Blackmail? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message

orse -> Blackmail? (10/25/2011 9:54:20 PM)

Are there many women out there who have a secret desire to be blackmailed? I know it can be frought with danger, but...?



peppermint -> RE: Blackmail? (10/25/2011 10:05:34 PM)

Blackmail is illegal.  One must walk a fine line between kinky blackmail and the real thing.  When the victim says it's over, the blackmailer best better listen or there could be legal consequences.  In other words, it's not an easy thing to accomplish.

For this to work you both should be really good friends. 



HannahLynn -> RE: Blackmail? (10/25/2011 10:40:15 PM)

i wouldn't say many, yes of course there are some, no matter how fucked up an idea you have, somewhere there is somebody into it.

however, a word to the wise here; blackmailing the wrong fucking person can cause extensive hospitalization or even death. tread carefully, really, really fucking carefully.



gungadin09 -> RE: Blackmail? (10/25/2011 11:33:39 PM)

i haven't.

pam



myotherself -> RE: Blackmail? (10/25/2011 11:47:30 PM)

Wherever there's a kinker, there's a kinkee.

So yes, there'll be women out there who want this.

However, judging by the contents of my inbox over the past few months there are plenty of guys out there who have this as a fetish.

Which means you're going to have to do a hell of a lot better than a one line, misspelled profile to attract women to your particular branch of 'Blackmail R Us'.



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 12:11:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: orse

Are there many women out there who have a secret desire to be blackmailed? I know it can be frought with danger, but...?


I haven't known of a woman into this kink yet, but over the years dozens of male subs have asked to be blackmailed.  This is a kink I am just not into, from either side.

I'm Domme.  When I want something from my sub I just TELL HIM to do whatever it is I want.  [;)]  No need to blackmail him for anything.  If I pushed him beyond his limits by threatening to remove his collar...I would have an insecure, scared sub on my hands and resentment would start to pile up.  I like him to remain joyfully obsessed with pleasing me.

It might be hawt with a friendly bottom, but wouldn't it get old rather fast to keep this as part of a D/s dynamic...forever...? 



RaspberryLemon -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 2:49:59 AM)

I was once witness to a thread somewhere (can't recall where) where a (supposed) female was talking about how she'd like to be blackmailed and have it be as "real" as possible ad was asking advice for how to make that happen.

I think it's stupid but yes, there are people out there who are into it. As a general rule if you can ask "Is there someone out there into ________?" the answer is always yes.



TraciTv -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 3:41:54 AM)

so long as the blackmail is as coerced as 'forced' feminization, there is nothing wrong with it.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 4:12:00 AM)

Many don't get the point of "blackmail" -- it's a roleplay which revolves around "make me do things I really want to do, but am ashamed of, and so therefore need to be 'forced' into."

It's not unlike an interrogation scene roleplay. There are the same elements of force, fear, and (possibly) debasement and degradation.





xxblushesxx -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 4:17:57 AM)

It's mostly men who have this fetish. I haven't met a woman who does, but I'm sure there are a handful out there.



DarkSteven -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 4:26:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

Which means you're going to have to do a hell of a lot better than a one line, misspelled profile to attract women to your particular branch of 'Blackmail R Us'.


I agree with the lagomorph.  Blackmail involves a lot of work and ability to roleplay well.  Your profile and post don't show a tendency toward either.



searching4mysir -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 4:48:18 AM)

Seriously, Dude, with a profile like that you will be lucky to get laid at all. When I was searching, I hid profiles like yours so they would never come up in a search again.

I don't know any women who are into "blackmail" and I've read quite a few male profiles who seem to think it isn't all in roleplay. You aren't the only guy who wants to play that way.



crazyml -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 4:52:35 AM)

No, I don't think that there are many, but I've no doubt that there are some.

As you pointed out it can indeed be "frought" [sic] with danger, and you'd want to be absolutely sure that there were limits, and a get-out (or some safeword) in place in order to be sure that you didn't end up in court.

Are you asking because it's something you'd like to try?

I would say that if you're looking for someone to contact you, you might want do do a little work on your profile, one of my kinky friends has just taken a look at it and her response was "Blackmail would be the only way that someone who can't spell obedient would get a date with me".



DesFIP -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 7:21:23 AM)

I've never heard of a female interested in this. It's always a guy who wants to be blackmailed. Not saying that someone, somewhere, isn't but the chance of you finding her are slim and none

And yeah, that profile screams LOSER. There have been threads upon threads of how to write a worthwhile one. Instead of spending all your time looking at wank fodder, why not invest some in how to get a real woman.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Blackmail? (10/26/2011 8:26:14 AM)

Never met a one, though I have encountered many men who are into it. As a roleplay in a scene, it can be fun. The days of polaroids made it more exciting, of course--digital technology makes it a little too "real".



Matildax21x -> RE: Blackmail? (10/27/2011 8:19:02 AM)

I have encountered several men into blackmail. I believe it is a fantasy that can never be safely and sanely realized in it's truest form, at least with me. The fantasy is only good if you are doing it against your will and since people who are into it want it to happen, really as close as you can get is "graymail". Like rape fantasy, when done safely, you can create an illusion that is pretty close though!



Missokyst -> RE: Blackmail? (10/27/2011 9:05:36 AM)

Interesting.. I have also noticed this is more of a male fantasy. So far I haven't met even one female who professes to be into a blackmail fetish, though I suppose there must be one somewhere. Unless it is a guy pretending to be a female who wants to be blackmailed.
This definitely suggests a different thread.



Page: [1]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
3.198242E-02