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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 12:17:41 AM   
LaMspeach


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Status: offline 		* a kiss on the forehead
* the smell of leather
* candle light
* the sound of dried leaves as you walk through them in the fall
* the smell of flowers in the spring
* rain or a storm
* the smell of a freshly made bed after the sheets have been hung outside
* the sound of his voice
* that certain look
* fingers running through my hair

(Fans self) now i need a shower

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 12:32:47 AM   
candystripper


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quote:

(Fans self) now i need a shower

LaMspeach


Give yourself a case of the gooies, did you?  Lmao.
 
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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 12:40:39 AM   
Lordandmaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMspeach

* a kiss on the forehead
* the smell of leather
* candle light
* the sound of dried leaves as you walk through them in the fall
* the smell of flowers in the spring
* rain or a storm
* the smell of a freshly made bed after the sheets have been hung outside
* the sound of his voice
* that certain look
* fingers running through my hair

(Fans self) now i need a shower

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 12:29:32 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		I have one that has absolutely nothing to do with the sight of someone or something *s*

The wind. Anything from  soft breezes to blustering blows.

I used to go sleep outside on windy nights to hear the wind in the trees around me and blowing across me. To this day it still lights my fire *s*

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 12:37:49 PM   
DaddiesLilGirl06


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A damb good back scratch
Slight brush of the fingertips on the spine
Men with long hair(OMG just the thought....*giggles*)
Men who are all sweaty from a hard days work(construction workers who glisten in the sunlight...wow now thats power)

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 2:50:18 PM   
Wolf1020


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Status: offline 		I once went out with a woman who would melt if you whispered macaroni and cheese into her ear...was great for getting frustrated "why oh why you bastard why!" looks when ya did it in public.


......don't ask

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 4:46:01 PM   
theRose4U


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Ambulances and firetrucks.  Of course, these are most stimulating when running a siren, but even just parked and empty, they send me off on a major gooey attack. 


That scene out of backdraft?? Very good to watch, loses something in the practicalty of it. Clothes end up smelling like smoke and the hoses are scratchy.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 5:04:46 PM   
Timbukktwo


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Status: offline 		ok non sexual hard on for me? 

thinking of the sunday mornings...after a saturday of rain...dusting the suzuki off and taking to the streets....getting out of the neighborhood and turning onto the highway....knowing it is between the local highway boys shift change... the split second when you change down a gear and you hear the rear wheel chirp...and feel the handlebars pressing against you as the front lifts up.... the just accelarating til the road you know so well feels so different because you are travelling at better than twice the speed limit.. the machine noise turning to sweet music....

..ok just thinking about it makes me reach for the keys....but I still don't think words do it justice...its a man thing.....

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 5:06:08 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		I think that there's something about mountain air that does it to me. Kicks chocolate, good wine and all the rest on it's tush.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/27/2006 10:10:23 PM   
Wolf1020


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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/28/2006 9:34:48 AM   
denika


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Uniforms..Especially the RCMP red surge....oh my *S*... if the guys I worked with only knew *w*

A brush of fingers over the back of my neck or down the inside of my arm.
Scottish accents, I'm  actaully sad years in the school system drilled my accent away, well if I'm  really tired, inebreated or carried away, then t comes out.
Kilts, leather or cloth both work.
the sight of a man in form fitting, button fly or lace up low rider leather pants.Yum



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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/28/2006 11:56:55 AM   
denika


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ORIGINAL: Timbukktwo

ok non sexual hard on for me? 

thinking of the sunday mornings...after a saturday of rain...dusting the suzuki off and taking to the streets....getting out of the neighborhood and turning onto the highway....knowing it is between the local highway boys shift change... the split second when you change down a gear and you hear the rear wheel chirp...and feel the handlebars pressing against you as the front lifts up.... the just accelarating til the road you know so well feels so different because you are travelling at better than twice the speed limit.. the machine noise turning to sweet music....

..ok just thinking about it makes me reach for the keys....but I still don't think words do it justice...its a man thing.....



