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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:03:10 PM   
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So, he's out the side door here is he? Meself, I don't mind the geezers doing that at all. While he's out working late, the Mrs. is home looking for reasons to hire a carpenter.




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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:09:33 PM   
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So, he's out the side door here is he? Meself, I don't mind the geezers doing that at all. While he's out working late, the Mrs. is home looking for reasons to hire a carpenter.




You are wise.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:37:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Me thinks this OP has HIS situation all wrong. Actually completely opposite of what his thinking is.

Pro-domme's SAVE marriages. The OP should recognize that being with the "right" pro-domme can save him emotionally and his marriage. Pro-dommes put on the mask and know they are not sessioning out of love or any deep connections with the client. However deep connection can be built up over time and even friendship, but for the most part is it pay-for-play.

Now here is a personal pet peeve of mine: the "right" pro-domme. That is where our OP might take issue. A good professional female dominant is like a skilled heart surgeon. You would not want your plumber to perform anything on your body, right--- so why pick the prettiest flower right out of stripper school to be your "professional" dominatrix? LOL.... I laugh at myself, b/c the answer is so clear--- most are thinking with the dick.... The onus falls to the sub/clients to weed out and find the true professionals and take their business that way, if they want skilled (to deal with emotions and safety and personal issues- such as married subs) dominatrix's.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:52:24 PM   
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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:55:46 PM   
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Not really, I would never claim to wisdom, but I do know a thing or two for carpentry.



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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 12:58:19 PM   
Fornica


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where is it written that she who controls the "pussy" should get paid to play with it! I'm saying there is a place for pro ads and it shouldn't be on collarme. And if you go on a date, get engaged, aren't you eventually gonna have sex, or do you have to leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife every time!


Do YOU leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife each night? Thanking her for putting up with your cheating ass?

Because really? You are complaining about pay dommes and findommes while you are looking for someone to play second string in your life so you can get your kink on.

Your poor wife. Does she realize what a moron she married?



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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:09:01 PM   
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where is it written that she who controls the "pussy" should get paid to play with it! I'm saying there is a place for pro ads and it shouldn't be on collarme. And if you go on a date, get engaged, aren't you eventually gonna have sex, or do you have to leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife every time!


Where is it written that she who controls the pussy HAS to let you free access to it whenever and wherever YOU want? pft.
And no, thank you, going on a date does not mean you get to jump in the sack with me.
Getting engaged doesn't mean you get to jump in the sack with me.
Being married doesn't mean you get to jump in the sac with me.
It's merely a indication that I might LIKE to get in the sack with you, but don't hold your breath.
I could just be in it for the house and alimony.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:11:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alecta

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ORIGINAL: MWM4daytimeBDSM

where is it written that she who controls the "pussy" should get paid to play with it! I'm saying there is a place for pro ads and it shouldn't be on collarme. And if you go on a date, get engaged, aren't you eventually gonna have sex, or do you have to leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife every time!
!

Where is it written that she who controls the pussy HAS to let you free access to it whenever and wherever YOU want? pft.
And no, thank you, going on a date does not mean you get to jump in the sack with me.
Getting engaged doesn't mean you get to jump in the sack with me.
Being married doesn't mean you get to jump in the sac with me.
It's merely a indication that I might LIKE to get in the sack with you, but don't hold your breath.
I could just be in it for the house and alimony.



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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:24:21 PM   
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The ex was!


My point exactly lol

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:28:30 PM   
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where is it written that she who controls the "pussy" should get paid to play with it! I'm saying there is a place for pro ads and it shouldn't be on collarme. And if you go on a date, get engaged, aren't you eventually gonna have sex, or do you have to leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife every time!


Ok, are you really this thick that you don't know the answer to your question? Take you time, think it through, the reason that she who controls the pussy should get paid to play with it exists is.....come on, you can do it. Got there yet? No?

Why do women get paid? Well, because men pay them. It's really that simple. That's right, your little hissy fit about the pros cluttering up the site should really be directed at men such as yourself who are looking to get off. What is the oldest profession in the world? Why did it exist and why does it exist now? Because men have kept it going strong. Look at yourself, a prime example. You're hoping that you can get a female to play with your peepee outside your marriage and figured a kinky place might be fertile meeting grounds. It hasn't worked out for you so you're having the regularly scheduled fit that little boys have on here all the time.

