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risktaker9 -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 3:48:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama


OP - I think your best bet is to pay to play, whether it be Ashley Madison or a pro Domme. No self-respecting lifestyle domme will want to sneak around with you.


I'd have to agree, but I'll change that to no self-respecting woman will want to sneak around in this manner. I looked at his profile, he and his wife have a small dungeon and equipment that he's volunteering for use with a stranger, hopefully, as well as using his place to host while the wife is at work. Ewwww [:'(]  That would actually turn my stomach. I'm sure he's offering to host so he doesn't have to shell out for a hotel. I mean why not? The wife is gone right?




LafayetteLady -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 3:54:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: risktaker9

quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama


OP - I think your best bet is to pay to play, whether it be Ashley Madison or a pro Domme. No self-respecting lifestyle domme will want to sneak around with you.


I'd have to agree, but I'll change that to no self-respecting woman will want to sneak around in this manner. I looked at his profile, he and his wife have a small dungeon and equipment that he's volunteering for use with a stranger, hopefully, as well as using his place to host while the wife is at work. Ewwww [:'(]  That would actually turn my stomach. I'm sure he's offering to host so he doesn't have to shell out for a hotel. I mean why not? The wife is gone right?



Add to that it is his wife who is working, and damn! We should all line up for this guy. What a keeper.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 5:07:47 PM)

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using his place to host while the wife is at work. Ewwww   That would actually turn my stomach. I'm sure he's offering to host so he doesn't have to shell out for a hotel. I mean why not? The wife is gone right?


On boat deliveries we call that 'hot-cotting'. More crew than there are bunks. Except in that case somebody's SLEEPING below while someone's keeping watch on deck.




amaidiamond -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 5:18:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: risktaker9

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama


OP - I think your best bet is to pay to play, whether it be Ashley Madison or a pro Domme. No self-respecting lifestyle domme will want to sneak around with you.


I'd have to agree, but I'll change that to no self-respecting woman will want to sneak around in this manner. I looked at his profile, he and his wife have a small dungeon and equipment that he's volunteering for use with a stranger, hopefully, as well as using his place to host while the wife is at work. Ewwww [:'(]  That would actually turn my stomach. I'm sure he's offering to host so he doesn't have to shell out for a hotel. I mean why not? The wife is gone right?



Add to that it is his wife who is working, and damn! We should all line up for this guy. What a keeper.


Where do i get my number? i can't pass this one up...




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 9:04:56 PM)

I just love that he has Mon-Thurs 8am to 3pm to "play" while his wife is away.  Most likely bringing in the bacon.  And all this while he's sitting on his arse doing nothing from what I can tell. 

Buttercup, I sure as hell hope you're cleaning the house, doing the laundry and having supper ready and waiting on the table for her when she comes home.  Cuz it's the very least she deserves for putting up with your whiny, slack-ass, do-nothing manhood.  And it's no damn wonder she's not interested in sex with you, regardless of your age, with the attitude you have, you'd be sleeping on the couch for a loooooong time!





MissJana -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/16/2011 9:30:25 PM)

I wish there was a "like" feature here like on facebook. There have been some very entertaining replies on this thread. [:D]




Fornica -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/17/2011 6:05:32 AM)

Me too!
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ORIGINAL: MissJana

I wish there was a "like" feature here like on facebook. There have been some very entertaining replies on this thread. [:D]





Zonie63 -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/17/2011 7:41:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: lizi

What is the oldest profession in the world?



I always wondered about this, since, if prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, that would imply that, at some time way back when, prostitutes were the only ones with jobs. How did they get paid? [:D]




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/17/2011 9:07:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MWM4daytimeBDSM
Why is this site littered with "so Called Dommes" who use it to promote their prostitution? More and more they are cluttering the legitimate people into the scene with "pay me or be blocked" profiles. Kind of gives Collarme a bad rep

Why is this site littered with married cheaters and do-me subs who want to get something for nothing? More and more they are cluttering the legitimate people into the scene with "I want, I want, I WANT" profiles with nothing but kink on them and nothing about what they have to offer a Domme. Kind of gives Collarme a bad rep

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ORIGINAL: MWM4daytimeBDSM
where is it written that she who controls the "pussy" should get paid to play with it! I'm saying there is a place for pro ads and it shouldn't be on collarme. And if you go on a date, get engaged, aren't you eventually gonna have sex, or do you have to leave an envelope on the nightstand for your wife every time!

Where is it written that she who controls the pussy should pass it out for free to any married & cheating do-me that wants it? The deal here is, you are married and cheating - else why do it only when she is at work? Why shouldn't you pay for it when the Domme would have to play second fiddle and be hidden from your wife? How does anyone know your wife really knows about your activities, or do you plan on introducing the ladies to each other?

