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rose442 -> BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 2:50:30 PM)
I have a question for ALL that wish to answer. What part of BDSM are Yyou? Please define what it means to Yyou to be that part? rose442

texasbutterfly -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 3:14:35 PM)
maybe it is lack of sleep, but i don't understand the question. maybe if you tell what you are, then i can get a feel for what you are looking for.

yourMissTress -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 3:18:02 PM)
Great topic, thank you. BDSM being shortened and simplified and inclusive of B&D (bondage and discipline) D&S (domination and submission) and S&M (sadism and masochism). I personally enjoy all aspects of the acronym. I am a Dominant and a Sadist (among other things, but I'll get to that). I enjoy the mental and emotional bondage (of others to me), physical, mental and emotional discipline, dominating my submissive (as well as other submissives) and sadistically bringing out the masochist in others. What it means to me is that I like all aspects of BDSM and can't pick out one or a few of them to wholly define Me. Mainly because I am not defined by any one or even all aspects of BDSM however, I define them by my own interpretation, and some of the terms and words associated with BDSM can be found in the description of my likes and dislikes.

texasbutterfly -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 3:25:40 PM)
thank you MissTress, i feel stupid now...lol. i can't answer this question. i have no real experience in any of it...although i will soon... woo hoooooo, so i am going to abstain from giving an answer at this time. i know how everyone hates those posters who like to pretend they know what they are talking about. i will be interested in seeing what others say though...<grin>

rose442 -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 4:20:46 PM)
What part of BDSM are Yyou? I am a slave to Master Stoney442. Therefor I live the M/s part of the lifestyle. Please define what it means to Yyou to be that part? Here is the deffinition of slave on dictionary.com slave (sl[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/amacr.gif[/image]v) n. One bound in servitude as the property of a person or household. One who is abjectly subservient to a specified person or influence: “I was still the slave of education and prejudice” (Edward Gibbon). One who works extremely hard. A machine or component controlled by another machine or component. The ones in bold I live by. To me a slave is one that is controlled by a Dominant (Master). I am a slave to Master 24/7 I am not a doormat to Master. Never will be. Master doesn't want one either. But Master does control me. And controls what I do. I feel this is as a Master should. A Master should control His slave. To protect her, as He should. I thrive on pleasing Master. I will be what Master desires till the day He dies. I please Master by working, cooking, dressing as He wishes, talking in a respectful voice. Being sexually pleasing as well. I wear Masters collar 24\7 with pride. Desplaying it to the world. Wanting all to know I am OWNED. I am Masters property, for Him to do with whatever He wishes. Now to go do one of the parts I do to please Master. Off to work..... rose442

juliaoceania -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 4:25:21 PM)
I think Im all of it except the M/s part. I am working on the bondage thing slowly.

darkinshadows -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 4:37:11 PM)
I am all he desires me to be. I am myself. I am His. Everything else is irrelevant. Peace and Rature

Slipstreme -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 5:30:39 PM)
I agree with Miss Tress. However, I add that I am a sadomasochist, enjoying both sides of pain play whenever the oppertunity arises. In D/s I am Dominant, but currently without any long term submissives. That will happen in its own terms. I'm in no rush. When I first started down this path, I saw the 24/7 people and kept thinking, I could never do that, but it has become an idea I can't turn away from. :P

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/26/2006 5:56:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rose442 What part of BDSM are Yyou? Please define what it means to Yyou to be that part? rose442 Are you asking how we identify within wiitwd and what those labels mean to us?

Calandra -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 3:45:55 AM)
I and my household are primarily D/s because that gives us structure and protocols. We do however have a healthy mix of B&B and S&M thrown in for interest... but the primary focus is the spiritual, mental, psychological endeavor to live within a framework we love.

SirCumsSlut -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 4:00:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rose442 I have a question for ALL that wish to answer. What part of BDSM are Yyou? Please define what it means to Yyou to be that part? rose442 [:D] I am SirCumSpank's. He has my heart, mind and soul. The body naturally is his for his pleasure. [:D] I am his pleasure, his pain and yes sometimes his frustration...but most of all I AM HIS

ScooterTrash -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 4:09:54 AM)
I'm like the control aspect so I'm fairly serious about the discipline part, I love bondage as a kink, I'm a little bit sadistic just because it's fun and for myself, I'm not a masochist by any stretch of the imagination....unless of couse it hurts so good...lol.

