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Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 11:54:58 AM   
reefer101


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Status: offline 		Firstly i would like to say hello to the community

secondly i would like to introduce myself and possibly ask some questions and problems im finding


Hi, my name is reefer (screen name ofc) and im a 21 year old male student living in bournemouth.

im very VERY sub and love to be feminized, not too much into the getting down and dirty, but the idea
of cd'ing or being forced i just love. always open to new ideas or accommodating kinks and fantasies and want to broaden my horizons
been thinking about joining this sort of site for a while now but i guess things just got in the way, but finally im here!


now a few (well i say few) problems i seem to have found in the past

firstly

Im at uni: I live with 3 others in a house, to them i am completely straight and never go near anyone not a girl. This is currently stopping me from owning any clothes because it would give the game away. And it also means that i can never accom.

this presents the problem that the host/master needs clothes, this pretty much breaks the deal in most cases but i have found a few people that can accommodate this :)

no one knows: no one knows about what i like to do regarding this, so when it comes to being fem or sub i find people mostly like their slaves/subs shaved and "realistic" to the model. unfortunately i cant really do this as again, might give too much away.

all of these things i feel are stunting my exploration. could anyone that has experienced similar possibly offer up hints/tips to get around a few of these problems?

and hi again!
thank you for reading

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 12:10:28 PM   
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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 1:34:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry, but it looks like you'll have to keep this a fantasy until you either get your own flat, or else find new flatmates that understand your kink.

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 1:36:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Get a locked trunk for the clothes maybe? That way you can cart it around, and none of the roomies can open it.



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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 1:37:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome, reefer. I can't answer your questions, but I hope you find a way to reconcile the impediments to embracing your preferred sexuality. Good luck, and enjoy the journey. Someone should be along shortly with some practical suggestions.

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 6:18:47 PM   
Fornica


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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 9:20:26 PM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		How about finding some x-dressers at Uni and suggesting sharing a flat?

Make sure they're the same size... so much easier to share clothes.

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Sounds snarky - especially the 2nd line, but I'm serious.  I'll wager there ARE people in similar straits.

Any local drag shows?  You can always go with buds "on a lark" as camoflauge (maybe.)



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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/25/2011 9:24:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Fornica
Pretend you are your own twin sister and trick them. You could have all sorts of good times.

"Fire in the hole!!!"  <=== Explosive situation about to happen.

Okay, one of them jumps sister's bones, explaining how he thinkshe might be gay and is really attreacted to OP, but wants sex with sister, y'know 'cause she really, really reminds him of OP and having sex with an attractive female will help him "know" whether he prefers men or women.

"Fire in the hole!!!" 


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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 4:44:22 AM   
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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 4:54:41 AM   
Fornica


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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 8:54:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey reef, why not move in with three girls?

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 9:09:11 AM   
reefer101


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Fornica

Pretend you are your own twin sister and trick them. You could have all sorts of good times.


clearly this could not possibly go wrong :D dont know why i didnt think of it before!


@ to the other people, thank you for replies, the locked trunk is a great idea as i have a few spare suitcases. Although i think some people may be confused that im a guy not a girl, i just like being feminized so moving in with girls etc probably wouldnt solve the problem :(

nice to see a friendly and active community though :)

< Message edited by reefer101 -- 11/26/2011 9:10:23 AM >

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 9:33:06 AM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		yayyyyyy he has a sense of humour :)))
Stick around :)

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 9:49:03 AM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: reefer101


clearly this could not possibly go wrong :D dont know why i didnt think of it before!


@ to the other people, thank you for replies, the locked trunk is a great idea as i have a few spare suitcases. Although i think some people may be confused that im a guy not a girl, i just like being feminized so moving in with girls etc probably wouldnt solve the problem :(

nice to see a friendly and active community though :)

Actually moving in with girls probably would solve your problem. Women tend to be less judgmental about male crossdressers since they aren't threatened by it or squicked out by it, and they love to dress people/things/animals/dolls up. Give a woman a hair dryer, a makeup kit and some jewelry and keep her occupied for hours. You're also overlooking the borrowing factor :)

Anyhow, welcome and good luck!

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RE: Hi there, new and a few questions - 11/26/2011 10:38:01 AM   
reefer101


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

Actually moving in with girls probably would solve your problem. Women tend to be less judgmental about male crossdressers since they aren't threatened by it or squicked out by it, and they love to dress people/things/animals/dolls up. Give a woman a hair dryer, a makeup kit and some jewelry and keep her occupied for hours. You're also overlooking the borrowing factor :)

Anyhow, welcome and good luck!



I did think of this when changing house this past year (uni halls to house) however i came to the conclusion that to get my alt life way of things the girls would have to, not know me prior to moving in, not go to uni or know any of my friends and then have to break it to them without seeming strange, guessing even the first 2 things would seems a little strange to them in most cases. things like student housing is generally uni students and friends.

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