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Charles6682 -> Beatdowns (11/16/2011 11:28:00 PM)
I am referring to women beating men up here.I wasn't orginally into beatdowns myself until I started shooting for a local website.I'm still not into watching other guys get hurt.Its something that I enjoy when I am doing it or watching a video of myself.I am wondering from the great Collarme community as to just how much is too much?I've been in some very real extreme beatdowns that left me in pain for weeks.I must be insane to keep doing this but I keep coming back.I now realize that I do have a real interest in this.I still don't care to get seriously hurt.Common sense does help.Because of I have managed to get my face out there on camera,now another video producer who specializes in beatdowns is asking me if I would like to shoot for him.I know what I do is rare.Its not easy to find guys who are willing to do this stuff on a regular basis.It can be dangerous but with proper safety guides in place,the chance of someone getting seriously hurt is cut down quite a bit.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Beatdowns (11/16/2011 11:50:55 PM)
So the question is 'how much is too much?' I'd say since you're the one getting whupped that's up to you and the person doing the whuppin', same as any other risky activity. Careful though, Charlie...some women have been trained to go to complete KO before stopping. Since full-force kicks and strikes are built into their muscle memory, they can't be relied on to stop short of KO once it starts. And for some women, KO means a fatally split melon. Be careful out there.

Charles6682 -> RE: Beatdowns (11/16/2011 11:57:00 PM)
I was trying to edit what I wrote top make it more into a question but yes,that is the point of this thread.Just how much is too much?Thank you for your reply.In some ways,I prefer shooting with girls who have had training.They know what their doing as opposed to a girl who has no clue whatsoever as to what she's doing.That to me is even more danergous because if a girl hits the guy in the wrong spot because she dosen't know how to aim her punches right,it could be over right there.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 2:01:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I am referring to women beating men up here.I wasn't orginally into beatdowns myself until I started shooting for a local website.I'm still not into watching other guys get hurt.Its something that I enjoy when I am doing it or watching a video of myself.I am wondering from the great Collarme community as to just how much is too much?I've been in some very real extreme beatdowns that left me in pain for weeks.I must be insane to keep doing this but I keep coming back.I now realize that I do have a real interest in this.I still don't care to get seriously hurt.Common sense does help.Because of I have managed to get my face out there on camera,now another video producer who specializes in beatdowns is asking me if I would like to shoot for him.I know what I do is rare.Its not easy to find guys who are willing to do this stuff on a regular basis.It can be dangerous but with proper safety guides in place,the chance of someone getting seriously hurt is cut down quite a bit. I swear we've already had this topic... quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 There is a local place in the city where I live,where Women get paid to literally beat the hell out of guy's.It's this guy,who own's a few website's,where he shoot's video's of Women beating up men.Now,the men do get serverly hurt.However,the girl's do punch and kick the men in the face,rib's and really anywhere else.This is clearly a huge fetish amongst many men,because this guy who own's these site's is weathly enough or he wouldn't be doing so well selling these video's.I have done a few of these video's myself,I even get paid to do these video's but I have paused,thinking about my long term health.I have had a few bloody nose's and my rib's have hurt because of this.I am a submissive and I enjoy Female Domination,but this is a bit extreme.I am curious from people here in the CollarMe community,how much is too much?Even though no one has gotten seriously hurt from doing this,there's alway's that "what if".I know my decision to continue to do this is clearly up to me.However,I would like to hear other people's point of view on this topic.Thank you. (bolding mine.)

Endivius -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 2:55:00 AM)
When you need to buy a shovel and a tarp, things have gone too far.

crazyml -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 2:58:21 AM)
yep, that's a sure sign.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 5:03:59 AM)
Dude! Glad you're finding an outlet for what you enjoy :) Listen to your body. Any bleeding or mystery pains? Bruising that lasts too long? Work your core seriously, it will help protect you.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 5:06:49 AM)
That's a good tip, LadyHibiscus. Being in better and better shape will help you, OP -- are you exercising, eating well, and taking care of yourself? The better shape you're in, the better your body can recover and heal itself. I remember the thread where he asked about this and mentioned the person doing the videos -- well now he's involved, and it's probably a slightly different ball of wax instead of just watching from the outside. Have fun, and be safe. ^_^

Charles6682 -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 6:45:20 AM)
VaguelyCurious,when I wrote that thread over a year ago,I was bascially asking the Collarme community what their opinion was on someone even doing beatdowns like this.LillyBoPeeP is right there.Clearly,a year later,I am doing this stuff.So,this thread is different in that respect.If I am going to be doing beatdowns of this nature,at the very least I should be doing it right at least.Thats why I ask how much is too much?Of course everyones limits varies on this but I'm sure theres an overall idea on how far to go.Where else would I ask a question like thids except on here.I know theres beatdown fanatics right here on Collarme.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 8:28:50 AM)
Well... "how far is too far" is a really individual, open-ended question... I mean, obviously, you don't want to die, you want to continue to live, am I right? So... death would be too far -- that's simple. But everything else... Someone was telling me about a UK group where members frequently hospitalize each other during consensual physical altercations. Broken bones and other such injuries aren't too far for them, but might be for some of us. And then there's intentional or accidental. If someone's wailing on you INTENDING to inflict maximum damage, that's different than something happening unintentionally. I broke a toe doing breath play. =p Got a concussion doing rough body play/wrestling with a friend -- unintended consequences that didn't make me say "ohhh this dude is unsafe," they were just accidents. However if he had specifically grabbed my head and slammed it into the table -- that's different. Charles, I suggest you worry about figuring out where your own comfort zone is and play to that. You're aware of the risks of what you're doing, right? Work towards getting yourself into better and better physical condition so that your body is better equipped to take what you're doing, and to repair itself. It also may be a good idea to seek out a physician who works with athletes, too.

