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BluMac -> Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 1:42:58 PM)

I've noticed that some doms wear a tight collar/band around their necks sometimes, does that have a particular meaning behind it, in comparison to the submissive's collar. I see it sometimes in the vanilla world, so it may be a fashion thing.

Here's an example:

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LillyBoPeep -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 1:49:51 PM)

i'd say it's fashion; no different from wearing a choker neclace. 



Tantriqu -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 2:00:31 PM)

Remember, this is pic is vanilla wank-fodder porn, which has little or nothing to do with real life let alone D/s.
As a straight female lifestyle Domme, I wear a subtle pendant with a particular symbol on it, and would NEVER wear anything resembling a collar.



stef -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 2:09:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BluMac

I've noticed that some doms wear a tight collar/band around their necks sometimes, does that have a particular meaning behind it, in comparison to the submissive's collar.

Yes.  It means they wanted to wear it.  For some people collars are just fashion accessories and not some BDSM wedding ring replacement.




peppermint -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 2:49:18 PM)

Doninants can wear whatever they wish to wear. They don't have to have a meaning for every fashion choice they make.



BluMac -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 4:51:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Remember, this is pic is vanilla wank-fodder porn, which has little or nothing to do with real life let alone D/s.
As a straight female lifestyle Domme, I wear a subtle pendant with a particular symbol on it, and would NEVER wear anything resembling a collar.


Ah, thanks for your input, I agree that this pic is vanilla but I wouldn't say it's 'wank-fodder porn', personally I consider that dom-collar (that is usually a choker without a ring) pretty dang hot, I've seen other ladies wear them in the vanilla world, like Harley Quinn! Oh and this is one my favorite pics, I know the dom lady's size is mostly an illusion because she's standing closer than the slave, and he's hunched over while she's standing up straight, and she's got super-high heels on, lol. Still she still taller than him, I love that in femdom stuff!



MistressLilliana -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 5:44:45 PM)

I love wearing collars but I'm also Goth...it's more of a fashion thing for me



BluMac -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 5:55:01 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

Doninants can wear whatever they wish to wear. They don't have to have a meaning for every fashion choice they make.

Why are you all defensive, geez, no where did I say dominants have to wear collars, or have to have a meaning to what they wear, I was just wondering if there was a meaning. Seriously, lighten up and stop being a jerk.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 6:16:14 PM)

Nice picture, I see thw choker as fashion. I used to have a gorgeous leather choker with a chainfall hanging from it.



stef -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 6:22:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BluMac

Why are you all defensive, geez, no where did I say dominants have to wear collars, or have to have a meaning to what they wear, I was just wondering if there was a meaning. Seriously, lighten up and stop being a jerk.

You might want to follow your own advice, sport.  No one here was being a jerk to you.



peppermint -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/26/2011 11:31:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BluMac


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

Doninants can wear whatever they wish to wear. They don't have to have a meaning for every fashion choice they make.

Why are you all defensive, geez, no where did I say dominants have to wear collars, or have to have a meaning to what they wear, I was just wondering if there was a meaning. Seriously, lighten up and stop being a jerk.


Hey, if you don't like my answer, then don't read it. I answered your damned question, nothing more, nothing less. You asked if there is a meaning. I said there doesn't have to be one. Who farted in your wheaties today?



HannahLynn -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/27/2011 12:30:43 AM)

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does that have a particular meaning behind it, in comparison to the submissive's collar
well seeing as a submissive's collar has no particular meaning, i seriously fucking doubt a domme's would.

the answer is staring you in the face bub. they look fucking hot!!



RumpusParable -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/27/2011 11:19:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

i'd say it's fashion; no different from wearing a choker neclace. 



I agree with this. Chokers are fashionable separate from BDSM collars. They just look hot and pretty and can match an outfit well as any nice accessory should.



RumpusParable -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/27/2011 11:20:45 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BluMac


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

Doninants can wear whatever they wish to wear. They don't have to have a meaning for every fashion choice they make.

Why are you all defensive, geez, no where did I say dominants have to wear collars, or have to have a meaning to what they wear, I was just wondering if there was a meaning. Seriously, lighten up and stop being a jerk.


They were neither being defensive nor a jerk. You're being hypersensitive and rude to someone who was just answering your question.



LaTigresse -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/27/2011 2:21:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

Doninants can wear whatever they wish to wear. They don't have to have a meaning for every fashion choice they make.


This.

For instance.....my beat up old gray and black sneakers with the orange thread have no meaning what so ever....except they are damned comfy. Oh no! I chose to wear comfy shoes today instead of 8 inch tall hooker hells!!!!!!

LaT........sitting and waiting impatiently for her UberDommeBitchoftheFuckingUniverse card to be revoked.



MissImmortalPain -> RE: Collars for doms? (10/27/2011 2:46:10 PM)

I have a leather collar that says Master on it(it was a gift) the livein has one that says Servant. We have a set of collars that lock together with a chain...so he can only get so far away hahaha. I have a large leather collar that has spikes, but it is mostly a "goth" thing. Commonly I wear a necklace. In the back there is a ring. From the ring hangs the key to the liveins chains. The necklace means a lot to me so I wear it most of the time. The rest are either for show or play. People have different tastes so they wear what they like.



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