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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/26/2006 4:36:17 PM

Oumae

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I don't use a web can either so its not something I insist on. This guy (I'm sure same one tried it on me) did have a professionally taken pic on profile and quite a few casual ones to back it up and was very polite to chat to but when he tried the sob story on me I just said I don't send money. I'd really have to know someone well to do that and that means in person.

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/26/2006 4:47:49 PM

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I just had a male slave email me with an unusual request. he asked if I knew any Mistress who would be willing to treat him in the manner he has a fetish for. I am not the type he is seeking, I'm more sensual and erotic then gags and humiliation. I said I would check (I'm too nice sometimes), so I am checking. Ladies.....? His profile name is slavej and his is in Cadillac, MI.
*walking away to look for a green velvet pimp suit with matching hat with pink feather...or maybe just shower....I feel dirty*

Dontcha just love it when you come to a point in a conversation with these guys online & you see that your just not a good match & they close the conversation with... "well do ya know anyone who would like someone like me?"

BTW... pink & green pimp suit ... nice touch!

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/26/2006 5:03:49 PM

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I said I would check (I'm too nice sometimes), so I am checking.

They will ask for the moon. I just tell them that I'm not altruistic. First it's "Do you have any friends?" then it's a "commission" for brokering them with another Domme, when I've said I'm not interested. It gives one an idea of how *personal* a connection they're looking for. lol

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/26/2006 5:43:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrssSatin

I said I would check (I'm too nice sometimes), so I am checking.

They will ask for the moon. I just tell them that I'm not altruistic. First it's "Do you have any friends?" then it's a "commission" for brokering them with another Domme, when I've said I'm not interested. It gives one an idea of how *personal* a connection they're looking for. lol

You don't happen to know if there are any "Misstoyou" clones in the Chicagoland area do you?

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/26/2006 6:52:18 PM

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I have to agree with the couple of others who've stated that a webcam shouldn't be necessary. I don't have one, and I'm not going to go out and spend money that I don't have so I can get one to satisfy some strangers on the internet. Beyond that, I tend to think that some people who want to see webcams are just perverts. "I want to see your pussy so that I know you're really female." Ha! Yeah, right. Go play with yourself.

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/27/2006 1:59:59 PM

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slavej contacted me also...but thought we'd be a match and was disappointed when I said sorry, no.

Mstrss Satin...you are too nice sometimes LOL You are the Domme...they are the subs

Let them do their homework if they want the rewards.

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ORIGINAL: MstrssSatin

I just had a male slave email me with an unusual request. he asked if I knew any Mistress who would be willing to treat him in the manner he has a fetish for. I am not the type he is seeking, I'm more sensual and erotic then gags and humiliation. I said I would check (I'm too nice sometimes), so I am checking. Ladies.....? His profile name is slavej and his is in Cadillac, MI.
*walking away to look for a green velvet pimp suit with matching hat with pink feather...or maybe just shower....I feel dirty*

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/27/2006 2:02:05 PM

LadyAlexa

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I Myself dont have a problem with sending submissives to someone I know is more their style.
I'd rather do that than try to live up to something I cant.

Not to mention that it shows Your not the type to be controlling of Your "Domain" and can admit when something doesnt suit you....Kudos to You.

LMFAO @ benji

It's one thing if you KNOW of someone the sub might do better with...it's another thing for a sub to ask, gee can you check out a list of Dommes for me and have them write. What I love are the emails that make it sound like you are the ONE for them....then you find out they sent it to 100's others. LOL

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/27/2006 2:07:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Oumae

I think composer may have read the profile in question where slavej kindly tells the Dommes what they may do before having their way with him.

Oumae

Yes I love the profiles of submissves who state what we can do with them. The ones that state these are my hard limits; anything else will be discussed in negotiations, now they seem more real. I do like one who stated, I enjoy many things in life but would like to know what a Domme enjoys because I would expect her to want me to be doing these things also. This pertains not to just bdsm play...but to vanilla hobbies/activities.

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/27/2006 5:18:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAlexa

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I Myself dont have a problem with sending submissives to someone I know is more their style.
I'd rather do that than try to live up to something I cant.

Not to mention that it shows Your not the type to be controlling of Your "Domain" and can admit when something doesnt suit you....Kudos to You.

LMFAO @ benji

It's one thing if you KNOW of someone the sub might do better with...it's another thing for a sub to ask, gee can you check out a list of Dommes for me and have them write. What I love are the emails that make it sound like you are the ONE for them....then you find out they sent it to 100's others. LOL

Agreed.
Those must be the ones that start off with" I have read and reread your profile and your perfect for me,and of course they live in Africa and I live in the U.S.
humans...such funny creatures arnt they...lol

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/29/2006 4:51:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

I Myself dont have a problem with sending submissives to someone I know is more their style.
I'd rather do that than try to live up to something I cant.

Not to mention that it shows Your not the type to be controlling of Your "Domain" and can admit when something doesnt suit you....Kudos to You.

LMFAO @ benji

Yes, I am the same way. I get some requests for submissives that just are not in My catagory of things I like. I have no problem sending them to someone I know can help them with it.
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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/29/2006 3:12:31 PM

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I had a similar experience before. I was initially gung ho about helping b/c I wanted to help new people make a connection with others in the community, so I went for it. Among the things I have learned is that his request may have been a part of that ever-present desire of the sub to make the "instant hook-up," as though the perfect Domme will take about five minutes to find.

This sub was in Wisconsin, asking me to introduce him to someone. But then I had to stop to think about it. I did not know person personally so I could not recommend him or facilitate an introduction. I would be putting my reputation on the line for recommending someone. I then put the question out to a yahoo group I belonged to. Some Dommes from Wisconsin did respond to my question and suggested he contact them. This sub had previously said he'd been unsuccessful w/ meeting anyone in his area. When I mentioned the names of the Dommes I'd spoken with, he suddenly remembered that he had indeed made contact with them and had forgotten to tell me that he had.

Lesson learned; 1) I would only recommend someone I personally know; 2) If this person does not know you personally, they are likely trying to circumvent the Dommes he's already annoyed and hopes that you will be a source of new people; 3) It's a safety issue. If he approaches you out of the blue w/o knowing you, he does so w/o regard to his safety or that of the Domme. I may be a nut sending him to a fellow nut, and he does not seem to care; 4) Point that person to a resource for the local parties and munches and bdsm groups.

Now that I know some great people in the community, I am happy to help facilitate introductions among those people.

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RE: um er, excuse Me Ladies - 5/29/2006 6:56:28 PM

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If there is someone that I've been talking to for a while or seen on the boards and spoken with them here that asks for asssistance sifting, I have helped. But as far as an outright plea to the masses because I'm "better thought of"... HA don't think so.

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