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kalikshama -> RE: The Best of CM (11/20/2011 10:40:13 AM)
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I LOVE Stella's contribution here:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3928351/mpage_1/tm.htm#3930326
Not sure if you've come across the site e-Bay which is quite different to this site - Collarme. But your OP makes me wonder.
Sure, on e-Bay you have profiles and listings, you can bid and you can 'Buy It Now' and if you don't find something you can even post in 'Want It Now' sections.
But you're dealing with objects, stuff people want to sell.
This a Collarme, a site for kinky people. It's different. There isn't a ShagMeNow option, and there's not a 'Want It Now' option.
You're dealing with people, women. Same as for the entire half century you've been living.
Let me throw out some terms, you might recognize them - friendship, getting to know someone, consideration for others, communication, are any of these familiar to you?
Go back and browse the profiles of dommes - take a second look but this time look a bit harder and maybe even try to read what they've written in their profiles. You might notice that generally, they are women.
The site gives you a bit of help in allowing these women to identify themselves as dominant women.
Now you've just come in and objectified and fetishized a whole bunch of women thinking only about what you want and what turns you on.
See any light?
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