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werebeastie -> Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 5:44:06 PM)

Howl-D readers.  I am fairly busy and do not get to spend near as much time as I would like pursuing those things I like most.  To this end I try to make the most of the time I do have for them.  I am fairly new to CM but fairly experienced within the lifestyle.  Still I try not to let my own arrogance get in my way. To this end I am always up for some constructive criticism or helpful advice.   Not long ago I stumbled across the message boards here on CM and decided to have a go at them.  I was surprised that I got any feedback at all but was really impressed with most of the respondents.  They offered good advice, constructive criticism and even challenged me without being offensive.  Nice.  I very much want to thank all of you with whom I spoke the other night.  I will also tell you that I have completely redone my profile as per you advice.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 7:22:11 PM)

Howl-D to you too, werebeastie. Great job on the profile revisions and I like the pics. I think you're almost there! Would you want to think about adding something specific about what you offer the person you seek? Do you want to be her dance partner when you're well? Do you want to provide a home for her? Are you someone she can rely on when life throws her a curve ball? Would you help her with the practical dailies...like picking up the Advil and Tampax on your way home when she's in the fetal position with a heating pad?

Good luck in your search! I hope you find someone wonderful.




Termyn8or -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 8:56:57 PM)

Dark Art takes on a whole new meaning sometimes don't it ?

T^T




Delilya -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 9:09:06 PM)

If you would be so kind as to break up some of the lengthier paragraphs it would help with the reading.




werebeastie -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 9:34:40 PM)

MistressDarkArt,

Thank you for the kind words.  You have made a good point and asked good example questions.  I will have to see what I might say along those lines.  I am offering a home as I seek a 24/7 live in but I did not specifically say that they would live with me.  The help with the dailies as you call them and standing beside her when life hits a little hard is understood by me as a given in a relationship but I do suppose that it is something that might need said.  It is in my nature to protect and advance me and mine so I didn't really consider having to state it explicitly.

As for the dance partner she will be my dance partner even before I can do more than twirl around the kitchen with her to swing music as we cook dinner.






werebeastie -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/9/2011 9:36:04 PM)

I believe I can do that ... maybe hehehe I'll have to take a look at it




kalikshama -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/10/2011 1:57:52 AM)

Nice re-write!




werebeastie -> RE: Heeding Good Advice (11/10/2011 7:28:32 AM)

Thanks ... apparently even Beasties can be taught




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