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horseboy -> how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:29:11 PM)
she would love nylons and foot worship, and me at her feet, every night.

lizi -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:33:56 PM)
Well, you might try filling out your profile, as it stands it's going to be hard to attract many as there is basically nothing there except your willingness to find any type of woman from sub to Domme and your love for garage sales with a few other interests sprinkled in. If a woman even looked at your profile she'd know hardly anything about you.

DarkSteven -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:34:16 PM)
Okay. You're asking about finding a Dominant woman for an LTR leading to marriage. 1. Have you gone to local munches and groups? 2. Why is your profile so empty? You wouldn't expect to catch a fish with an empty hook. Your profile says you're a horseboy (whatever that is) , and that you're looking for a Mistress. And it has a pic of a hat. Exactly what is supposed to attract women?

Tantriqu -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:36:11 PM)
Not a good start when you begin your quest with your fetish/demand that she would acquiesce to. Try again.

DianeB269 -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:39:38 PM)
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Lockit -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:40:19 PM)
Dude... looking at your profile when you start a thread, is common place around here. Its not an invite. I am not your mistress and I don't want you at my feet. You wouldn't want to be there anyway. I hate nylons... foot worship and demanding men looking for just about anything without something dangling between her legs. You have a lot to learn... well unless that horse implies something and the ring is really friggin huge. Somebody is sure to play your way if thats the case. Wouldn't be me though.

sweetkarmen -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:40:31 PM)
These are some really good tips. When I look at a profile, I immediately lose interest if the man hasn't taken the time to fill out the profile and/or have journal entries.

OttersSwim -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 8:45:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetkarmen ... I immediately lose interest if the man hasn't taken the time to fill out the profile and/or have journal entries. Or, you know...a personality that isn't stapled to his dick...

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/18/2011 9:16:37 PM)
Hello, Posting here on Collarme and other forums is certainly one of the best ways to find a Mistress to serve. Personally I love having My feet worshipped and a sub male who is into nylons. I had a slave who had a nylon fetish and We/we had alot of fun with that. Never give up. you will find Her. Hope this helps.

Fornica -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/19/2011 5:34:35 AM)
All for the low, low price of $988.99 plus shipping! quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves Hello, Posting here on Collarme and other forums is certainly one of the best ways to find a Mistress to serve. Personally I love having My feet worshipped and a sub male who is into nylons. I had a slave who had a nylon fetish and We/we had alot of fun with that. Never give up. you will find Her. Hope this helps.

SadisticMs2 -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 6:06:05 AM)
It's a relationship. You're not going to base an entire relationship around whether or not someone wears a pair of pantyhose regularly, are you?

Fornica -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 6:17:10 AM)
I wonder what the divorce rate is on that.

stellauk -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 6:27:48 AM)
Not sure if you've come across the site e-Bay which is quite different to this site - Collarme. But your OP makes me wonder. Sure, on e-Bay you have profiles and listings, you can bid and you can 'Buy It Now' and if you don't find something you can even post in 'Want It Now' sections. But you're dealing with objects, stuff people want to sell. This a Collarme, a site for kinky people. It's different. There isn't a ShagMeNow option, and there's not a 'Want It Now' option. You're dealing with people, women. Same as for the entire half century you've been living. Let me throw out some terms, you might recognize them - friendship, getting to know someone, consideration for others, communication, are any of these familiar to you? Go back and browse the profiles of dommes - take a second look but this time look a bit harder and maybe even try to read what they've written in their profiles. You might notice that generally, they are women. The site gives you a bit of help in allowing these women to identify themselves as dominant women. Now you've just come in and objectified and fetishized a whole bunch of women thinking only about what you want and what turns you on. See any light?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 7:21:46 AM)
Alas, there is no mega department store where you can jog down, hit your favorite aisle for wives, and be out in time to catch a movie. Finding a wife takes a serious investment of time, emotions, friendship, intimacy, etc into joining yours and someone else's lives together. I don't imagine you will have much luck at all finding someone to marry you specifically to cater to a specific fetish, unless you're rich enough to pay her. =p You can make mention of your foot fetish thing, but another thing you have to understand -- a lot of women have developed a "severe creep out response" to foot fetishists. Here is an educational video intended to help those foot fetish guys who come on too strong -- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFAozYmmjWs

Fornica -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 7:46:32 AM)
I love this. Can it be posted in bold somewhere and made to be required reading? quote: ORIGINAL: stellauk Not sure if you've come across the site e-Bay which is quite different to this site - Collarme. But your OP makes me wonder. Sure, on e-Bay you have profiles and listings, you can bid and you can 'Buy It Now' and if you don't find something you can even post in 'Want It Now' sections. But you're dealing with objects, stuff people want to sell. This a Collarme, a site for kinky people. It's different. There isn't a ShagMeNow option, and there's not a 'Want It Now' option. You're dealing with people, women. Same as for the entire half century you've been living. Let me throw out some terms, you might recognize them - friendship, getting to know someone, consideration for others, communication, are any of these familiar to you? Go back and browse the profiles of dommes - take a second look but this time look a bit harder and maybe even try to read what they've written in their profiles. You might notice that generally, they are women. The site gives you a bit of help in allowing these women to identify themselves as dominant women. Now you've just come in and objectified and fetishized a whole bunch of women thinking only about what you want and what turns you on. See any light?

lizi -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 8:17:25 AM)
I had to come back to this thread and congratulate the OP for taking the usual fetish delivery system attitude so prevalent on this site to new heights. Not only is a woman supposed to cough up his required fetish, she's supposed to marry him. No half-assed entitlement fantasy here! There's nothing at all weird about presenting your self as 'horseboy', and asking for the biggest commitment there is, based on your sexual proclivities.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 9:55:44 AM)
FR every night? After a month your knees would hurt so bad you'd demand a divorce...

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 10:27:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: horseboy she would love nylons and foot worship, and me at her feet, every night. First, you need to fill out your profile. One thing I can say is, you have many non-kink interests listed, which is good. But your "essay portion" says virtually nothing about you. A woman needs to have something to read and give her an idea of who you really are, well at least as much as she can from reading a profile. Also, coming out of the starting gate with fetishy demands is NOT going to go over well with most Dommes. I know it would not go over well with me. I like to get to know someone and have them get to know me as PEOPLE FIRST. This thread sounds like you want a fetish-delivery service in the form of feet and you don't care who the feet are attached to as long as it's female. quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Dude... looking at your profile when you start a thread, is common place around here. Its not an invite. I am not your mistress and I don't want you at my feet. Did he latch onto you because you peeked at his profile? lol quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious every night? After a month your knees would hurt so bad you'd demand a divorce... Umm, as long as he is on his knees....... lalalalala lol NBMG

switchblademoi -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 10:31:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: horseboy she would love nylons and foot worship, and me at her feet, every night. If you're looking for a woman to potentially marry, stuff like nylons and footship are about 85th on the list of things to bring up. If you want something long term and real, start with real stuff -- your values, your interests, what you want from life. Even if you marry a domme and have a BDSM marriage, you'll spend a very small amount of your time together licking boots.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: how can I find a wife domina to serve and worship (11/20/2011 10:33:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: switchblademoi If you're looking for a woman to potentially marry, stuff like nylons and footship are about 85th on the list of things to bring up. If you want something long term and real, start with real stuff -- your values, your interests, what you want from life. Even if you marry a domme and have a BDSM marriage, you'll spend a very small amount of your time together licking boots. This!! ^^^^^ [sm=rofl.gif]

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