The music of a motorcycle is magic. The point when you are riding where nothing else exists exept for the bike,the road and your body, everything else gets stripped away... It's not just a 'man thing' *s*  trust me. It's a bike thing


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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/28/2006 2:33:09 PM   
genvieve


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Status: offline 		Ohhh...i remembered a HUGE one while watching X-men...
 
growling... any growling...by anyone...of any species
 
-just purrs at the thought-

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/30/2006 6:27:06 PM   
BlackKnight


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Status: offline 		- I can go along with some of these things: storms, hurricanes, chocolate, Riding a motorcycle; especially after a rain, Mountain air anytime: morn,day,night,pre,during,after rain.
but something came to mind while reading these post.
A few years back I was at work, construction renevating a building, and there was a group of mexicans demoing a wall.  What I saw I found extreamely erotic. a young rather unattractive, large female sledgehammering the wall.  It wasn't her that I found erotic, it was just the female form, slamming a hammer into the wall repetatively doing hard labor, sweat rolling off her.  That just blew me away.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/30/2006 6:34:23 PM   
redpetals


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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/30/2006 6:53:21 PM   
Sensualips


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Status: offline 		Thunderstorms, especially with showy lightning
Man cooing at a baby (woman cooing at a baby doesn't work for me though)
Particular songs or types of music
Aggressive fight scenes (duh)
A woman's neck; a man's collarbone
Quiet tears, deep sobs -- but not whimpering whiny crying
Sanctuaries, church bells, kneeling at pews, a lone cross on a hill
Uniforms, but not law enforcement
Certain colognes/perfumes
Streaky highlighted hair
Passion in a nonsexual way -- passion for a cause or a belief or an ideal
Artsy things, like drawing or playing a musical instrument


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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/30/2006 8:41:13 PM   
losttreasure


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Status: offline 		Sitting back unnoticed and watching a man quietly working hard, making decisions, handling problems, reading a book or newspaper, laughing while watching a good comedy, combing his hair, playing with a pet, grilling outdoors... (Okay... maybe I have a voyeurism thing going. )
A serene pasture with cows grazing.  I've no idea why...
Riding in a convertible.
Standing amidst the overwhelming grandeur of nature... as in viewing the vista from a mountain or looking out over the ocean.
Rollercoasters.
And like most everyone so far... storms with wind and lightening.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/30/2006 11:28:15 PM   
skinnykitten


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Status: offline 		Natural muscles (male and female - again, from working hard - those of gym bunnies are actually a bit of a turn off for me.) 
People who garden.
Sunshine on my tummy.
Surfing.
Stretching out on clean, dry grass.
Thunderstorms, the ocean (cliched, but still irresistable.)
People who will sing and dance with complete abandonment.
Collarbones and bare backs (male and female).
Horseriding.
Those who will challenge me intellectually without feeling threatened or feeling the need to tear me down.
Walking extremely late at night in the bush, alone or with someone who appreciates that it is a time for silence.
People who are stoic with pain.

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 5/31/2006 12:32:34 AM   
keme


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Status: offline 		Ok can't deny the storm one... I love the rolling thunder. and the eye of the hurricane...
a man's natural scent
a good movie or a good book
a firm hand guiding me from the small of my back
the words 'good girl' no matter who is getting them
good music
catching him looking at you
my son's laugh
Having my hair brushed or pulled
The surprise in the eyes of a Dominant when they discover they were served while they were busy with something else.
Making someone smile for no reason
Finishing a task
When my daughter hugs me just to hug me
When either of my children say yes /no Sir or yes/no Ma`am
When Sir and his girl hug me at the same time
Picking up a piece of litter that tries to get past me
Drinking my daily water requirement
When my 60lb dog tries to pretend he is a lap dog
Wow there are so many rolling into my head I can’t sort them now… but I have already taken too much of your time. Thank you

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RE: "Nonsexual" Sexual Cues - 6/7/2006 11:37:20 PM   
melnkolybabydoll


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Status: offline 		Omg candystripper...in your original post...are we clones???  You could name those same things for me, in pretty much the same order.  ~~babydoll

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