Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: Branding advice (12/5/2006 11:54:03 PM)
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Sooner or later you have to stabilize your BDSM play. When you first meet a new subbie there will be a first time that you bind her; a first time that you beat her; and so forth... With most relationships the extent and the intensity of the play accellerates, but at some point it must level off. Either that or you become a serial-killer. LOL but i agree, it going to have to plane out at some point. makes sure your not on that " high" you get from a new relationship/ partner. IMO wait 10 years or so( and if your going to do it yourself spend this time learning how to do it from a qualified professional.) and if it still feels right for both you and her then take it further. quote:
You are overly concerned with the technical aspects of branding. It ain't rocket science. Cowboys were not the noble knights of the frontier who lived by a strict code of honor, that we see in movies. They were illiterate, dirty, lower class, unskilled laborers. Yet all of them mastered branding in about five minutes. Calculus is hard, branding is easy. i disagree here. branding your livestock and branding your woman are EXTREMELY different and should never be confused. When branding livestock, by the cowboys in the old west. you simply heated the iron, secured what was to be branded and, struck it(im sure it was a little more complicated.) but some things you want to remember here is: humans and animals dont have the same type of nervous system, to put it simply( i got this information from my vet concerning animals in general) an animals nervous system isnt as "sensative" or complex as ours, thus things that bother us dont bother them( again at the vet sticking a small dog with a very large needle and the dog acted as if nothing happened) we also dont have the same type of skin. animals in general have a thick hide compared to ours. In essance comparing branding a person to livestock is comparing apples to oranges, as is comparing an 1800's cowboy that took a bath once every couple of weeks often in a body of dirty water( by todays standards)to a professional artist of today. i have only common knowledge on branding, maybe a tad bit more than the average person, but common sense tells me attempting to brand someone myself i plan of spending a great deal of time with is a really bad idea.However branding people you hate could be a good idea.... I would have to agree, if your both seriously considering this, have a professional do it.Their are qualified professionals in the lifestyle. They would probably be your best choice and give you the next best thing to being able to do it yourself.
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