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New To The Lifestyle - 5/25/2006 9:29:21 PM

AlphaMax

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My wife has always been intrigued by the d/s lifestyle. It has been a part of her and in her thoughts her entire life. She and I have flirted with the idea and played around with it for a number of years. I, myself, am very new to everything. I never really looked at myself as a Dom, but the past few months I have really gotten into everything. I would like to talk to more people, Dom and Sub to hear their experiences, and find out how to go about this all. To get suggestions from people who are more expereinced.

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/25/2006 11:08:36 PM

Werepez

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I'm in a similar position with my husband and me. He's more experienced than I am, but we certainly have toyed with ideas and experiences our entire relationship's span; he was in two fetish stageshows and was an exotic dancer for a year, so he's taught me a few ... 'tricks' of the 'trade', so to speak. But, on those lines, I'm in the same boat as you, for the most part. Good luck with the information-seeking!

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/26/2006 6:12:28 PM

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Welcome to the boards. Asking questions on various interests of yours is a good way to spark discussion and get others views, opinions and experience with it. The search function can help find discussions on tons of topics. I hope you enjoy your experience here.

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/27/2006 6:29:36 AM

spectreandnectre

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Well welcome to the forums there are many knowledgeable people here who are more than willing to help if asked for advice...you may also try to look at reputable BDSM websites, some of them are castlerealm.com and submissiveloving.com. Good luck

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/27/2006 8:46:09 PM

Coolhanded

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Welcome to this wonderful lifestyle. Main thing is be safe and sane.

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/28/2006 5:17:01 AM

xxmstrchasxx

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Hello AlphaMax,

Welcome to the forum!

Go slow and learn, there are many good people here to ask questions. Go slow with your sub too, find out what she likes and experiment and be sure to have a safe word for her, that way you can find out her limits.

Start easy and work up to more pain as she can handle it and you'll get to know what she likes and how much. Always be safe and sane with her, you're not only her Dom but her protector too.

Good Luck to you.

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RE: New To The Lifestyle - 5/29/2006 6:20:24 AM

AlphaMax

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Thanx to everyone for responding. Like I said, new to all of this, but I think I get the general gist. I'll defeinately be asking questions though.

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