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Steeves1986 -> Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 2:26:47 PM)

Hello, there. My name is Steeves. 6'1. 250 pounds. Black male University student living in Ottawa, Ontario. I'm of Haitian descent, raised in Boston, Massachusetts, but currently living in the Capital region of Canada. I'm new to BDSM but I'm really enthusiastic. My all-time favorite fantasy is a BOSSY Black lady with a STRAPON handling me, lol. I can't seem to find that anywhere else, so I came here.



mnottertail -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 2:29:49 PM)

Oh shit!!!! They're givin THAT away with BOTH hands, out here.

Welcome.



Steeves1986 -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 2:31:23 PM)

Actually, that's really hard to find. When I lived in Boston, all the Dominatrix types were white women. Same thing here in Ottawa, Ontario. I can't seem to find a Black Dominatrix. Odd dilemma for a Black male, eh ?



lizi -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 3:12:07 PM)

Hey welcome OP. You seem to be a bit overboard on the topic considering you've started a bunch of threads all about the same thing...just a suggestion that you might want to remember that it's not really attractive to a woman to be sought out for an external characteristic. It pretty much feels like anyone will do then as long as they fit the one thing you want. Finding a Domme is going to be hard work, there aren't many. A black Domme seriously cuts down the numbers, and then if she feels like you only want her because she's black....well, I'm not sure you'll have a lot of takers at that point.  



Steeves1986 -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 3:35:33 PM)

What you say makes a lot of sense, ma'am. I'm not a fetishist, just curious. I mainly date white women in my private life, but I'm curious about black dommes.



lizi -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/1/2011 3:47:32 PM)

And that's just fine. Everyone has preferences. However, as women, we don't want to be a just a preference. We want to be a woman, a person, a human being, beyond our skin color. A lot of men get caught up in the picture of what they want and it seems that they forget there is a woman with a brain and feelings behind the picture. It's a difference between the sexes, men tend to hone in on what they're looking for, women tend to want a package of more than one thing and they get testy if they think that they're 'just' a characteristic to someone.

I used to be big, I was fat. I had no luck on the traditional dating sites till I went to one for BBW's and then holy cow things took off because there are men out there who love big women. But I was always uncomfortable. I knew I'd lose weight eventually, which I did, and then I wondered if these same men would still find me attractive or interesting when I wasn't what they wanted externally. Do you see what I"m getting at?



Steeves1986 -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/2/2011 2:35:12 PM)

I see what you mean. I've loved both black women and white women in my life. Although I've dated more white women, I found myself more attracted to black women as of late. I don't know why. It's not just skin color or height or curves or butts i like. I like the whole woman. Yes, men tend to notice the physique first but women notice hot guys too. we all make mistakes when we meet attractive people. However, I'm slowly learning from mine.



ashjor911 -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/2/2011 3:29:38 PM)

Welcome To CM



tolovetolaugh -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/2/2011 3:57:36 PM)

Welcome! Glad to see you are reasonable and well mannered, wish you luck!



BurntKitty -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/2/2011 4:43:50 PM)

Good luck & welcome to the boards.



Steeves1986 -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/3/2011 4:52:38 PM)

My fantasy came true this afternoon in Ottawa, Ontario, folks. Shortly before I went to my afternoon class at University, my gal Nala called. I swear to God this is true. I got spanked, and strapon-fucked by a 5'10 Black Goddess !!!! I LOVE Black women ! The experience was everything I could hope for and more !!!



xxblushesxx -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/3/2011 5:36:15 PM)

Congrats!



OohAahMrs -> RE: Black male sub 4 Black Dominatrix (11/4/2011 7:15:19 AM)

Welcome stee, keep enjoying that thing!



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