Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ?

Page: [1] 2 3 4 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 6:52:00 PM

Keeshka

Posts: 15
Joined: 8/9/2011
From: Victoria
Status: offline

Why as a slave am I not permitted or allowed
To wear panties and a bra. ?
Panties can be sexie and even crotchless .. In any case
They are hardly much of a barrier or obstacle ?
And a bra is basically a female harness we women wear any way
So it's kind of slave apparel ? ... Why else did our
Mothers or Grandmothers once burn theirs ?

Thank you

slave
k
curtsy

Post #: 1

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 7:46:53 PM

Focus50

Posts: 3962
Joined: 12/28/2004
From: Newcastle, Australia
Status: offline

Errrrm, who says you're not allowed?

If you belong to someone, then presumably you follow his/her rules so you ask them.

Personally, as man and Dom, I think female underwear is generally hot/sexy so the rule is she wears both bra and panties *unless* instructed otherwise.

And yeah, re bra especially, the only practical purpose my girl's breasts serve is for my enjoyment so when I don't require them, I don't much care (in public) for free range boobs bouncing around under her clothing and prefer them packed away all "high and tight" for form and shape. A bit of cleavage that looks sexy rather than slutty is good, though.

I actually like your Mother & Grandmother analogy for why they burnt theirs being the same reason my girl remains "repressed". My house; my girl; my rules....

Focus.

_____________________________

Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown>

Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 2

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 8:30:34 PM

risktaker9

Posts: 197
Joined: 3/10/2010
Status: offline

Well hell I don't know why you're not allowed, it's not a general mandate or anything. Ask the one in charge why.

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 3

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 9:06:24 PM

hangemhigh1953

Posts: 245
Joined: 7/8/2011
Status: offline

Probably because your owner doesn't like undergarments. Maybe s/he feels that a slave is not deserving of any kind of covering. These are just possibilities, you should ask him/her yourself.

_____________________________

"Chains of love got a hold on me,
when passion's a prison you can't break free"

(in reply to risktaker9)

Post #: 4

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 9:36:31 PM

ummmmNo

Posts: 100
Joined: 11/21/2010
Status: offline

I am super confused as to if you think that there is an unwritten rule (or written... Hell, I don't know) about slaved not being allowed under garments, or if your Owner said "no" to them.

If it's the former, you are silly for following some fake rule. If it's the latter, ask your Dominant.

(in reply to hangemhigh1953)

Post #: 5

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/4/2011 9:39:52 PM

tazzygirl

Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline

You arent owned so who said you werent allowed too.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 6

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/5/2011 3:24:27 AM

SoulAlloy

Posts: 2106
Joined: 8/23/2009
From: Preston, UK
Status: offline

Weeellll there are a few options (that I can think of) why someone might want you to go without:

1. They like watching you bounce
2. They like spontaneous sex and are turned off by removing underwear
3. They like being in control of what you wear
4. They enjoy seeing you in discomfort and are turned on by it
5. It affects your mindset and puts you in a more submissive state of mind

The only sure way would be to ask the person who said so, at the end of the day the rules are made between you and your partner/s :)

_____________________________

"Better to be a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without" - Confucius

"It'll be alright in the end - if it isn't alright, it's not the end." - unknown

Kinky crossdressing Whovian

Host of the Preston (UK) Munch, 2nd Wednesday each month

(in reply to tazzygirl)

Post #: 7

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/5/2011 9:05:45 PM

Keeshka

Posts: 15
Joined: 8/9/2011
From: Victoria
Status: offline

Thank You ..

every Dom/me tells me i'm not allowed to ... and non of them own me but they understand i am a salve and must obey
a Superior.

(in reply to SoulAlloy)

Post #: 8

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/5/2011 9:10:37 PM

Lockit

Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline

Then what the hell are you bitching about? If you are slave and they are superior... fucking get over it.

_____________________________

No matter how old a woman gets, some men will think she was born yesterday! ROFL... I love this place!

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 9

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/5/2011 9:22:44 PM

JanahX

Posts: 3443
Joined: 8/21/2010
Status: offline

Because youre a fucking slave, and you do as your told.

If you dont like it, shut the fuck up and get out of the kitchen.

_____________________________

The first rule of Fight Club is you do not talk about Fight Club.

The second rule of Fight Club is you do not talk about Fight Club.

