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Steeves1986 -> Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:36:15 PM)
Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? That is the one thing I've NEVER seen in BDSM. Not in the movies, erotic stories or whatever. It's usually about a black man dominating a white woman, a black woman dominating a white guy or a white couple, or even about a white guy dominating a black woman, or a white lady dominating a black man, but NEVER a black woman dominating a WILLING black MAN with a strapon. Why is that ? I browsed Literotica online and found ZERO stories like that between 2000 and 2011.

Lockit -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:41:03 PM)
I don't know... but maybe you could start writing or filming. [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:43:17 PM)
Honestly, I have wondered that myself. I know ONE black couple in my area---metro freakin DETROIT!! It's all mixed couples. Who are very happy, so it's all good, but I do wonder what's up.

Steeves1986 -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:43:56 PM)
Lol. I've written erotica like that under the name Samuelx. I'm the only one who writes stories featuring Black women banging Black men with strapons or White women banging Black guys with dildos and spanking them. Why am I so unique ? Lol.

Lockit -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:51:30 PM)
That is rather odd. I have written but hardly ever read. I'm trying to think of the many porn movies I have seen and can't remember one that addresses this. Hummm... sounds like there is a gaping hole in the industry that someone needs to fill. What about the clips for sale?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:56:53 PM)
On fetlife there are a couple of groups that deal with a lot of "issues" like that. Black men and women have a complicated relationship unfortunately. There aren't a lot of us in the kinky world anyway, and I've seen some submissive black men who feel like black women don't take them seriously as submissives. A lot of that is to do with the "thug image," or the hints of patriarchy still present. Also, I thhink porn is generally marketed towards the white middle class male - what he wants to see, finds attractive, or can relate to. How about you take this as an opportunity, OP? Write your own stories! :)

mnottertail -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 2:58:30 PM)
AfroErotik or nothin doin?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 3:25:44 PM)
i've seen some of her stuff on fetlife, and most of it isn't FemDom/msub. the one that she does have is computer generated and mixed.

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 3:29:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steeves1986 Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? That is the one thing I've NEVER seen in BDSM. Not in the movies, erotic stories or whatever. It's usually about a black man dominating a white woman, a black woman dominating a white guy or a white couple, or even about a white guy dominating a black woman, or a white lady dominating a black man, but NEVER a black woman dominating a WILLING black MAN with a strapon. Why is that ? I browsed Literotica online and found ZERO stories like that between 2000 and 2011. I've often wondered the same thing myself. I've just never seen it......

Steeves1986 -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 3:37:40 PM)
Black men and Black women do have a complicated relationship, unfortunately. We do need to mend our wounds before we can freely play together. A lot of distrust on both sides....with many using interracial dating as a 'revenge game' with each other. Sad but true.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 3:40:56 PM)
for me, interracial dating isn't a revenge game, though -- i just meet people in the places i hang out, and guys i have stuff in common with, and for some reason, they tend to be white. i think it's just because i grew up rural, and most of them i've met have been very urban, and we have different expectations and goals for life. though i do wonder if maybe i don't give the black guys an equal shake because i've had so many negative experiences with them? i dunno. =p i don't know if that's it, though, because the worst thing in my history was committed against me by a white guy. so... you'd think i would hate them all based on that. i think for many, with some of the walls coming down, people are just branching out and meeting people who they like, regardless of color. i'm not going to put someone at the top of the list just because he's got the same skin color i have. that would be a very shallow relationship, at least in my opinion. if there's nothing else in common, what's the point?

Arpig -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 5:56:32 PM)
Its really very simple. There is no racial aspect to a black woman banging a black guy, it is no different from a white on white or asian on asian scenario, so you lose that whole audience segment who gets off on racial contrasts. Now you're asking why still, after all there is tons of white-on-white stories, so why not black-on-black? Again, it boils down to marketing and knowing your audience. Keep in mind we are dealing with statistical generalities here. There is a segment of the white population who will be turned off by black-on-black porn. It is not a large minority, but percentage-wise it is larger than the corresponding black group who would be turned off by white-on-white porn. Combine that with the fact that there simply are more whites in the western world (the main market for online porn) and you have your answer. There are a LOT more whites who actively dislike black-on-black porn than there are blacks who dislike white-on-white porn.

HannahLynn -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/1/2011 9:20:12 PM)
fuck. just copy paste the story into word, find/replace "white" with "black" and bingo bango bongo, black mistress with black sub male story.

SoulAlloy -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 12:32:03 AM)
Pretty sure I've seen a scenario on Men in Pain before...

DarkSteven -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 6:00:56 AM)
1. I've not noticed Literotica stories mentioning race. 2. Have you ever thought of meeting a vanilla black woman and perverting her?

thishereboi -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 7:37:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Honestly, I have wondered that myself. I know ONE black couple in my area---metro freakin DETROIT!! It's all mixed couples. Who are very happy, so it's all good, but I do wonder what's up. I was going to point some out to you, but I thought about it and I can't come up with any either. Now I suppose you could count Ms M and slave kal since techniquely he was black, he just didn't look it. That said the op is very cute and I can totally picture The Goddess bending him over a table some time. I'm thinking that could be a very hot scene[8D]

mummyman321 -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 9:55:58 AM)
Just a minor question here. Does being dressed head to toe in black latex count as being a black sub?[8D]

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 12:10:41 PM)
I left you a comment on another thread that you started. Go to Fetlife. There are several groups there. In particular, there is a group called black male subs who serve black Dommes. Join that group and participate in the discussions. Also, search for Blackbeat on Fetlife. They hold an annual BDSM conference for African-Americans. But what you're probably discovering is that there just aren't many blacks in the BDSM community. I've lived all over the US, and regardless of what city I've been in, I have always been the only black member of the local BDSM society.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 12:31:17 PM)
It's true, there are not that many POC in the Detroit scene, and the metro area certainly has most ethnicities represented.

Steeves1986 -> RE: Black Mistress 4 Submissive Black Male ? (11/2/2011 2:39:19 PM)
The funny thing is that there is a black dominatrix in my neck of the woods but she's married to a Nigerian preacher whom she's considering giving up the lifestyle for....also, she mainly deals with Asian, Hispanic and White subs. Sigh.

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