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ORIGINAL: MWM4daytimeBDSM
morals don't have anything to do with it. i'm just venting at why most of the dominant females on here have to want money in exchange for  play sessions. i admit i am a pathetic loser. my life sucks and i guess I am trying to push negative feelings towards others

Well, yeah, morals DO have something to do with it. If you weren't married and wanting this on the downlow, you might find some Dommes that didn't expect payment. Of course, you're profile also massively screams do-me, so you would probably still have a difficult time with that.

As for most of the dominant females on here wanting money, I don't see that at all. There are plenty of Dommes on here that don't expect payment. They just don't want to deal with your situation is all.

NBMG





myotherself -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/17/2011 12:28:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus





Lucky for you, Niney, a half of cider and I'm good![8D]



Two halves and I'm better....*snickers*




lizi -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/17/2011 5:19:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zonie63

I always wondered about this, since, if prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, that would imply that, at some time way back when, prostitutes were the only ones with jobs. How did they get paid? [:D]


Maybe they got paid with goats? Heck if I know, you got me curious though and I put oldest profession in the search engine and came up with prostitution on Wiki. Interesting read too.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/18/2011 5:48:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

:: head desk ::


I've laid my hayud under my rear tire......some start the engine.....please.




Politesub53 -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/18/2011 5:58:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MWM4daytimeBDSM

Why is this site littered with "so Called Dommes" who use it to promote their prostitution? More and more they are cluttering the legitimate people into the scene with "pay me or be blocked" profiles. Kind of gives Collarme a bad rep




http://www.thedailymash.co.uk/news/society/internet-misogynists-given-chance-to-meet-a-woman-201111164545/




Ninebelowzero -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/18/2011 6:01:05 PM)

It's a mistaken belief that prostitution is the oldest profession, actually the oldest by far is politics, far more low rent than being a streetwalker IMO too.
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ORIGINAL: lizi

quote:

ORIGINAL: Zonie63

I always wondered about this, since, if prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, that would imply that, at some time way back when, prostitutes were the only ones with jobs. How did they get paid? [:D]


Maybe they got paid with goats? Heck if I know, you got me curious though and I put oldest profession in the search engine and came up with prostitution on Wiki. Interesting read too.






Alecta -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/18/2011 8:16:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

It's a mistaken belief that prostitution is the oldest profession, actually the oldest by far is politics, far more low rent than being a streetwalker IMO too.


The oldest prostitutes were politicians.




boytoy4ms -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/19/2011 1:58:04 AM)

hi




LafayetteLady -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/19/2011 8:23:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

It's a mistaken belief that prostitution is the oldest profession, actually the oldest by far is politics, far more low rent than being a streetwalker IMO too.
quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi



Technically wouldn't it be farmers? After all, they had to grow stuff to eat so they could survive. The first "politicians" weren't paid, they just talked. You can't count royalty, because they were born into those positions, so it wasn't really a "profession."

So, all in all, aside from farmers, who likely bartered for goods, I think probably the oldest profession in the world would have to be....

Tax collectors!

After all, royaly has "taxed" those that lived on their land for what seems like forever, and you KNOW the king was not riding out there to do it himself.




Alecta -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/19/2011 11:51:52 AM)

A profession in this anthropological context is thought of as something that people did in exchange for other things done or obtained for them, so if you grew food for just yourself and your family to eat it's not a profession, but if you grew food to sell, it is. (That said, Farming only arose after Hunter-Gathering although we can't yet agree when exactly).

eta typo




LafayetteLady -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/19/2011 2:07:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Alecta

A profession in this anthropological context is thought of as something that people did in exchange for other things done or obtained for them, so if you grew food for just yourself and your family to eat it's not a profession, but if you grew food to sell, it is. (That said, Farming only arose after Hunter-Gathering although we can't yet agree when exactly).

eta typo


Ok, so if you go prior to hunter/gatherer, there weren't prostitutes either. To say that there was, one would have to assume that women bartered sex for food and during that time evidence tends to point to men pretty much just taking what they wanted, no barters/bribes necessary.

If a farmer bartered some of his crops for livestock, that would have put it as a "profession" according to your definition. The earliest references to prostitutes come after the hunter/gatherer portion of history as well as farming.

In any case, it was a joke. Although I'm relatively sure that while they might not have been called "tax collectors," one could find references to a similar type person as far back as they can prostitutes.




Tantriqu -> RE: "so called dommes" (11/19/2011 2:11:06 PM)

True this:
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
http://www.thedailymash.co.uk/news/society/internet-misogynists-given-chance-to-meet-a-woman-201111164545/





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