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Breast Binding - 11/23/2011 12:16:09 PM

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Looking for some advice on breast binding from the experts here. My wife has average sized breasts, but at 55 years old they are still very firm and conical in shape. Every time I've tried to bind them during sessions there is no slack for the rope or other things I've tried to bite into and hold on enough for the the rope to bind and be pulled taut and the rope slides frustratingly forward toward the nipple and off her breast. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/23/2011 12:34:31 PM

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I had to read it three times cuz I thought you said "firm and comical".

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/23/2011 12:41:44 PM

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I imagine you're talking about wrapping rope around them? What type of rope are you using, and what diameter? This happens to me, too, unless the rope is pulled REALLY tight (which is "nice" in its own way), or a scratchier/grippy rope is used, or if the rope is really thin.

Have you ever tried large rubber bands? They're great, plus, you can snap her with them. =p

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/23/2011 7:57:55 PM

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Try a rope bra instead. He has the same problem when just wrapping the rope around mine, and mine are big. But when he does a rope bra, by having the rope also go around me, it can't then slide forward and off.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/23/2011 8:03:44 PM

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Have you tried to bind them while she is bent over or on all fours? Sometimes that extra bit of gravity helps.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 9:00:59 AM

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Thanks for the response. Although there's nothing comical about my dilema, I did chuckle when I read you respons - maybe I should have just written 'firm and cone shaped'.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 9:11:22 AM

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Thanks for the response. I've been attempting to use rope to tie her tits that's about clothesline size, foret the actual diameter measurement. I've tried both the stiffer and softer varieties and both have slid off. I love your suggestion of large rubbers bands and the added effect of the 'pleasures' of a new type of pain. The possibilty, if they bind tight enough, of causing a depression where I can at least get the first wind of the rope to take hold. thanks

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 9:22:24 AM

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Thanks for the Rope Bra suggestion, I'll give it a try.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 9:27:21 AM

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Thanks for responding. Tried the hands & knees hanging thing and gravity seemed to work more in favor of the rope than my effort. Someone else suggested large rubber bands and I'm thinking in that case the gravity thing might just help.

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 11:13:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Try a rope bra instead. He has the same problem when just wrapping the rope around mine, and mine are big. But when he does a rope bra, by having the rope also go around me, it can't then slide forward and off.

Well yeah, you'd think (least, I would) a "rope bra" would be a basic Step 1 in learning to do breast bondage. Plus, with that full wrap-around harness (which may or may not include her upper arms), it opens up all kinds of bondage possibilities to attach to, like pulling her hands/forearms up her back.

OP, not that I personally care for the look myself, you can then bind an individual breast pretty much how you like. You see such pics on the Net all the time but I really don't like seeing breasts all squeezed and distorted and in all shades of purple and blue etc. Ick...!

I have 3 personal rules of bondage - all bondage.

1. Functional - no chance of her escaping. Bondage is, afterall, a physical means of demonstrating who controls whom.

2. Safety - I still don't want her being hurt, injured or so discomforted that it prevents her sliding into sub-space. Which means there's a skill and patience factor in balancing point 1 with 2.

3. Appearance - the perfectionist in me likes the ropework to be neat and symmetrical etc. And nor do I like the ropework to detract from the girl's overall naked beauty, either. They should complement each other.... Which means breast bondage can be challenging, as I don't like her breasts being pulled too out of shape. And a well executed rope bra can look so damned hot, IMO.

But each to their own, naturally. And it's not like I don't enjoy the trial and error of getting breast bondage just right, anyway, esp if she starts to get a little impatient with my efforts. Which usually leads to me inadvertantly pinching a breast or nipple here and there.... ;)

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RE: Breast Binding - 11/25/2011 1:59:33 PM

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Like others have said, you need to learn to do a breast harness http://tacit.livejournal.com/204737.html

Potentially you could tie really big breasts without a harness but with average size ones forget it.

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