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lasher6973 -> just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 6:37:18 PM)
if you where talking with a slave who had accepted being owned by you but who will not commit to anything and always has some excuse and other things just dont add up what would you do ,lasher

JanahX -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 6:45:41 PM)
If I were you.. I would keep looking for someone a little dumber than yourself. She actually bailed from the cyber collar. Someone a little dumber will stick around longer.

Lockit -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 6:47:02 PM)
I would think it too soon to commit to being owned. Why rush it? Personally anyone I wanted to own that back tracked would have some serious questions directed at them... but that would go with any change or sign of being wishy washy. Either I was too quick in wanting what I wanted, they weren't being honest or had some issue that would need being cleared up before we went any further or we wouldn't go any further.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 6:49:17 PM)
Dump them. Your phrase "talking with a slave who has accepted being owned" sounds online to me. Online is um, online. As in no basis in reality until you take it real time. Whether real or online, if someone does not want to submit, then you have not inspired that in them. Move on. A "dominant" begging the slave to submit is considered bad form. Please consult the dom 101 handbook, page 57, first paragraph. Thank you.

DarkSteven -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 6:50:39 PM)
If you refer to the 21 year old that lives in Colorado, I'd question a LD collar, especially one she took a few days after joining the site.

crazyml -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 7:04:37 PM)
Let's try workshopping this. Read your OP back to yourself... What would you say to the OP?

lasher6973 -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 7:08:47 PM)
thank you all i have alot to think about

Kirata -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 7:32:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lasher6973 if you where talking with a slave who had accepted being owned by you but who will not commit to anything and always has some excuse and other things just dont add up what would you do ,lasher I'd stop calling her my slave. [:D] K.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 7:39:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lasher6973 if you where talking with a slave who had accepted being owned by you but who will not commit to anything and always has some excuse and other things just dont add up what would you do ,lasher Consider if your best friend asked you this and what you would tell him/her. Were it me, I would say I made a big-ass mistake and should not have rushed into collaring this person because neither of us were REALLY ready for it. I would release the slave, although it sounds like he/she wouldn't really give a shit anyway, and then I would move on.....hopefully to be smarter next time. If you're talking about the one that DarkSteven mentioned, what the hell were you thinking!? NBMG

IrishMist -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 8:10:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lasher6973 if you where talking with a slave who had accepted being owned by you but who will not commit to anything and always has some excuse and other things just dont add up what would you do ,lasher Uh, I would turn off the computer and go looking in real life. [&:]

lizi -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/7/2011 8:26:48 PM)
Pick one: She's changed her mind, moved on, isn't female, or doesn't want to divulge something important. The types of things she might not want to divulge now that she's gotten closer to you might be that she's married, is an illegal alien, isn't 125 lbs, has an incurable disease, decided that couples aren't her thing, has kids, has a jealous ex, is a scammer, was bored and looking for something to do, never intended on following through, etc etc etc. It's really hard to say but it's good you found out now isn't it? If things don't add up, no amount of wishing they would will change it. Accept her disinterest in playing things your way and move on.

OsideGirl -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/8/2011 6:57:43 AM)
Have you met in real life?

DesFIP -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/8/2011 6:58:13 AM)
Next time meet them first. Date, to make sure you actually like each other. It's the internet. This hot tamale you've been talking to is actually a 45 year old guy with a beer belly.

LaTigresse -> RE: just out of curiosity (11/8/2011 7:31:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: lasher6973 if you where talking with a slave who had accepted being owned by you but who will not commit to anything and always has some excuse and other things just dont add up what would you do ,lasher Uh, I would turn off the computer and go looking in real life. [&:] Yeahhhhhhh....... but then, that would mean actually DOING something and meeting the little treasure face to face. OP, I hope you read the product reviews before purchase. Lord knows I love shopping online but I don't take 'ownership' of anything without some damned good customer reviews.

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