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Old Sub/Bottom - 11/6/2011 11:03:43 PM   
subweasel


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Status: offline 		Hi,
I'm 55, are Mistresses my age or younger looking for subs males as young as possible?
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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/6/2011 11:35:08 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		What do you have against Mistresses who are older than you?

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 4:16:16 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		I suggest you give your wife "When Someone You Know is Kinky" and find a kink-aware therapist. See page 4 http://www.drkkolmes.com/docs/kap.pdf

If you have the money for a pro-Domme, you can afford a therapist.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 4:36:58 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Gary, you're looking for someone younger than you who will accept being a dirty little marital secret.  What's in it for her?

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 6:22:40 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Yeah, it's not your age that is the issue. 

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 7:37:50 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Since when does 55 count as "old" anyway? Another strike, eh.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 8:55:14 AM   
SadisticMs2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Gary, you're looking for someone younger than you who will accept being a dirty little marital secret.  What's in it for her?



This.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 9:19:35 AM   
subweasel


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Status: offline 		I didn't say anything was wrong with Mistresses older than me. It's just a question.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 10:34:49 AM   
Hisprettybaby


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Joined: 4/13/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
Status: offline 		Technically, I am younger than you by two years, and I am looking for a sub between 40 and 60 or so. I know I would never go with someone as young as their mid-30s or in their 20s, because my kids are 33 and almost 31. The deal is, though, I don't really think the age is your problem. It's the fact that, when they check your profile, AND THEY WILL, you come right out and say you are cheating on your wife and she doesn't know it. I have no problem with someone a little older or younger than me, but I have a huge ass problem with cheaters and won't go there.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 1:10:33 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Gary- Your marital status is your problem, not your age. You're not doing yourself any favors putting off that heart-to-heart with your wife. Figure out how to have this conversation, apologize for not having it sooner, and give her a chance to participate if she wants to or kick your ass to the curb if she doesn't so you both can move on with what's important to you.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 1:19:36 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		This is from my journal and pretty well sums it up for me:

For the married men who believe they are an exception, no, you are not. Let me try to explain, you try to understand. To begin with your wife, as she should, will always come first. I play second fiddle to no one. You can not serve two women at the same time and make me happy. I'll be damned if I am going wait on you to be able to sneak away for a few minutes.


You can not be available when I want you, be it the middle of the day or the middle of the night. You are not free to be out in public with me and there is more to me than a kink factory. I have to reign myself in during a scene because you can't risk scratch or paddle marks. I can not control your orgasms because you have a woman at home to fulfill. I'm not going to be your kink link so that you can then take your need home and fuck her.

(Make of it what you will and I echo the others, talk to your wife)

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 6:18:30 PM   
slaveforuse69


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Joined: 12/10/2008
Status: offline 		Go to the Sextonight.com or maybe a com where women cheat on their men. you might find what you are looking for. ////////////you are not in the right com for your desires. Good Luck on your search.

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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 6:26:15 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		There are women here that will be with a married man that has a wife that doesn't know he is here trying to play with other women. They may be a bit harder to find, but there are some here.

Now... don't go to that place of thinking I would because I said that! I just know at least one that has met forever loves... twice, by not caring if a man is married. There are others.

I want far more in my life and I won't give up personal honor or ethics, do not ever want to be a part of unfinished business and the final straw of breaking up a home, I don't care how bad it is. Leave, then play.

So while someone may accept a married man with a clueless wife that could find out and name her and sue her for alienation of affection and they get the guy... and I don't have one... I would still rather be alone... FOREVER.


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RE: Old Sub/Bottom - 11/7/2011 6:34:15 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		Gary Im not sure what the deal is, there are TONS of low budget women on this site that would pair up with a low budget guy like yourself...

Your personality must suck ass.

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