All of those ads that piss you off are there because they're driven by men. Go whine at them for a change and tell them to try to keep their dicks in their pants...oh, gosh, that might mean you too.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:32:42 PM   
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Ok, are you really this thick that you don't know the answer to your question? Take you time, think it through, the reason that she who controls the pussy should get paid to play with it exists is.....come on, you can do it. Got there yet? No?

Why do women get paid? Well, because men pay them. It's really that simple. That's right, your little hissy fit about the pros cluttering up the site should really be directed at men such as yourself who are looking to get off. What is the oldest profession in the world? Why did it exist and why does it exist now? Because men have kept it going strong. Look at yourself, a prime example. You're hoping that you can get a female to play with your peepee outside your marriage and figured a kinky place might be fertile meeting grounds. It hasn't worked out for you so you're having the regularly scheduled fit that little boys have on here all the time.

All of those ads that piss you off are there because they're driven by men. Go whine at them for a change and tell them to try to keep their dicks in their pants...oh, gosh, that might mean you too.



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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:34:05 PM   
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The ex was!


My point exactly lol



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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:40:05 PM   
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Can laugh now, I've got used to being poverty stricken.
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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

The ex was!


My point exactly lol





Lucky for you, Niney, a half of cider and I'm good!

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:42:52 PM   
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Can laugh now, I've got used to being poverty stricken.


I've been there. They say it builds character.
I don't know, it's just made me less tolerant of others who bitch about it heh

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:44:03 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Can laugh now, I've got used to being poverty stricken.
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ORIGINAL: Alecta

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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

The ex was!


My point exactly lol





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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:47:44 PM   
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Me thinks this OP has HIS situation all wrong.



Oh I agree. From what I've been reading here I don't think the wife is into adult babies.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 1:48:09 PM   
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Let me ask you a thing or two here. When you go out with your best bird, is it not yourself that buys the drinks? When you get engaged, is it not yourself that buys the ring? When you do the unthinkable, is it not yourself that pays the pastor? And when it all comes apart due to your drinking and whoring ways, is it not still yourself that pays the legal types?

Do you see a trend here my friend? When you're talking about the blokes and the birds ... well the bloke's going to pay one way or the other. All you get to decide is when, how much, and for what.

That's why the women invented jobs you know. And here all this time you thought it was just to get you out from under foot, silly Yank.

Just marry me now.
OMG! a MAN who really GETS IT!
He's MINE, ladies>♥

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 2:21:28 PM   
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<snip> your little hissy fit about the pros cluttering up the site should really be directed at men such as yourself who are looking to get off. What is the oldest profession in the world? Why did it exist and why does it exist now? Because men have kept it going strong. Look at yourself, a prime example. You're hoping that you can get a female to play with your peepee outside your marriage and figured a kinky place might be fertile meeting grounds. It hasn't worked out for you so you're having the regularly scheduled fit that little boys have on here all the time.

All of those ads that piss you off are there because they're driven by men. Go whine at them for a change and tell them to try to keep their dicks in their pants...oh, gosh, that might mean you too. <snip>



This was fucking amazing.


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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 3:31:55 PM   
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well then they should advertise on a site that is set up for "pros" . Like maxfisch.com or dickievirginjust not here..or maybe collarme should have a section just for "pros" and charge them to advertise there



Why aren't you at Ashley Madison instead of here? That site is specifically designed for people who want to cheat on their spouses. So by your theory, you don't belong here either.


OP - I think your best bet is to pay to play, whether it be Ashley Madison or a pro Domme. No self-respecting lifestyle domme will want to sneak around with you.

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RE: "so called dommes" - 11/16/2011 3:39:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the OP. I get invited to play with 2 pro's for gratis because I'm not a twat! Cos I'm useful, cos I work at making it as fun as possible. It isn't down to good looks. So even with the pro fraternity there isn't always cash paid. Favours yes, a door to be hung, a light to be fixed etc it's a no brainer really. I met them both on this site & on IC so I hope they stay here.

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