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usem33 -> novice (11/3/2011 6:08:06 AM)

Where do you start ? Beecause when your a novice nobody wants to meet you [8|]



DarkSteven -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 6:18:28 AM)

What is it you're seeking?  Relationships?  Play sessions?

Are there any groups local to you? 




OttersSwim -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 6:22:44 AM)

Hi there!

Start with your local community.  From your profile, I am guessing that you are somewhere near Lancashire?  There are a bunch of groups in that area, and even a munch:

The South Yorkshire Munch is a friendly, relaxed munch for everyone in South Yorkshire and the surrounding area - held on the fourth Sunday of every month at the Howard Hotel near Sheffield railway station from 2pm until 6pm.

If you go to www.fetlife.com, and search for Lancashire, you will find a bunch of stuff going on in your area.

https://fetlife.com/groups/27334



darchChylde -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 8:00:55 AM)

I started a post here, but went into so much detail and such that I felt that it would be distracting from the thread and the thread would be a distraction from what i hope and believe is alot of good information.  So I started my own thread.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3908212/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3908212



Soyokaze -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 9:25:31 AM)

Aside from reading a bunch, local munches is more or less where I got started.



bighappygoth39 -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 9:59:09 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: usem33
Beecause when your a novice nobody wants to meet you [8|]


Just remember that some dom/mes actually prefer a novice to mould into what they want, so don't give up on that. It's definitely worth waiting for. My partner was a novice when I first started chatting to him, but I had had experience, so it really depends on the individual. It does help if you have a good idea of what you'd enjoy, though.
Good luck. [sm=cool.gif]



Ninebelowzero -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 12:25:43 PM)

To the OP.
I'm a rookie to the scene as well.
So a bit of advice to disgard.

Don't be negative, mopey never will get you a woman kink or not.
Be funny. Laughter gets you into the sack faster than owt.
Get out, meet people.
Have fun!


Oh & stay away from the redheads. The're mine, all mine I tell ye!



HannahLynn -> RE: novice (11/3/2011 8:19:38 PM)

quote:

Beecause when your a novice nobody wants to meet yo
not quite, they don't want to meet you because you're a middle aged man looking for occasional nsa play on your fucking terms. there are only 13 million of you fuckers on here.

let me guess, you're available on thursday evenings because that's when the wife has her bridge group over.



kalikshama -> RE: novice (11/5/2011 1:31:23 PM)

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SoulAlloy -> RE: novice (11/5/2011 9:44:10 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Hi there!

Start with your local community.  From your profile, I am guessing that you are somewhere near Lancashire?  There are a bunch of groups in that area, and even a munch:

The South Yorkshire Munch is a friendly, relaxed munch for everyone in South Yorkshire and the surrounding area - held on the fourth Sunday of every month at the Howard Hotel near Sheffield railway station from 2pm until 6pm.

If you go to www.fetlife.com, and search for Lancashire, you will find a bunch of stuff going on in your area.

https://fetlife.com/groups/27334


Weeellll if it's Lancashire you're talking about we've got loads, and closer than Sheffield too lol

Preston munch next wednesday, Wigan munch day after, there's also Bolton, Blackpool and Lancaster munches, not to mention 5 in the Manchester area - if you want to know more about any of them just drop us a line



AcademyForSlaves -> RE: novice (11/10/2011 7:00:15 PM)

Hi.

I love training and meeting novices so don't think being new is a problem. Untrained subs are great to mold. Start by posting and finding a Mistress from here then go from there.

Hope this helps.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: novice (11/10/2011 7:12:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero
Oh & stay away from the redheads. The're mine, all mine I tell ye!

[:D]

Seriously, sometimes I like a newbie because I can teach and train him the way I want, without having to deal with someone else's previous training and so on.

NBMG



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