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Asherscorp1 -> 180 from "sub-drop" (11/9/2011 9:00:54 PM)
Articles and personal experiences about "sub-drop" aren't too hard to find but does anyone have information about "top-drop"? If you have experienced this what did your sub/slave do that was helpful and where can I find some articles that may be useful? Thank you.

Kana -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (11/9/2011 9:57:01 PM)
No articles, but lots of personal experience. Ya ever want to talk, hit me up on the other side.

HannahLynn -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (11/10/2011 12:06:13 AM)
no articles but here are some fucking threads on the topic. http://www.collarchat.com/m_3296615/mpage_1/key_dom%252Ddrop/tm.htm#3297599 http://www.collarchat.com/m_2696467/mpage_1/key_dom%252Ddrop/tm.htm#2776798 http://www.collarchat.com/m_2633482/mpage_1/tm.htm#2652073 http://www.collarchat.com/m_2025615/mpage_1/key_dom%252Ddrop/tm.htm#2025619 http://www.collarchat.com/m_2545543/mpage_1/tm.htm http://www.collarchat.com/m_1702723/mpage_1/tm.htm and some experience as well. i get it some times, and what heather does to help me is just be with me. i get moody, contemplative, introspective, and morose, so i usually end up sitting by the river and brooding. she just comes with me and sits next to me and leans her head on my shoulder and doesn't say or do a fucking thing. she's just there loving me and available if i want to talk, or for anything. that's the only thing that really helps me, and it really does help. i start being more and more aware of her there waiting patiently. and my attention drifts to her more and more until i'm focused on her again and no longer feeling all fucking blue and turned inward. i only mention heather because i haven't had a real drop since cheri & suze joined us, so i don't know how their presence might change shit.

MikeSojourner -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (11/19/2011 9:28:28 AM)
Most anything that applies to "sub drop" can apply to "top drop" as well. Not so much the immediate aftercare, but the emotions, thoughts, and ideas that happen the next day or so. A bottom may feel guilty or confused about liking being beat. A top may feel guilty or confused about enjoying beating someone. A bottom may need reassurance that all the nasty things the top said and did, names the called them, were just for play. A top may need reassurance that the bottom realizes that it was play and isn't going to run away from them for what they did. Some people experience it, some don't, and others may on some occasions but not others. The main thing is to be open and honest about what you're feeling. Communicate. Admitting top-drop, emotions, uncertainty to your bottom won't make you less of a top, but a better one.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (11/19/2011 11:55:41 AM)
Personally, I find all this sub/top or whatever "drop" stuff nonsense... pointless kink-lingo for little more than MISSING the other person.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (11/26/2011 5:01:36 PM)
Uhhh, scuse me MSLA but I've personally suffered from subdrop and this was with someone I was living with at the time. It wasn't an easy time either, I was down for a few days and required more aftercare than I thought possible. Don't knock it until you've experienced something.

subsfaith -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (12/4/2011 1:38:45 PM)
After-reaction: The reaction after a stimulus is removed; according to opponent-process theory, it is typically the opposite of the initial reaction to the stimulus. Try researching this... it makes some sense. If you experience a high, a logical progression is a low.

DesFIP -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (12/4/2011 2:58:55 PM)
It isn't missing him when I'm sitting right next to him. It's a natural response to exhaustion of body and brain chemicals until they recover. Marathoners experience it also. A temporary depression that sets in afterward.

MistrixMsE -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (12/4/2011 11:44:04 PM)
Not my personal issue, I am opposite, high for hours after. Go seratonin overproduction! I do know a couple dominants who have confessed to serious top-drop, and one whom I have been with when it happened after a scene. Seems quite real to me, having witnessed it. Its just a difference in how somne peoples bodies process the brain chemicals released during a scene.

mons -> RE: 180 from "sub-drop" (12/5/2011 3:14:34 AM)
I was wondering why i felt exhausted not wanting to be bother , just left alone! Wow ok this is so helpful when you feel this and it is true i never heard of this until now! I have "top drop" moody just not myself and yes i feel gultiy for wanting to beat him, thank you op for this great information! "mikesojourner thanks mons

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