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HannahLynn -> RE: Coworker may unknowingly be submissive (10/29/2011 12:24:16 PM)
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Here is what he "actually" said: no it isn't. here is what he actually said on the subject:
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2. The company almost openly encourages fraternization as long as it's not with a supervisor. http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3900305
what you quoted was an example of why he said they "ALMOST" encourage it. like i said, pay fucking attention.
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Unlike you, I live in the real world and have worked for actual companies that have policies on things. so have i, and his fucking company's policy obviously allows it, again, pay fucking attention.
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I've also been around long enough to know that people easily see a video with co-workers dating and jump to the idea it is "encouraged." and i've been around long enough to know that people like you simply cannot accept that things are not the way they think they are in their narrow little world views.
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The OP's "evidence" that she might be submissive that wasn't what i was talking about, so again, pay fucking attention.
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so she is deferring to him for that direction have you talked to her and asked her? if not then stop informing us what she fucking thinks.
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Yet, we all have told him to get to know her which is what i fucking told him to do.
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Yet, we all have told him to get to know her and lay off the whole detective search to determine if she is submissive. That if after getting to actually know her, finds she is more than just his physical type, to go ahead and date her as per company policy. really?
that's fucking odd i could have sworn i saw the following bullshit posted:
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Oh and, it may be a good idea to not complicate your workplace by striking a relationship with a co-worker. quote:
Think with the big head and not the little one when it comes to getting your honey where you get your money. quote:
Workplace romances often get very complicated. Are you prepared to change jobs if it goes badly, or even if it goes well? It is just not an ideal situation. quote:
Workplace romances are difficult under the best of circumstances. Add a little kink to the mix, and it could literally be unemployment waiting to happen. quote:
If both of you think that you would like to take it further, one of you should just look for a new position before starting. quote:
you ever heard the saying "You don't fuck where you eat"? quote:
And imo, you don't date where you work. It becomes complicated and messy. quote:
I do not think it is ever a good idea to date a coworker. quote:
Coworker = bad idea. quote:
you dont lose your job/sabotage your career on top of it all. quote:
Take a chance on a relationship, sure. Take a chance on a job, sure. Take a chance on a relationship with someone at your job? In this economy, losing a job isn't worth the risk. quote:
There is also always the possibility that should they break up, she may not want to have to see him everyday, and report to managers that it is a problem. quote:
Most have no desire to lose their jobs
But if the guy doesn't mind looking for another job then go for it! quote:
it possibly could. I've worked at jobs where women had men fired for sexual harassment for that very same thing. He flirted with her at work, she would make small gestures to show she wasn't interested, he'd not catch on, he'd finally ask her out, she'd say no, he'd continue to bother her about it, she'd still say no till it got to a point where she had to file charges with HR.
I've also had a woman at my last job who had an attorney almost disbarred for simply asking her out. She didn't like the attorney. No other reason. quote:
no company encourages their employees to hook up, the odds of it making the workplace and emotional nightmare are too high.
seems to me that a fuck of a lot of people, yourself included, have been telling him the exact fucking opposite. so take your arguments and shove them right back up where you got them.
you know, i've heard of being into anal play, but christ on a cupcake woman, doesn't your asshole get sore with you pulling so much out of it all day long?
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