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 10

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 2:29:28 AM

Focus50

Posts: 3962
Joined: 12/28/2004
From: Newcastle, Australia
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Keeshka

Thank You ..

every Dom/me tells me i'm not allowed to ... and non of them own me but they understand i am a salve and must obey
a Superior.

Ok, I just took a Captain Cook at your profile and it says you're 38 - and that you have more friends than any other profile I've squizzed at....

So I'd suggest A), you act your age and consider what a grown adult might make of these "superiors" and their advice, and B), get new friends.

If you're not owned, then the one responsible for all decisions, including your wardrobe, is *you*. Personally, I've never been interested in any sub/slave who can't be a mature and functioning adult, FIRST. That means remembering the disaffected horndog "dom/mes" you inevitably cross paths with don't get a say on how you dress - or anything else!

Focus.

_____________________________

Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown>

Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 11

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 5:11:06 AM

LillyBoPeep

Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline

if you aren't owned by any of these people, i have a hard time understanding why it affects you so much...

_____________________________

Midwestern Girl

"Obey your Master." Metallica

(in reply to Focus50)

Post #: 12

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 5:42:01 AM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

As a demonstration, I will now order LillyBoPeep to immediately drop everything she is doing and come over to Colorado and be mine.

Lilly, in her part of the demo, will proceed to do nothing and might get a funny expression on her face. By doing this, she will have expertly demonstrated the principle that subs and slaves are not required to do anything for those they are not in relationships with.

There will be no charge for this demonstration.

My sincere thanks to Lilly for her extremely able participation.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to LillyBoPeep)

Post #: 13

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 5:49:57 AM

LillyBoPeep

Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline

dude! is there a badge for this?

i'm a good helper. =p

_____________________________

Midwestern Girl

"Obey your Master." Metallica

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Post #: 14

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 6:00:34 AM

TheFireWithinMe

Posts: 1672
Joined: 10/3/2011
From: The Depths of Hell
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

As a demonstration, I will now order LillyBoPeep to immediately drop everything she is doing and come over to Colorado and be mine.

Lilly, in her part of the demo, will proceed to do nothing and might get a funny expression on her face. By doing this, she will have expertly demonstrated the principle that subs and slaves are not required to do anything for those they are not in relationships with.

There will be no charge for this demonstration.

My sincere thanks to Lilly for her extremely able participation.

ooops, I would have gone. Maaaan I SUCK at this!

_____________________________

Charter member: Lance's Fag Hags

There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast. ~Author Unknown

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Post #: 15

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 6:02:25 AM

Ninebelowzero

Posts: 3134
Joined: 8/5/2011
Status: offline

OMG You is a scientist!

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

As a demonstration, I will now order LillyBoPeep to immediately drop everything she is doing and come over to Colorado and be mine.

Lilly, in her part of the demo, will proceed to do nothing and might get a funny expression on her face. By doing this, she will have expertly demonstrated the principle that subs and slaves are not required to do anything for those they are not in relationships with.

There will be no charge for this demonstration.

My sincere thanks to Lilly for her extremely able participation.

_____________________________

More come backs than Frank Sinatra

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Post #: 16

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 6:08:56 AM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

dude! is there a badge for this?

i'm a good helper. =p

There are in fact merit badges. But ya gotta earn them.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to LillyBoPeep)

Post #: 17

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 6:17:00 AM

LillyBoPeep

Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline

kinkaaay =p

_____________________________

Midwestern Girl

"Obey your Master." Metallica

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Post #: 18

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 7:17:40 AM

LaTigresse

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Keeshka

Why as a slave am I not permitted or allowed
To wear panties and a bra. ?
Panties can be sexie and even crotchless .. In any case
They are hardly much of a barrier or obstacle ?
And a bra is basically a female harness we women wear any way
So it's kind of slave apparel ? ... Why else did our
Mothers or Grandmothers once burn theirs ?

Thank you

slave
k
curtsy

Quite honestly everything about your words, both here and in your profile, come across as a guy pretending to be a woman for whank fodder. Too much lameass drama with no real substance.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Keeshka)

Post #: 19

RE: Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ? - 11/6/2011 8:58:59 AM

kalikshama

Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

Quite honestly everything about your words, both here and in your profile, come across as a guy pretending to be a woman for whank fodder. Too much lameass drama with no real substance.

Interesting theory. But wouldn't the CBT part rule this out?

(in reply to LaTigresse)

Post #: 20

Page: [1] 2 3 4 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> Why as a slave am I not allowed ... ?

Page: [1] 2 3 4 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.094