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odinlove -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 3:14:32 AM)

And a Shadows in the moonlight?




Gem -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 3:22:05 AM)

Brightest Blessings
 
The smell of hay that has been put up for the winter
 
watching a good piece of horse flesh move
 
the smell and feel of a barn
 
collarbones on men
 
Man's laughter ( it feeds my soul)
 
finishing a painting that has given me grief
 
I am sure there are more but ti is early and I have only had one cuppa tea:)
 
Blessed Be
Gem




SilkLaceNPearls -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 5:32:42 AM)

Silk, lace and pearls, to start with!
Dark chocolate and fine wine. (Or cheap wine! LOL!)
A good book.
White roses, white carnations.
Scented candles.
Men in uniforms (Cops, military, UPS, etc)
Tattoos (not on me. I have a needle phobia) but on a nicely muscle arm (fanning self heavily now)
A really good men's cologne.
Walk on the beach or in the park with my Maltese.
Soft rain.
A man's behind. I am an @$$ woman!
Men in blue jeans and t-shirt. Or in a nicely cut suit.
A man who speaks with authority esp if he is soft spoken.
Deep brown eyes.
Big, gruff rough men who you know take no nonsense off anyone but melt at the site of their daughters.
Big, gruff rough men who teach their sons you don't have to be rough and gruff to get your point across but if necessary, go for it.
Men who still waters run REALLY deep. Watch out for the quiet ones!






piscess -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 5:37:27 AM)

A good loud thunder storm.
 
A deep voice.
 
The crunch of dry leaves.
 
A Man on a Motorcycle.
 
Longggggg Dark Hair!!!!!
 
Both a sunrise and a sunset.
 
Jeans and a white t-shirt on a 'buff' man.
 
Oh I could go on and on and on....
 
piscess




spankmepink11 -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 5:40:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: piscess

Both a sunrise and a sunset.
 
piscess



Yes..!!! I have several framed photos of both that i've taken in different places hanging in the bedroom.




zumala -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 6:18:06 AM)

I don't know why I didn't think of this before.  When you go out hiking for two hours into the interior of a wilderness area, you are not in civilization anymore.  Whether you realize it or not, you are now playing by nature's rules.  When I go out hiking with my husband, it doesn't matter that he's submissive.  Out of us two, HE is still the male, and man do I feel it!  I suspect he does, too from the way he starts grabbing things. [;)] *purrr*
 
zuma




talltxsub -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 6:58:31 AM)

OK, I'll give it a try from a man's perspective:

A strong woman boss
A woman standing behind me whispering in my ear
Long hair
Red lipstick (not sure why, but it just pops the cork)
A woman who subconsciously licks her lips when she drinks
Crowded elevators
Tight dresses (is that "nonsexual?)
Dominant comments ("if you were mine....")
Inadvertent innuendo, especially at work ("if you were under me...")

They do keep coming to mind.




spectreandnectre -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 7:04:10 AM)

i would say storms also
 
men playing with their children, the younger the child the better
Polo aftershave
certain songs
broad shoulders
Polo
erotic literature
a man in uniform
polo
a gentle melt your heart smile from a man
oh did i say polo




talltxsub -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 8:42:04 AM)

The air conditioning a little too cold  :-)




akisha -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 11:53:53 AM)

ohh colours for men, i LOVE that scent, makes me want to nibble on them, well maybe bite hehe definately lick *weg*  ok i need to go now [8|]




Bearlee -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 12:41:01 PM)

The smell of a clean man…working hard
Working hard physically and the smell of me working hard
Fine dark hair on the back of a man’s wrist
Button-fly jeans on men
Watching a man take his penis out from his jeans
The smell of negative ions (the air after a storm)
Really good violin music…or a bass
The smell of my garden’s dirt
The smell of my newly mown yard
A man who enjoys really good food
Dangling my feet in my Koi pond (Koi nibble…)
Quiet breathing or whispering in my ear…
That line of dark hair on a man’s frontside…that disappears beneath the waistband of his pants…
Clean sheets and cool nights
Watching/listening to people talk passionately about something they really know
The smell of Ponderosa Pine on a warm day
The ocean (more negative ions?)
Fog…..yummmmmmmmm
The feel of a man’s hand on my face
Long shadows on deep snow
Big-cat prints near my home (I lived off grid)
Watching a bear who doesn’t see me
Someone else washing my hair
Big feet or hands on a guy (nooooo…not for THAT reason)
A man in adult footwear (I cannot stand tennis shoes!)
The smell and feel of good leather
Gently biting a strong jaw-line
The interaction of good wine with great food
Being called ‘girl’…
Masses of white flowers at dusk
Watching a man pee outside




asyouwish72 -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 1:24:43 PM)