Charles6682 -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 8:48:41 AM)
Thank you LillyBoPeep.Yes,I am aware of the risks involved with this.No matter how well someone is trained at this,accidents can happen.No,I'm not looking to wind up seriously hurt from doing this.Usually a black and blue mark is a good idea that I should take a break.I'm ot looking to get broken bones.Although I did suffer a shattered cheekbone when I was younger ad needed to have surgrey.This didn't happen on any shoot.That was real life.I don't care for that relive that ever again. I am selective about who I do this with.Theres really only a few girls I can trust with something as serious as that.So,thats one area I've picked up on.Shoot with girls who I trust,pretty simple.I have been trying to get into better shape.I've lost some weight since I first started doing this.If I really need to see a doctor bad enough,I can and I will if its needed.My body stends to heal pretty well.I've been doing this now off and on over a year now and the fact that I haven't suffered any serious injuries does show I must be doing something right.I am alittle bigger than alot of the guys who have shot for these videos,so thats another advantage I have.I also do just do "beatdown" video soley anymore either.I've been getting into doing other custom videos like bellypunching,choking and facesitting to name a few.It does help that I am not always getting knocked upside my head everyday.If I need to take a healthy break from this to let my body heal,then thats exactly what I do.I have experienced a few bloody noses and some hurt ribs but nothing beyond that to where I am stuck in the ER because I suffered too may injuries.The worst injury I ever suffered had nothing to do with these videos as well.It was just a matter of riding my bike down the road at 15 years old.

DesFIP -> RE: Beatdowns (11/17/2011 9:47:52 AM)
I actually think you would do better asking a boxing trainer. They work with these risks daily. They'll be able to tell you what areas of your body should never be hit, what the warning signs are, etc.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Beatdowns (11/18/2011 9:49:52 PM)
Hello, I know many men who enjoy being slapped, whipped, spanked, and beaten by Women, so you are not alone in this interest. Some men are like yourself in which they like being beaten but do not want to get seriously hurt, whereas others like the idea of getting the %*&# beaten out of them. I do not recommend that to anyone since it could cause serious injury and the person beating you might not know what they are doing. Important organs could be hurt, lungs collapse, kidney damage, spinal injury, ribs cracked, etc. No damage should be inflicted. Safe, Sane, and Consential. Domination should be done in a loving manner. It should not include hate, anger, rage, or violence. Hope this helps.

Numbone -> RE: Beatdowns (11/19/2011 7:28:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius When you need to buy a shovel and a tarp, things have gone too far. I don't think it could be put any better. if you are the one partaking in this, what is your limit? What do you care what others think about it? Not that you cant ask...But you should know at what point you no longer are receiving pleasure from it. At what point is the pain overwhelming the experience?

COINT -> RE: Beatdowns (11/20/2011 5:41:10 PM)
I recommend you take a reputable course from a school that provides training to security guards or peace officers. That is my professional opinion as a peace officer. There are fairly safe strikes, and there are some which are very risky. Take a quality course and learn them.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Beatdowns (11/20/2011 7:03:18 PM)
Watched some of the full contact karate sports, and they usually survive ok. I doubt a woman could hit or kick as hard as those guys. I enjoy watching women beat the hell out of a man, but I doubt I could take that kind of pain.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Beatdowns (11/21/2011 1:38:47 PM)
I beg to differ, liks2plzlf. Without going into details, let's just say when the need came to defend myself the f*ckwad went out in an ambulance completely unconscious. He was 6'8, 270 and I'm 5'4, 160 and very fit. Had we been in an isolated, remote location when the attack occurred, he would have been dead. edited for 'an' instead of 'a'

Piercemenow -> RE: Beatdowns (11/22/2011 9:11:16 AM)
Lucky you! I find it difficult to get in touch with women who like doing beatdowns.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Beatdowns (11/22/2011 12:36:34 PM)
Pierce, there was nothing fun or lucky about it. I was attacked in my own home by someone who mistook "let's have coffee and go for a hike" for "if I come over and pretend I'm interested in coffee and a hike, she'll certainly fuck me even though she said NO the first time." It was horrible.

Piercemenow -> RE: Beatdowns (11/23/2011 7:48:28 AM)
Well, I am talking about a consensual scene of course, MistressDark. I enjoy beatdowns. Sorry I did not make it clear I was commenting to the original poster on this thread.

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