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Percussion -> Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 10:33:34 AM)

I've long had this fantasy of masturbating for a group of people. Not the center of attention. In fact part of the fantasy is that some are disinterested, some are laughing, some just walk passed staring, etc. The object for me would be complete humiliation. It requires my clothes not being accessible afterwards since the post orgasm realization of what I've just done with people watching would be, I think, the peek of humiliation and not being able to dress and get away is part of that. Do others share this fantasy and have you found a legal way to live it out?



Aylee -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 10:34:32 AM)

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Delilya -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:10:40 PM)

So in otherwise you want to make innocent bystanders, who are not part of the lifestyle, part of your kink? Nah, I don't think so.



Hisprettybaby -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:24:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Delilya

So in otherwise you want to make innocent bystanders, who are not part of the lifestyle, part of your kink? Nah, I don't think so.

This. ^^^^^



MissToYouRedux -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:25:28 PM)

Sounds like a typical night at the old Power Exchange in San Francisco. lol I don't know about how it is now at its new SF location or the one in Vegas, but something you can check out.



RumpusParable -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:26:46 PM)

Could be arranged at a kink event very much as described.



darchChylde -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:29:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux

Sounds like a typical night at the old Power Exchange in San Francisco. lol I don't know about how it is now at its new SF location or the one in Vegas, but something you can check out.


OMG, i still use that place to show what a club shouldn't be.  I think if they still don't have it as a members and guests only place, it will still be creepy.  But as ick as it was, there were plenty of great set pieces.  I liked going to the gay part in the off hours, can you imagine: a wrestling/boxing ring with a fog machine.  That was lots of fun.



BurntKitty -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:30:55 PM)

I'm not into getting arrested for public indecency, or lewd behavior in public. It's not my kink, and neither is cages (jails).



MissToYouRedux -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:34:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

OMG, i still use that place to show what a club shouldn't be.  I think if they still don't have it as a members and guests only place, it will still be creepy.  But as ick as it was, there were plenty of great set pieces.  I liked going to the gay part in the off hours, can you imagine: a wrestling/boxing ring with a fog machine.  That was lots of fun.




Totally creepy. [:D] but re: his masturbation fantasy, so much of this:

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In fact part of the fantasy is that some are disinterested, some are laughing, some just walk passed staring, etc.


[;)]



Percussion -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:39:37 PM)

No. How do you even derive that? I VERY SPECIFICALLY said legal ways.



Percussion -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:46:46 PM)

Delilya and Hisprettybaby and BurntKitty - did you read my post or just skim the topic and blurt out CM dogma? I never said I wanted to do anything ILLEGAL? How could anything you ASSUME I meant possibly be legal?

For those with constructive comments - thanks! I've never been to a kink event and I'm not near San Fran. Also I understand that they are not single guy friendly. Is that true?



HannahLynn -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:47:53 PM)

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Do others share this fantasy
not her we don't, well except maybe one of us, but i'm not saying which one.

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have you found a legal way to live it out
i can think of 4 legal ways right off the top of my head, but i doubt they'd really be of any fucking interest to you.



HannahLynn -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:50:21 PM)

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So in otherwise you want to make innocent bystanders, who are not part of the lifestyle, part of your kink?
sure, why the fuck not? what does their lifestyle status have to do with it, the fact they aren't, to his knowledge, kinky is pretty fucking much the whole god damned point of it.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:50:45 PM)

how about going to a party and doing it? don't do it up near where the scenes are happening, because some might find that obscene. but you can kinda carve your own corner and have your own scene.
you're going to have to probably reach out and at least make SOME friends in your community. even at nudist beaches or clothing-optional campgrounds, randomly whipping it out and jacking off around uninterested people is frowned upon and can get you kicked out.

so try making some friends locally, and then seeing if they could help you at a party -- provided that whatever group is hosting the party allows male genitalia to go free. =p



darchChylde -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:51:44 PM)

Non-membership based sex and kink clubs do charge single men m,ore than single women, and often more than a couple; but that's because they want more women to show as they are the attraction for all the single men.  Most major metropolis' have something along those lines, if you want to pay 60 dollars and up for the chance to masturbate in front of people who are usually not interested in watching, and will often laugh at you.  Or at least sidle away without making eye contact.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 12:54:34 PM)

This could totally happen at a private club or event. Many clubs have a no visible genitalia rule, so check the rules, but hey, go for it! I think you would get exactly the reactions you want!

OP, to most of us the word PUBLIC means out on a park bench or at the mall. You really want to be part of a voyeur scene. It's your wording folks are objecting to.



Percussion -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 1:06:56 PM)

THanks Lillybopeep. I've been contemplating making friends in the scene for years and just haven't done it. DarchChyde - that's actually how the fantasy goes. I'm doing something desperate and pathetic and no one cares, maybe even find it humorous. When I'm finished I will no loner be in the mood for this but, separated from my clothes have to do a walk of shame of sorts passed the very same people to get back to them. Kinky... consenting... but disinterested people. I want to make that perfectly clear for those with the impression that I want to impose my kink on the vanilla. I probably could have worded the title better. I think using the word "public" threw some people off. I'm in Chicago? There's a club that will let me do that here?



Percussion -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 1:11:03 PM)

LadyHiBiscus - we must have been typing at the same time because I made the same observation on the wording. Good point. I get it. The use of the word public threw people off. My bad. By public I just meant around other people.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 1:15:06 PM)

It's cool, LOTS of folks say "public" and some actually mean, "hey, I want to assrape my gf on the hoot of my car at the mall on Black Friday, whaddya think?" And some of us really don't like to assault the public with our kink.

Chicago? I can't believe that you couldn't find some hot humilation action there. Check Fetlife for the Galleria Domain groups, I bet they can help.



Percussion -> RE: Masturbating in Public (11/6/2011 1:18:29 PM)

Galleria Domain? I'll check it out. :)



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