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Don't Dominant people know where they want to go and sa... - 11/1/2011 2:44:23 AM   
daydreambliever


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Status: offline 		LONG STORY SHORT:
Im a very attractive mixed black & cuban guy seeking a Woman who knows her power begins with her Soft Slender Feet, dainty hypnotic silhouette, and ends with her knowledge of, and preferably excitement for, my addiction to humiliation, and verbal degradation, and manipulation of my addiction to love. I am a sucker for artists of all sorts, i.e. fashionistas, dancers, but mostly photographers, painters and musicians.

I need to move after November 7th(when temporary job conclude) and before the 10th when my lease ends. I hope you will read my profile. And leash me up before u miss out on a very good useful boy.

Short Story lengthened:
Hi I havent seen the snow in years. Im Midwest kid but I've become addicted to a snow free life in Florida. I have all the aptitude in the world, a biography of impressive yet underachieved successes, because I have no direction. Can you come and make use of a very good utensil... I know somewhere out there there is a Dominant who can hone me into something very useful. I have many talents and underachieved skills.
I love fairskinned women all races but have a fetish for rosie digits and untanned milky complexions. IM a proud perv and I hope being honest about this helps me to be found by the right common sensical dominant. A smart Lady that has an objective grasp on the male ego as opposed to rudimentary man-hating feminism and consensual financial dominance of professional perv with shit to hide. I am a true Susanist and we can talk more on this I'd love to.

I do not need to have sexual contact i say that to preface these factoids: I cannot submit to a woman I am not attracted to sexually. I have never been sexually attracted to an obese woman. And its difficult to submit to a woman who is not confident in her intelligence. I like both younger and older women I am 24. The ex in the pic was mostly Vanilla relationship she is 28 and although we have dated around she is my most recent ex.

< Message edited by daydreambliever -- 11/1/2011 3:36:15 AM >
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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 4:29:52 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		1. Yes, some of us D types know where we want to go and have a plan.  Not all.
2. That said, the artist types you seem to be attracted to, frequently do not.
3. Why did you mention the end of your lease?  Are you expecting to find a woman and move in with her in one week?  Isn't that the kind of thing that no woman with a goal and a plan would do?
4. I read your profile.  You need to spell check.
5. In your profile, you say that you are a former massage therapist whose license was revoked.  Never put out something like there without an explanation.  I'd recommend saying "formerly licensed massage therapist".
6. Read your own journal entry.  Do you realize what that says about you?  It says that you will cheat when you get hard, and will throw away relationships due to lack of fidelity, and that you post that with no thought to the effects posting it will have.

Your profile makes it clear that you want a woman who will kick your ass to get you to stuff done, and also gratify your fetishes.  You're not inclined towards monogamy, or self-discipline.

Fella, any woman willing to sign onto that kind of proposition would have to have some SERIOUS problems of her own.

Get yourself another job.  Get to know people casually - Tampa has a good sized kink scene.  Renew your lease or find another place.  Take care of the basics.  THEN find yourself a good woman.

Good luck.  Welcome to collarme.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 4:32:17 AM   
GreedyTop


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From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline 		and does your ex know you're posting her pic on a kink site?

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 6:49:04 AM   
ashjor911


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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 8:42:53 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Dude, your thread and profile are full of fail....good luck, you're going to need it. 

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 8:48:52 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		This guy here knows where he is going and feels no need to explain how he is going to get there, unless you don't know where it is.

Like, if I am going to take the garbage out and I have the bag in my hand, I have no compelling force that says I must exclaim, I will be leaving by the front door and walking approximately 50 feet due east to the garbage can, where I will deposit this bag of refuse, then executing a lacksadasial 180 degree turn I will pace myself approximately 50 feet due west, then up four stairs, turn left, open the door, plop my ass on the couch and demand cock worship as my due.

The last last part there I might vocalize, the rest is sort of done unannounced.

You may do different. It's a big world.

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 8:51:05 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 9:10:49 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		What DS said.

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 10:36:37 AM   
daydreambliever


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Status: offline 		thanks for the welcome and good advice. I will temporarily remove the over-detailed elements from my profile as welll as the misconcieved thread lol

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RE: Don't Dominant people know where they want to go an... - 11/1/2011 10:39:02 AM   
daydreambliever


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quote:

ORIGINAL: daydreambliever

thanks for the welcome and good advice. I will temporarily remove the over-detailed elements from my profile as welll as the misconcieved thread lol

quote:

photographers


Ok I cant delete it so before I close my profile, I will respond to everything....

I will still try my luck. I dont need to be physically beaten to do my work(I thought my list of credits AA Licenses Pro-Level Athelete) but I definitely desire a fetish incentive. How do I say that without sounding as though I want to be smothered and queened b4 I submit. Honesty is what I was going for in order to avoid the wrong connections. How do I balance this goal without saying something not true of me i.e.:"lack of self-discipline" "throw away relationships due to lack of fidelity".

I realize I can't address these misconception to a reader who does not inquire further. but you all took the time so I will say I blieve in fidelity(even the concept of soulmates) yet I have definitely engaged in polygamy. Regarding my Shrink friend..Love just happened, we were only having platonic conversation. W/o a chastity device I couldn't control my erection, I did however control my REaction which was not to engage the friend physically. I did not cheat physically nor fantasize; it was just a recognition between us. Btw my ex won't care about the pic she'll be happy for the notoriety lol

And while I have been looking for a while(made connections) I only recently created this new profile to leave behind a poor choice of Screen-name. And only recently realized I should post a thread about my goal.

ANd yeah it's been difficult in crunch time I guess Im looking for a kinky roommate who will let/force/command me to take care of the housework and if she care to fulfil my fetishes I won't feel the desire to continue to seek.

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