RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?!

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sublizzie -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 6:27:01 AM)
While I have nothing against kinky sex, I'm WAY more interested in D/s. It's the power exchange thing and the energy that it brings to a relationship that I find the most enticing part of all of this. Now to just find a Dom who is enticed by that, and me, as well!!

LL1aintbehavin -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 7:53:16 AM)
i find that living the D/s lifestyle is very rewarding and fulfilling. kinky sex and the play are the icing on the cake for me. to be owned at all times, whether He is at work or we are out working on cars, i know my place and focus on Him and what i can do to serve Him and please Him. in my mind this is 24/7 D/s, and is what completes me. to have Him as the centre of my life and have Him always in my thoughts and actions is what i thrive on. i hope that this answers the question as i understand it. aintbehavin

mathiasdomm -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 8:29:46 AM)
To echo the 24/7 crowd- I am domiant. I'm a power freak. I'm aggressive, calculating, and charismatic. I crave owning people, regardless of the situation. I like having cronies, I like having people in my pocket. That translates to my romantic relationships. There's no bigger thrill than having a beautiful look at you and know that she is yours, from bottom to top. It's a real special thing. -m

dogobedience -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 10:15:12 AM)
Some of my point is.....do men really care as long as then get SEXXXXXXXXX

Proprietrix -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 10:16:24 AM)
lol, just in case there was a hint of doubt.... I'm totally NOT here for the sex. If a submissive thinks they are going to submit to me in the bedroom only, they are in essence wandering through an orchard to find a new car.

Sunshine119 -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 10:24:22 AM)
My relationship with my Dom is D/s in and out of the bedroom (except for political debate as mentioned on another thread). I am a strong dominant woman in every aspect of my life OUTSIDE my relationship with him. I serve him totally and any way he pleases whether that is sexually, cooking, serving him, making sure his clothing is prepared and he is more than presentable for the day. He is the one and only person who I have ever felt submissive to and I love and cherish the feeling. It excites something primal in me and seem more like who I am, than what I am when I go out into the world.

cinderella221972 -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 2:12:57 PM)
Hey candystripper Aren't you jealous of those who figured this out years ago or while still young. i was married to my children's father for 25 years, did everything i could think of to make that marriage work to no avail. Just managed to allow myself to be mentally/emotionally abused because he had no idea what to do with my submission. i was on my own for 6t years following the final break up, was doing fine alone, when i met the first man i was to serve. Oh, what a glorious relationship. i shall be grateful forever for the time we had together. As we laid Him to rest, i thought i'd die too but with the help of many friends have gotten back on my feet and now serve another. The relationships have many similarities and many differences but in both i'm so happy submitting. Kinky sex is fun but it is only a small part of the much larger picture for me. respectfully, cinderella (by the way, what puts the "evil" or "vanilla" etc by the names and picts in these posts? Master loves for me to wear vanilla but i sure don't fit "vanilla" lifestyle.

juliaoceania -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 2:22:20 PM)
cinderella, it is because you have only a few posts, post more and the icecream cone will disappear

dogobedience -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 5:37:58 PM)
but I like ice cream..........well "I scream" from her mouth. LOL

dogobedience -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 5:48:54 PM)
I am lucky to have what I have, my kali is great, all the kinky sex in the world can be replaced by her REAL WORDS OF ........MASTER. I still believe however, that any kinky sex slave , a bedroom slave is all MOST "dom's" need OR CAN HANDLE.. As we all know, most are here for EASY sex anyway......they pollute this lifestyle, causing confusion to the new ones (their age is of no matter, simply new to the lifestyle) some of which really want all the lifestyle offers.We see and hear about it daily, on these posts and in chat rooms. I still have only heard from a few who have happy BDSM lives , are the others too busy having kinky sex LOL!!!!!

cynthiamarie -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 6:17:33 PM)
Kinky sex? I've been dodging that since I discovered D/s two Februaries ago...been looking for a love thing. Bedroom kink is as easy as signing up for FriendFinder Messenger and...a female saying "I want some kinky sex tonight", and then deciding which of the dozens available for that night will look best in restraints. Enjoying a bottom for learning experiences has been very different from the feelings I get for submissives I respect and feel protective over...or feel that they may be the one I'm looking for. Finding someone I can trust and knowing that he's MINE is more important than bedroom kink.

