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ShivaTS -> forced into subspace (5/27/2006 11:29:18 AM)
Hi I was wondering if it is possible to drop into subspace what someone does something to you that you done like. I dont like the violet wand. I find it is too intense, but my Master loves using on me due to my high pitched squeels and moans. I drop into subspace pretty quickly, so he says I may think I hate it, but my body says I like it. Im confused by this.

juliaoceania -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 12:03:59 PM)
Once you are there is it fun? Subspace is not always wonderful, it can be a scary place. This is why aftercare is appropriate and necessary, to help a sub come out of that place. So if it is pleasant to be there, perhaps your dom is right, if it is unpleasant, then you may need to talk to him. I cannot imagine something I hated sinking me into subspace, but I havent had anything I hated done to me before..lol

Fawne -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 1:43:07 PM)
"Darlin' It means you're a masochist" Respectfully, ShivaTS, we can be aroused by something painful, that we may hate. Scares the hell outta me, too. But? Best to you, fawne

VvShadowspawnvV -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 5:10:52 PM)
hi shiva =) For me, it isn't always the sensations themselves that do it for me- but, rather, it is the knowing that Master can do it to me whether i like them or not. =) becca-the-freak

juliaoceania -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 5:16:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VvShadowspawnvV hi shiva =) For me, it isn't always the sensations themselves that do it for me- but, rather, it is the knowing that Master can do it to me whether i like them or not. =) becca-the-freak LOL...I was told that my eyes get glazed by just doing as I am told.. that subspace process begins almost immediately for me too... weird huh?

MasterandCommand -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 5:45:23 PM)
It has always amazed me how those who are uninformed give advice to the ignorant... [:'(]

Evanesce -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 10:18:36 PM)
quote: It has always amazed me how those who are uninformed give advice to the ignorant... Which of these might you be? Uninformed? Or ignorant? Or are you just naturally rude?

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 10:39:58 PM)
What a interesting question. Being forced into subspace? arent we allways forced into subspace? I certainly cant go there alone. If its a little intense, i notice i hovver on the 'get the fuck off of me you bastard' to 'im so loving this, its sick, here i go la la land' thoughts. So i guess, if i submit at this point, then im forced in. But i go willingly dont i, or id safe word out, or worse fight back? So am i forced, or do i go there willingly? I dont know? Youve confused me lol little1

Daddysredhead -> RE: forced into subspace (5/27/2006 10:47:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Evanesce quote: It has always amazed me how those who are uninformed give advice to the ignorant... Which of these might you be? Uninformed? Or ignorant? Or are you just naturally rude? Strangely enough, I was wondering the same thing...

ayasha -> RE: forced into subspace (5/28/2006 11:16:17 AM)
Are you sure it is subspace you are going to? Or is it a safe place for your mind to escape to while you endure what it is that you don't like? one does not consider 'subspace' and the 'escape place' to be the same thing.

amayos -> RE: forced into subspace (5/28/2006 12:47:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShivaTS Hi I was wondering if it is possible to drop into subspace what someone does something to you that you done like. I dont like the violet wand. I find it is too intense, but my Master loves using on me due to my high pitched squeels and moans. I drop into subspace pretty quickly, so he says I may think I hate it, but my body says I like it. Im confused by this. I empathize. I believe you do hate the wand, but your body is coping very well with the conflict. That you are confused shows your mind is open, and that over time I believe you can be made to like the process it evokes in you. As an aside, the term "subspace" has always seemed like another silly BDSM buzz word to me, but I understand what it was born to convey. My only contention about these ideas is how they are used with such pseudo-scientific surety, as if the topic being discussed is centered around a car. There are those who will claim there is a good subspace and a bad one, a this-space, a that-space, a me-space and a myspace. But it's not like you can pop the hood and say, "ah, there's the good subspace alternator." Everyone reacts differently to the test of crisis, as we are not strictly speaking about neuro transmitter-blocking endorphins. Some have stronger psychological coping mechanisms than others. Some have learned to enjoy and build those mechanisms—in tandem with the reactions of the body itself. Is it the miraculous and ironically wired coping system of the human animal, or a gateway to metaphysical Xanadu? I would venture to say the answers to those questions would vary quite a bit. I do believe I've said it before, but tilt the diamond that is the human mind just a little and you get a completely different arrangement of view.

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