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Would you play with a wheelchair bound person?

yes

64% (32)

no

12% (6)

maybe

20% (10)

never thought of it that way

4% (2)

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Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 10:54:03 AM

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My question is, would you play with a wheelchair bound person? My S/O is in a wheelchair, Disabled Army Veteran. Extremely 'functional'.
(Learning to walk again)

I'm turned on by his drive & determination. The Medical aspects too. And, the fact he won't allow himself or anyone else for that matter feel sorry for him.

Am I alone in liking this? Not the Disabled or Amputee fetish.

I love, the added pleasure of serving a Disabled Vet, not in just the 'because' but, the comfort in the knowledge that I'm actually doing something for another out of real necessity, rather than 'whim'

It is so hot at times being able to just sit in his lap and hike up my skirt and ride him. Also, when we're in public, he's at just the right height to slide his hand up my leg and in me.

I love being able to mount him anytime on his lap, and sitting down, he's the perfect height to 'play' in public or hug him with both breasts in his face. I love the looks we get in public, like, "How the heck?" and hate the 'macho' wannabe guys coming up to me saying things like, "I can do you better as a real man." He is more of a man than most out there and has seen and done more than most out there.

I work from home. Using my computer to sell Digital Advertising to be with him 24/7. He lived alone over 4 years, so, I know he can do things himself, even drive. It just makes me happy to see him smile

I'm not the type to go for the Disabled usually. However, upon getting to know him, we clicked. I have major respect for Him as a person, leading me to be bound in His service.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 10:56:32 AM

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awesome for you both.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 10:58:48 AM

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100% say yes woot, I'm an equal-opportunity slut myself :-))

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 11:03:14 AM

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I love, the added pleasure of serving a Disabled Vet, not in just the 'because' but, the comfort in the knowledge that I'm actually doing something for another out of real necessity, rather than 'whim'

I don't get this part............you feel like you're doing your part for the troops?
You feel that because he's a disabled vet that it's "necessary" to be with him?

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 11:05:50 AM

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No, it's more than that. It's not 'For the Troops', it's for who He is.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 11:06:52 AM

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 12:18:22 PM

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I'd give you a standing ovation, but...

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 12:43:29 PM

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I put down "Maybe", because it really does depend on many things. It's probably shallow of me, but somebody being in a wheelchair would be a pretty big hurdle for me to have to overcome when thinking of a relationship with somebody.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 12:48:49 PM

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I put down "Maybe", because it really does depend on many things. It's probably shallow of me, but somebody being in a wheelchair would be a pretty big hurdle for me to have to overcome when thinking of a relationship with somebody.

this.although I didnt vote.

There are far too many factors for me to consider. I cant even say MAYBE, because given the differing factors, MAYBE might not even be in the cards

(if that makes sense...?)

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 12:52:00 PM

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for me most likely no. I just don't have the energy to put that much into another person from the very beginning and it's not a fetish or a turn on for me. Now if we were together already and he became disabled then I'd stay because at that point I'm already in love with the person and we've established a relationship.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 3:12:08 PM

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All I can think of is that this house is so far from being accessible. He'd never be able to come to see me.
And that would be a problem, me always having to go there. Not being able to share my life with him.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 3:47:43 PM

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All I can think of is that this house is so far from being accessible. He'd never be able to come to see me.
And that would be a problem, me always having to go there. Not being able to share my life with him.

Or a second floor apartment with no elevator, or ramp. >.<

At this point in my life, most likely no.
Like littlewonder said, however, if we were already in a relationship and he became disabled, then I'd find a way to stay.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 6:13:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: eroticsecret

My question is, would you play with a wheelchair bound person?

Board games or something like renting a wheel chair for races.

Board games would be easier though. Or RPGs.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 6:48:43 PM

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Not anything and ladders.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/4/2011 9:11:30 PM

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Strong maybe and its because I used to work with Adapt down in Austin. I was the sales clerk who worked with the disabled when I was working for Radio Shack. I know a few of the fellows wished to go out with me but I was devoted to my job. When I had Lizard, I stayed home and went to school part time. When Adapt needed an extra body for a trial, I came in and stood up for the group. I had deaf guys asking me out all of the time. One guy in a chair loved teasing me because we were neighbors in the same complex. I loved him like a brother.

I did date one guy with CP and we kept it as friends.

When I go down to Austin, I see them on the bus. The men remember me because of the bewbage and the one who did not shun them. I know a couple cope a feel when they think I am not aware of it. I just grin and hope that they made their day.

To me, if they have respect for others, I see them as "whole". The chair is just a device that is necessary.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/5/2011 12:21:04 AM

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FR Fuck yes! Hell the opportunity to push one over gives me wood.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/5/2011 3:23:09 AM

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quote:

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FR Fuck yes! Hell the opportunity to push one over gives me wood.

oooooo what a meanie! I suppose you would also kick someone's crutches out from under them and use handicap parking spots too. <thwacks Endi with my cane>

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/5/2011 11:08:08 AM

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My business partner is a quadripelegic, since he was injured in a football game when he was 16. He has two kids, a law practice, coaches football and has a loving wife. She is pretty much a saint in my book, since she obviously has to provide for a lot of his basic needs, as well as raise the kids. Their marriage has its ups and downs, like everyone else's. I mind my own business, but I find it really interesting that she willingly took on what has to be a huge burden at times. I am also curious about their sex life, but obviously wouldn't dream of asking. So, with those two as an example, I vote yes.

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/5/2011 3:50:04 PM

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That's a fairly common occurance ... the men find wives much more often than female quads do. Married women who become disabled are also much more likely to end up divorced.

As for sex, John Hockenberry once remarked that quads were the sex gods!

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RE: Would you play with a wheelchair bound person? - 11/6/2011 7:52:57 AM

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Well, He's not a quad fortunately, only semi-half paralyzed on His left side. He calls it His, "Goin' away present from the Army"...

The fun part is, getting to be His hands since only one works, and it's Mine!

Not to mention, in reply to your post, I've noticed guys with Handicaps tend to focus more on what they can still do rather than female's "what I could do"....

My hubby lived on his own after getting himself kicked out of the hospital on purpose. He does things himself, cooks, laundry, drives, etc... Things the Doctors said he would never do again. He even set up 3 aquariums by Himself, bought another new truck, bought a house with a pool & Jacuzzi by Himself before we met, etc...

He even drove Himself over an hour to meet me when guys that said they wanted to meet me that lived in the same town were too lazy to get off their butts and drive across town to do so... He then, wouldn't take "No" as an answer to dating... Those things showed me that He was serious and had an iron will...

As for the Sex God part, he may not be a quad, but, is still a Sex God... He's much more creative and has adapted to use what he can way better than any 'normal' guy out there (mental, hand/fingers, tongue, etc)... lol

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