Sticking with the “storms” thing, I’m going to have to go with hurricanes. Convenient that I live in Florida. I’m not making light of how serious they are (I’ve taken a couple of dead-on hits and numerous near misses at various times), but the sense of expectation, when you know the thing is out there and coming, just sets every nerve burning. Thunderstorms, too, although that seems so common that it’s practically a cliché.   The sound of the ocean, especially when it’s pounding surf, at night, and you’re maybe a mile or so inland.   Campfires.   Girls who are dressed up but barefoot. Like if you go walk on the beach after a night out. It’s somehow very endearing.   Girls wearing my clothes. That just drives me nuts... although if they're wearing my clothes, that's not really nonsexual is it?




Sunshine119 -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 1:34:02 PM)

oh I am sick.....the sight of coins being inserted into a vending machine is enough for me




composer83 -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 1:39:02 PM)

ill agree with the storms & especially tornados.....living in Oklahoma we get a lot of them.....perhaps its the danger element that we could all get sucked up into the atmosphere at any time.....
also for me......any time, any woman speaks directly & with authority......
and one....rather strange........with my first Domme.....she had me always wear a rubber band around me wrist......one of the thick ones.......& any time she would pull it back & snap it....omg.....it wouldnt matter where or when....but that definatly gave me the man gooies every time....
lol....man gooies.....

to the ladies.....UPS men???....really???

~m

edited to add:  this thread has been quite educational....




FloridaISIS -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 1:42:25 PM)

All time  favorite cologne on a man is Eternity for Men, if that's not an aphrodisiac I don't know what is. OMFG--mmmmmmmm

A guy came into where I worked years ago, and I had to ask him what he was wearing, as akisha stated: "Colors for men"---yes, that's a nice one.
ex sub of mine used to wear Samba--very nice.




composer83 -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 2:06:42 PM)

oh hey.....can i also mention... hands.....nice soft hands are oh so lovely.......with long, sharp, painted fingernails....GROWL!!!
maybe its because mine are so rough & calloused...

~m




candystripper -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 9:31:13 PM)

quote:

oh hey.....can i also mention... hands.....nice soft hands are oh so lovely.......with long, sharp, painted fingernails....GROWL!!!
maybe its because mine are so rough & calloused...

~m


i am a nail salon slut; i get both my fingers and toes done.  Did my toes today; deep purple with a design in white like a star on the big toe. 
 
What color do You like on fingers?  Do You like nail art or crystals, etc.?  Do You like the long or medium length nail?  Do You like the square or oval nail?  What's Your opinion on the french manicure? 
 
Do You like toe rings and ankle braclets?  Please respond quickly; getting my nails done on Sunday.........lmao.
 
candystripper   




reverendtorres -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 10:15:53 PM)

For me, it would have to be the way my dom goes into little boy mode when getting down on the floor and playfighting with his shih tzu.




bignipples2share -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 10:52:59 PM)

I'm sick too. Put me in a car and go through a car wash. All those foamy brushes going over the car gets me every single time, doesn't matter if it's done by machine or people. Then the rinse, then people drying the car off. I've no idea why.
Hand and foot massages from a hunk, get me too.
~big

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talibahh -> RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues (5/26/2006 11:24:45 PM)

 
* Again with the storms... especially if lying by a blazing open fire
* Watching ligtening/storms over the ocean
* Listening to the rain pounding down on a tin roof
* listening/watching waves crashing on the beach
* watching flames flickering in a fire
* watching a favourite soppy movie like *You've got mail* or *under the tuscan sun*
* fresh sheets on the bed
* snuggling up in bed in winter while its dark and stormy outside
* a man with short, short hair a cute smile, nice teeth and smells of a masculine scent
* a mans muscles while working, top off. Especially across his shoulders and back
* a gorgeous woman (like Jennifer Hawkins) in a sexy dress that leaves enough to the imagination
* chocolate
* firemen in uniform
* Airforce guys in uniform
* a hunk of a guy on a motorbike
* being called *My slave*, * My girl*, *My slut*, *My baby girl*
* having Him sign off in an email *your Master*
 
and, and ,and.... ok... better stop, give someone else a go...
 
tali [:-]




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