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New to CM - 11/11/2011 12:48:59 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Hello I am a newbie and am so excited about finding this site. I am a Dom and while I have been in and out of BDSM over the last 10 years, I feel I have much to learn. About this lifestyle, myself, and or course my sub. I have come to a point in my life were I have stopped being a sub to a paycheck an have the time to be a Dom to a sub/slave. I have always practiced in my professional life that to be a great leader, and command the respect of those entrusted to you, you must first be a great servant. I believe that D/s exemplifies that notion. For a Dom with out a sub is like a guy that makes up his own nickname, he still has yet to earn the title. I am open to any advise, and will gladly share any wisdom that I poses which is requested of me. I would like to start with a question, the truly enslaved are those that are oblivious to their enslavement. How would one go about doing such, for this would truly be the bondage of the mind, will, and spirit. For as they go so does the body. I am not sure who set up this site but thank you for the venue. All the best.
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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 1:18:04 AM   
Sashareign


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Joined: 10/9/2011
From: Land of the lost. My collar marking me as - found.
Status: offline 		Hi domrichguy,

Glad for your financial independence. It will make progressing in this art fairly straight forward if you continue to have the right attitude as you will have resources; the greatest of which is arguably - time. You write about a very high level of slavery. I am not sure I want to go there in discussion. However, I would also offer that I am not so sure of the absolute truth of the statement "The truly enslaved are those that are oblivious to their enslavement." I mean, well yea. Good luck though unless you live on another dimension and a higher plane of existence.

Though I can switch, I personally give myself more and more over to slavery with a driving will to serve my Mistress and God and am fully aware of my state as a devotee.

Many say every act is a choice. For a moral man or woman, once you devote as such, there often is no choice. You simply do the right thing. That is what makes you you and is an irrevocable commitment unto death. It is called principle at all cost. This becomes an absolute calling and is not lessened to one degree by the awareness of it.

At any rate, these are just some random thoughts. I hope you have fun exploring. Be sure to use search. There is a treasure trove of good information here.

And Welcome to Collarme!

-Sashareign

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 5:20:31 AM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		Welcome To CM

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:01:07 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Thank you Sashareign for your worm welcome. I am humbled and honored by your words of wisdom and will ponder them. Your correct it is a very high level of slavery. I certainly agree with you that this is not the medium for such an in depth discussion regarding the matter, but I will say that we see this type of slavery every day. In one segment of America it took over 400 years to accomplish such a task across the board. In a much larger but distinctly different approach in our society this has been done over a period of thousands of years. I do agree with your notion of "Principal at all cost". it reminds me of say a Tibetan Buddhist that has become enlightened to the reality that he is a spirit on an physical journey, while being caged in a mortal shell. He Knows that his physical limitation(enslavement )is one of the greatest gifts the universe has to offer it's conciseness's, as such while fully aware of his enslavement. He cherishes it as and for the gift it truly is. Once again thank you for honoring me with your words, all the best.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:04:38 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Thank you Ashjor911, all the best

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:27:30 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Some sincere advice.... I know it seems crazy to you and I, but a very large proportion of sub fems are going to see your nickname and presume, wrongly no doubt, that you're a total fuckwit.

Is English you second language by the way? Because, again, if you don't want to come over as barely literate, I think your profile might need a teensy bit of work.

Good luck though!

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:32:01 AM   
Kaliko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Some sincere advice.... I know it seems crazy to you and I, but a very large proportion of sub fems are going to see your nickname and presume, wrongly no doubt, that you're a total fuckwit.




Submissive female, here...agreeing with the above.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:39:35 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		I appreciate the observation crazyml and Kaliko, I am open to any advise or suggestions you may have. Crazyml, English is my 3rd language out of 5. What revisions is it that either of you would suggest. I certainly understand the Nick and will ponder on this. But as to the body of my profile what is it you recommend? Thank you and all the best.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:41:49 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		If I believed you, I'd help, I really would.

But I don't.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 10:47:30 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Your belief is not required, and it's absence has no bearing.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 11:02:09 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		I am a firm believer in Crazyml. Or is that a believer in a firm Crazyml?
Regardless, he did offer some great advice. One improvement could be proper spelling,
as there is a bit of a difference between a write submissive and a right submissive.
Welcome to the message board, and best of luck in your search.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 11:41:59 AM   
crazyml


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ORIGINAL: domrichguy

Your belief is not required, and it's absence has no bearing.


It's "its" you buffoon.

I can only hope you don't butcher the other four languages you claim to speak as horridly as you do this one.

But you are right, my incredulity at your claim to speak 5 languages has no bearing whatsoever.

But unless you get someone literate to rewrite the abomination that is your profile, the fact remains that anyone with even only a vague grasp of the English language is going to judge you. And that will certainly have a bearing.


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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 11:45:44 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: domrichguy

I appreciate the observation crazyml and Kaliko, I am open to any advise or suggestions you may have. Crazyml, English is my 3rd language out of 5. What revisions is it that either of you would suggest. I certainly understand the Nick and will ponder on this. But as to the body of my profile what is it you recommend? Thank you and all the best.


Out of curiosity, what are the other 4?


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 11:55:54 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Poise thank you for the edit recommendation. You know spell check is great but is useless for such mistakes. I will confess such examples are the most challenging aspect of the English language. Any more suggestions you have will be warmly welcomed. Had a chance to look at your profile, your pictures are amazing. Thank you and all the best.

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RE: New to CM - 11/11/2011 12:09:10 PM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Hello LaTigresse, to answer your question the first language I ever learned was Creole. How ever when I began attending school the curriculum was in French. Since that is the official language of my country of origin. From there I leaned English, and when I moved to America I attended a private Mennonite school. In an attempt to keep there heritage alive all students were required to study and learn German. Living in AZ I have picked up enough Spanish to get me in trouble, but that is half the fun anyways. I hope that answers your question. I like your personal quote, it holds a great deal of truth in many levels. Thank you and all the best.

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RE: New to CM - 11/13/2011 3:51:32 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Wilkommen!
Bienvenidos!


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: New to CM - 11/14/2011 5:57:46 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey there welcome drg, hope that stance works for you. Say we were both sitting in a palace somewhere in Africa, i would be giving you a ship full of armoured personnel carriers and rocket launchers, for a couple of diamond mines, we could do great things together! As we're not, all i can say is that i hope all goes according to your plans.

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RE: New to CM - 11/14/2011 9:45:28 AM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		Thank you OohAahMrs for the warm welcome. As for the armoured personnel carriers and rockets well for some it is there Armani suite and Black card. You just never leave home with out them, lol.

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RE: New to CM - 11/14/2011 7:08:12 PM   
Buzzzz


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Status: offline 		a fellow francophone!!! tres bien. j'espere qu'on va se comprendre maintenant!

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RE: New to CM - 11/14/2011 8:09:10 PM   
domrichguy


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Status: offline 		At Buzz: Très vrai, il fait beau de ne pas être seul

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