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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 7:21:31 AM

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(this thread is likely to be considered a necro'd thread, since the last post is nearly 3 months old. =p Just shy by two days. haha)

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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 7:41:59 AM

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Well, I decided to go through old threads, LOL

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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 7:44:16 AM

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The mods get persnickety if old threads come back -- just a heads up. =p

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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 7:54:20 AM

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Oops. I just wanted to give my thoughts.

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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 9:33:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

That might be part of it. =p I am pretty shy and don't always know how to articulate my thoughts. =p

I have a feeling that if you are face down, ass up, tongue cleaning his boots and ya mention that you happen to really like it when he....oooooh...sodomizes you with a whisk, he may just pay a wee bit o`the old attention now, heya?

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RE: What you want -- - 2/15/2012 11:05:58 AM

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Yeah, a bit, because I'm a little shy and even after 4 years of doing this there's still part of me that's a little embarassed about it all. The other thing that makes it difficult for me is that "what I want out of a scene" is to feel powerless and vulnerable, and that works better for me if I don't know and can't control what's going to happen. It took me a while to be able to be able to articulate that.

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RE: What you want -- - 2/16/2012 9:33:29 AM

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Is there some reason you feel this might be limited to the S-side? Sure sure, I know that on the internet every person who wears the label "dom" is 100% perfectly self-possessed and 100% perfectly stable and mature and self-confident at all times. But here in my own little living room I find that it can be hard to be vulnerable.

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RE: What you want -- - 2/16/2012 9:49:50 AM

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I don't imagine that it's only limiteed to the /s side of things at all, I just think I could better relate to /s-chicks who feel similar. Different motivations, etc etc :p
D/M folks face a variety of challenges, too, but sometimes the reasons behind them and ways to mannage them are differet, you know?

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