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hornysub123 -> is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:33:26 PM)
i just joined and almost all the dommes seem like either want money or they want u to sign up for a website subscription. does anyone dominate for the love of domination?

Lockit -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:37:00 PM)
Sure, many of us do... but we tend to be pretty picky about the men we dominate. How many hours did you make it before getting so upset?

hornysub123 -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:42:47 PM)
this is my 2nd day. i hate the ones that talk to u and seem all interested then are like: sign up for this website this is your first test.

Lockit -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:45:27 PM)
Well darlin... have you thought one moment about the nickname you picked? That is a bold sign that you are ready to plunge into something and they are just offering you something to plunge into. So its not what you want to plunge into. Lifestyle dominants are hardly going to think it worth trying on a boy that seems focused on how horny he is. This road goes two ways... at least.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:46:42 PM)
I know it sucks how many money and cam gals have invaded the other side. HIDE their profiles, and eventually you'll winnow them out. There are many women who don't want your credit card info...and are getting discouraged by cheating husbands and selfish horndogs. Good luck, and don't let it get you down.

DarkSteven -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:51:52 PM)
Okay. I checked out your profile and I have some suggestions. 1. Put some clothes on. 2. Quit ordering Dommes around. They don't care that you want someone right now. 3. They don't care that it turns you on a lot either. Step back a moment and think what they want. And write your profile to appeal to that.

SadisticMs2 -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:52:20 PM)
Well, kiddo, you're going to need to offer a heck of a lot more than your horniness to interest a lifestyle Domme. Educate yourself. BDSM does not equal "an easy way to find sex."

Lockit -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:54:47 PM)
Especially... right now! [:D]

hornysub123 -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:56:20 PM)
i picked the name because i tried 8 different ones that were all taken. ill add more to my profile as i go along and find more about my kinky side

SadisticMs2 -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 7:58:09 PM)
LOL Yeah, the "Do me NOW!" commands from ahem submissives tend not to go over well with Dommes. Surprisingly enough, the only Dommes interested in complying will require AmEx first.

willbeurdaddy -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 8:03:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hornysub123 i just joined and almost all the dommes seem like either want money or they want u to sign up for a website subscription. does anyone dominate for the love of domination? Damn few, unfortunately, just as there are damn few "Doms" who have a clue what that means, and plenty of "subs/slaves" that are either out and out frauds or lonely women hoping to garner some attention by posing as sub. (Although "love of domination" isnt quite the term I would use, I understand what youre saying.) It takes time and judgement, but if you're sincere you will eventually find the right woman.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 9:27:43 PM)
Hello, That is a very valid question. Not all Mistresses are only interested in finances, although any form of dating does cost in some form or other. I train and own many males without any fee requirement as long as they do not act like a customer and do not treat Me like a waitress to fulfill his order. One of My websites is a membership site and the members cover My website costs with their fees, whereas other slaves of Mine who cannot afford a membership serve Me in numerous other helpful ways and this I do not mind at all since I am not focused on financial gain but on being served. So do not worry, unselfish Mistresses like Me do exist just as much as unselfish true slaves. Simply apply to the Mistress telling Her you cannot afford any fees and ask Her if you can serve Her in other ways She needs. Hope this helps.

Lockit -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 9:37:53 PM)
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God lord academy... unselfish? Talking as if it is going to cost him one way or another... bullshit... It doesn't cost anything but love to be with me. How do you like those apples wench?

LafayetteLady -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 9:54:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I know it sucks how many money and cam gals have invaded the other side. HIDE their profiles, and eventually you'll winnow them out. There are many women who don't want your credit card info...and are getting discouraged by cheating husbands and selfish horndogs. Good luck, and don't let it get you down. While I agree with hiding their profiles, I have tended to notice something. A lot of the very young female dominants (as in this guy's age group) tend to be the "money gals" as you put it. As though they heard somewhere that lots of horny men are also stupid (which isn't totally off the mark, lol) are willing to give them cash just to talk with them. It actually seems to be a trend with many young women in general, not just those claiming to be into BDSM. A lot of young girls are looking for guys that will pay their way with cash and gifts and won't date those who don't have the wallet to meet their needs. I'm sure that there are plenty of young girls not doing that, but it does seem to indicate that this poor kid is going to have to hide pages of girls looking for a guy to be her paycheck before he finally reaches the ones that are looking for lifestyle relationships. Anyone else ever notice that the female doms always either advising guys to be patient, or simply railing on them, are usually the "over 30" crowd? Yea, the older guys come in bitching, but let's face it, they are looking at the 18-22 year olds' profiles as well, thinking they can find themselves a hot young thing.

Alecta -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 10:02:14 PM)
quote: Anyone else ever notice that the female doms always either advising guys to be patient, or simply railing on them, are usually the "over 30" crowd? Yea, the older guys come in bitching, but let's face it, they are looking at the 18-22 year olds' profiles as well, thinking they can find themselves a hot young thing. I don't know how it is with the 18-22 year olds these days... when I was 18-22 I didn't bother with kinky personals, or personals at all. Didn't need to.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 10:35:56 PM)
I do see a lot of 18-25 yr old women into the very obvious "here's my gift list" stuff, and hey, if they can get stuff that way...well...I hope that the men find it a worthwhile exchange. There are next generation groups in lots of towns. Clubs and parties, and all manner of places full of young people. It's not like the internet is the only option for finding hot kinky chicks. If you are on the net, you have to be patient and search. While I find sexual screen names off-putting, at least the OP is being honest!

SixMore2Go -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/18/2011 10:55:40 PM)
quote: BDSM does not equal "an easy way to find sex." It doesn't? Well damn, haven't I just been wasting me time then?

rulemylife -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/19/2011 12:03:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Sure, many of us do... but we tend to be pretty picky about the men we dominate. How many hours did you make it before getting so upset? Myself, I have made it through quite a few hours and he is absolutely right, as I have said a number of times in response to these threads. The majority of those that call themselves Dommes are just out for a paycheck. Especially on this site.

myotherself -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/19/2011 12:10:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SixMore2Go quote: BDSM does not equal "an easy way to find sex." It doesn't? Well damn, haven't I just been wasting me time then? pats Sixer on the head Awwww...there ARE ways to find easy sex on here. Give me a hundred quid and I'll tell you ALLLLLL about it [:)]

rulemylife -> RE: is anyone here not for financial gain? (11/19/2011 12:11:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I do see a lot of 18-25 yr old women into the very obvious "here's my gift list" stuff, and hey, if they can get stuff that way...well...I hope that the men find it a worthwhile exchange. There are next generation groups in lots of towns. Clubs and parties, and all manner of places full of young people. It's not like the internet is the only option for finding hot kinky chicks. If you are on the net, you have to be patient and search. While I find sexual screen names off-putting, at least the OP is being honest! I have never found it any different in real life than online. There are far too many women who use this lifestyle to exploit men financially. And take note I did not say all, but a very disproportionate percentage.

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