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 7:27:38 PM

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Everything. My girls do everything for Me. if we are traveling they are to be sure everything is as I require and that all of our luggage is cared for. they oversee all food preparation and tidying of My homes while we are in them unless there is a reason it becomes too much for them then they are required to ask Me permission to bring in outside assistance. certainly it is whatever I require. their world and entire focus is on Me and making My life most comfortable. I am a very lucky Woman.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 7:34:16 PM

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My dumb joking side refuses to be suppressed and asks whether you also have pillow fights.

fuck yes!!

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:00:02 PM

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Have them clean everything (floors, walls, ceilings, bathroom and so on) dust, vacuum, laundry, cook meals and if they can't cook teach them, shine shoes, iron clothes, lint roll clothes if needed, do the dishes, clean appliances, alphabetize movies and books, change the bedding, clean the car inside and out, clean out hair brushes, wash animals (if any), fold clothes, fluff pillows, wash windows, water plants, garden, mow the lawn, pull weeds, throw away trash and wash out trash cans...the list goes on and on. Be creative...

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:03:19 PM

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Opinions will differ but in my home it would depend on if you are talking about a slave or a sub(in my home/opinion they are different things) The livein sub is in control of many things day to day. He wakes up first. He gets my meds. He wakes up the rest of the house. Feeds pets(real pets no people) He does a lot of things that have to do with the kids that are often in my home. On a different level a slave would not have as much interaction with people. Slave does chores livin goes shoping with me. Slave scrubs floors, livein makes food and eats with the family. What any person within a house does will differ from house to house and person to person.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:08:39 PM

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When I was full-time....
Cleaned everything, cooked (in my limited capabilities in that area..), shopped for the groceries, laundry, answered the phone, errands, waited on guests (when we had parties--also did formal table service), cleaned leathers, shined boots, and any other duties as assigned. When in my relationship, while not full-time, I did all of the above plus yardwork, washed/maintained the cars, house repairs, handled bills and household finances, arranged trips/travel and drove once I got a vehicle.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:12:45 PM

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alphabetize movies and books

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:17:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HannahLynn

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My dumb joking side refuses to be suppressed and asks whether you also have pillow fights.
fuck yes!!

Oh hell to the fucking yes.
What could be better than lesbian pillowfighting?
Somewhere, Blutowski's ladder is falling backwards from the window....

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 8:30:25 PM

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I had the same mental image!

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/22/2011 9:29:36 PM

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Heather's choice for the
Sunny's Quote of the Day
goes to
Kana

For this giggle-inducing reference

Oh hell to the fucking yes.
What could be better than lesbian pillowfighting?
Somewhere, Blutowski's ladder is falling backwards from the window....

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/23/2011 4:37:40 AM

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We live together and simply broke it down into traditional gender roles - I cook and clean, he goes to Home Depot, fixes things, takes care of the cars - which suits our talents and proclivities. He came into the relationship with tools and I with kitchen gear.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/23/2011 7:06:56 AM

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Sorry to hear of your loss matilda :(

My late M had me help with his projects, clean up the workshop, do laundry, take care of his miles of hair (favorite thing!), we would cook together so neither of us was really "tasked" with that. I ran a variety of errands for him, picked up the house, made the bed, cleaned toys, etc.

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RE: For those who have full-time or nearly full-time sl... - 10/23/2011 7:39:55 AM

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As to whether we had a daily schedule: No more than a vanilla couple. Like I said he bored easily and would get distracted. He constantly needed new tasks and I think mindless cleaning is hardly worth the effort of being a Domme. If I want a slave to clean for me I'll just hire a Merry Maid. I'm not really the service slave kind of woman (blame my mother for raising me to be self-sufficient). I usually only put him to tasks where he could learn something, it could open up into a scene or he secretly enjoyed it (if he was behaving himself).

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