dogobedience -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 6:38:09 PM)
Soooooooo few to reply, the ones that do are here for the right reasons, the others scared?

kissmekat -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 6:51:51 PM)
I would trade kinky sex any day for a good sub/slave. I have one that I trust with my entire life and we have kinky sex but again if I had to trade the sex would go. Miss Kat

SilverWulf -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 6:55:15 PM)
The kinky sex is a nice bonus to the 24/7 relationship. If the sex were to go away, the relationship would survive. If the power dynamic were to fail, the sex would not survive.

BitaTruble -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 7:06:33 PM)
M/s is how we live and we certainly don't live in the bedroom.. or even just in the house. It's part of everything.. yes, sex.. yes, kink.. and the mundane, the ordinary.. from going grocery shopping and buying his favorite foods to which credit card will be used if we go out to dinner. That said, I have a lot of autonomy to take care of the details of life.. paying bills and balancing the checkbook, the order in which I do laundry, what sort of bread I make on Tuesdays.. unless he tells me something different. Ultimately, he has veto power over every aspect of life albeit he uses it sparingly as I've got a pretty good system down after all these years. Celeste

candystripper -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 7:57:30 PM)
quote: Hey candystripper Aren't you jealous of those who figured this out years ago or while still young. i was married to my children's father for 25 years, did everything i could think of to make that marriage work to no avail. Just managed to allow myself to be mentally/emotionally abused because he had no idea what to do with my submission. i was on my own for 6t years following the final break up, was doing fine alone, when i met the first man i was to serve. Oh, what a glorious relationship. i shall be grateful forever for the time we had together. As we laid Him to rest, i thought i'd die too but with the help of many friends have gotten back on my feet and now serve another. The relationships have many similarities and many differences but in both i'm so happy submitting. Kinky sex is fun but it is only a small part of the much larger picture for me. respectfully, cinderella (by the way, what puts the "evil" or "vanilla" etc by the names and picts in these posts? Master loves for me to wear vanilla but i sure don't fit "vanilla" lifestyle. cinderella i'm not jealous or envious or regretful; i find these self-indulgent and destructive emotions. i'm extremely grateful i EVER found D/s and though i know what you mean, frankly, the happiness of O/others only serves to give me hope. Btw, everyone asks about the "vanilla" label. It's explained under "Forum Rankings"; basically it reflects the number of times you've posted here. As you post, it will change. And i look forward to future posts from you. candystripper

candystripper -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 8:00:38 PM)
quote: I am lucky to have what I have, my kali is great, all the kinky sex in the world can be replaced by her REAL WORDS OF ........MASTER. I still believe however, that any kinky sex slave , a bedroom slave is all MOST "dom's" need OR CAN HANDLE.. As we all know, most are here for EASY sex anyway......they pollute this lifestyle, causing confusion to the new ones (their age is of no matter, simply new to the lifestyle) some of which really want all the lifestyle offers.We see and hear about it daily, on these posts and in chat rooms. I still have only heard from a few who have happy BDSM lives , are the others too busy having kinky sex LOL!!!!! dogobedience A Man who only wants kinky sex is not a Dominant. Around here they are usually referred to as HNGs or Horney Net Guys. candystripper

candystripper -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 8:04:17 PM)
quote: Soooooooo few to reply, the ones that do are here for the right reasons, the others scared? dogobedience Sorry You feel You have not received enough attention but it is Memorial Day weekend. candystripper

dogobedience -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 8:17:06 PM)
PLEASE I do not seek any EXTRA attention that ANYBODY GETS when posting.........i am simply speak my HONEST MIND..........and btw HI !!!

FloridaISIS -> RE: slave OR just "kinky sex" slave and does a dom realy care?! (5/26/2006 8:17:32 PM)
Now, I finally have it right. Right OP. I want one man/love: Daddy Dom or switch An entire lifetime This lifestyle Like Julia Roberts said in Pretty Woman, "I want the whole f--king package"

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