Signal152 -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 4:15:37 AM)
Well as i don't have first hand experience i can not tell you what part i am. but i can tell you what part attracted me to it... s/M - the idea first crossed my mind as nothing more then kink, something fun to do with a partner but the more i learned the more i came across the same lines that s/M is built on Trust, Honesty, Communication, Respect and Love. most relationships i have been in have rarely gotten 1 out of the 5 yet the basis of all good s/M is all 5. i have always had a controlling aspect to my personality for years i thought of it as a flaw now i know i that all i had to do was change my perspective to change what i considered my biggest flaw into my biggest strength Mike

zumala -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 5:25:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourMissTress Great topic, thank you. BDSM being shortened and simplified and inclusive of B&D (bondage and discipline) D&S (domination and submission) and S&M (sadism and masochism). I personally enjoy all aspects of the acronym. I am a Dominant and a Sadist (among other things, but I'll get to that). I enjoy the mental and emotional bondage (of others to me), physical, mental and emotional discipline, dominating my submissive (as well as other submissives) and sadistically bringing out the masochist in others. What it means to me is that I like all aspects of BDSM and can't pick out one or a few of them to wholly define Me. Mainly because I am not defined by any one or even all aspects of BDSM however, I define them by my own interpretation, and some of the terms and words associated with BDSM can be found in the description of my likes and dislikes. Thank you for laying out the acronym, Miss Tess. [:D] I do not have much experience at all, unfortunately, but I do know what attracts me. The B/D and the D/S portions. I dunno about the S/M portion. That would have to be carefully assessed. Regardless of an 'official' D/s relationship or not (because I'm married which in my eyes makes me submissive, but hubby is also the subbie type, so... shrug) I am a submissive. Or at least a good portion of my personality would probably be assessed that way if someone were to scrutinize me and knew what to look for. zuma

cuddleheart50 -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 5:30:17 AM)
I enjoy the B&D and the D/s part more than the S&M part.

candystripper -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 6:38:37 AM)
i am a straight, monogamous pleasure submissive. However, i write erotica, and have written one story starring a Domme and another involving sadism. Mainly my play/sex interests ( i thought) were bondage and role playing, but now i'd have to say spanking and hair pulling make me melt. i seek a Dominant Man for a long term relationship. i am alive; my life evolves, and i do not fit into A/anyone's neat little box. candystripper

FloridaISIS -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 6:43:44 AM)
Wonderful thread, and answers I'm seeing so far. I happened to catch this thread just as I was about to log out. Will be back to post later. This thread should bring in some wonderful replies.

SmokeyM -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 6:46:18 AM)
Tess has a great explination about BDSM and the meaning. Personally I am a Switch but more with a Dominant side. I like to be just as sadistic as I am masochist. That doesn't mean I don't like the softer more sensual side either. - Smokey

spectreandnectre -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 6:54:14 AM)
W/we are into the D/s scene no S/M here...W/we do also get into the bondage and discipline thing...for me its the mental exchange that goes with it it is soooo intense...i believe this topic could go on forever because E/everyone's ideas are different so i will leave it to E/everyone else

agirl -> RE: BDSM and Yyou (5/27/2006 7:08:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rose442 I have a question for ALL that wish to answer. What part of BDSM are Yyou? Please define what it means to Yyou to be that part? rose442 I am a slave. And it means this to me.... A Lesson in Reflection I learned to kneel, it was at your feet. Can't remember the day or time, won't forget how it felt. I wanted to stay crouched there, a small bundle, safe and humbled. I learned to kneel, the last barrier erected came tumbling down, a beautiful and poignant moment. I, naked, inside and out. I learned to stand, at first with your hand lifting me to my feet. Learned to stand alone for some of the time, always knowing I was within your gaze. Learned to walk, it was more a stumble, knowing that you were minding my footsteps, your eyes on the path ahead. You never made me run until you were certain I'd mastered walking. You always set the pace. I learned to respond, it was at your touch. Your touch is a language I've come to love, I share you, but this language is soley mine. I can't help missing it dreadfully, pining when it's not there. You leave gifts to help me through these times, kisses that linger through long nights and difficult days. I learned to give, it was such small ways. You seem to instinctively know the times when I'm ready to give more. I was afraid to open my heart and mind, you listened and found the way into both. I learned to accept, it was at your hand. My lot, my punishments, my place, myself, lessons that give me strength. I learned to face fear, it was your arm about my shoulders, your words pushing me forward to face the unknown. I learned to fly, wings full and strong, flung wide to the wind. Fully free, yet tethered to you. I could never have known this feeling of flight until I knew how it felt to be bound tightly, held and mastered by you.

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