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Embarresd -> Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 9:50:44 AM)

Hi, i am a 38 year old guy from Norway. I have blond hair and blue eyes. I am overweight but far from fat. I am working on that, i have started to excersize and are trying to eat more healty. I am very sociable when i am, but i am not that found of big groups of people usually in soscial events. I like the pub experience. I play a lot on my humor and i can go to far sometimes, but the best humour is on the edge, right? I am quite flirty and try to limit it, as it is not always a good thing ;-)

I have a lot of kinky fantasies and are really turned on by all this new things and all my new thoughts, i am thinking about it all the time and feel like i can be put in a box, as a sex addict. Are open to almost everything, i do not know what i want to make real and not yet. I am kinda are bipolar about this thing, i can not get it in my head that a woman would think it is a turn on to bend a guy over a bench and doing "despicable" things. For me it is a turn on to be abused and used by a beautiful domme or them she wants me to service and to fantasize about all the things she would "pressure" and "corrupt" me to do. Or just molding my mind and to pressure me to do something that i probably are not going to do. And that she in reality nows that the most extreme things in reality is up to me, but that in the role play game it seems like it is not up to me.

I am a private person about my kinky life and thoughts, and do not want it to get known in my vanilla life. Maybe i will find a way to take a picture that do not show me off. The future will show the way.
For now i am looking for a beautiful, sexy and younger Pro/Lifestyle Domme online, mayby up to 40 years old. I would think that later i would take the steps awards meeting a domme in real life. Should not be a problem for me doing this on a vacation sometime soon. But having a domme in my own country is a big no, no, right now, who can you trust..

I have tried to contact some domme's here, but i have not heard anything back from them. How should i approach a possible Mistress that i can serve. Should i tell all of my desires and who i am or should i keep it short and up to her to want to find out more. I think it would be irritating to have a long mail about a person she has never met, you all get a lot of mails and you want to filter out the ones that you find interresting right?

Embarresd.




Fornica -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 9:54:27 AM)

why would you not want the person in your own country? are you married?



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 10:21:05 AM)

Oh no, I´m just over 40 ... does that rule me out?

OP, whether a Domme is a Pro, like me, or a lifestyle domme, she will not be interested in merely satisfying your kinky fantasies. Most likely your emphasis on that, and that she should be ´beautiful and sexy´, is putting them off. Think carefully, are you interested in true domination, or merely the fantasy? If it´s the latter, you´d be better off looking for a cam girl who doesn´t mind roleplaying.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 10:46:59 AM)

Welcome, Embarresd. Have a good long read of the Ask A Mistress FAQ here on the boards and all will be revealed. Good luck in your search.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:06:53 AM)

There's none here mate. Sorry.



Embarresd -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:24:51 AM)

Fornica: No, i am single. But Norway is a small country and small towns. People know each other, and there is a good chance that someone would find out who i am. Maybe i am to paranoid here, but i just want to be careful. Vanilla people are not openminded to more extreme bdsm play, especially with male subs that is sexually! bi-curious.

MissKittyDeVine: I know that, a slave is here to service. Weather it is a roleplay over the internet or in real life. It should be something that is a turn on for the Mistress of course. I think real Mistresses get turned on knowing they can control another person, and they also gain personally by favours and gifts, or do it as a living. I hope that all the participants would also have some sexual gain from it also. Even though they are financial mistresses mostly looking for the money.
As i see from you now, i do not rule you out. You look good and seem to be sexy. :-)

I know that it would be a controversy, that i look for a beautiful and sexy woman. I do see a lot of beautifulness and sexyness in a lot of whomen. I am for now looking for a online domme, and it would be easier for me to submit for someone online that is crazy sexy, than sexy, than more ordinary sexy. If you meet the person in real life, you will grow to find a person more and more sexy and beautiful. That would also be the thing online in a sense also, i would belive. Not that i rule out something :-)

I am pretty sure that i am finished with a vanilla life, i have been exploring BDSM fetish things online for years, and i have had fantasies about strong whomen for a very long time. It started with reading stories on like bdsmlibrary watching online videos. And maybe the last year i have more actively tried direct contact. Like 3 sessions on livejasmin and a littlebit correspondence with them. Then i went over to Niteflirt and tried some ppv, and started contacting some of them. I tried to involve myself in two differrent Mistresses on Niteflirt, but our areas of interrest did not match and specsially one of them seem to be a hardcore FinDomme. Also contacted s third Mistress, but she wanted Blackmail information before involving in something. Blackmail is very serious, if i feel i could trust the Mistress and that she would respect my hardlimits, i might in the future sign a blackmail contract. I think it is a turn on.

Thanks for taking the time to reply, i am of course merely a slave :-)

I am now going to finish the homemade Pizza, i am very hungry.

Embarresd.



ashjor911 -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:27:19 AM)

Welcome To CM



Embarresd -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:28:03 AM)

Mistress Dark: Thanks :-)

Ninebelowzero: You are beeing ironic right? Not easy to understand, by written words.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:29:24 AM)

of course mate. Welcome to the show & I hope you get all you desire & more besides.



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 11:31:21 AM)

Flattery may work. Especially if accompanied by pizza :D



Embarresd -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:19:02 PM)

Minusstenplussone: Lol, and thanks.

MissKitttyDeVine: Miss, Of course beautiful. Should i send you some slices through mail, email, scan it, fax is out of question as you might find out a lot about me. Or do you want a giftcard to hire a Coock to make it for you? I will ofcourse wrap it up nicely in red and pink, but maybe it would be more adequate to send a gift card? By the way it is a deviant Pizza with reindeer meat, Not kidding. It will be finished in ten minutes, and i belive i will pass out on the sofa. I have realy bad Willpower against a raging hot Pizza. :-)



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:28:51 PM)

Minusstenplussone

I kinda like that lol.

You obviously have a sense of humour so I reckon you will be fine here.



Embarresd -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:32:39 PM)

I have to big of a sense of humor that might get me in trouble though.. lol I edited the mathematical calculation in the response. So it is Correct now. Could you edit your response so i do not get punished?



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:35:27 PM)

getting into scrapes is half the fun. Just compliment the ladies & they'll let you off.


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ORIGINAL: Embarresd

I have to big of a sense of humor that might get me in trouble though.. lol I edited the mathematical calculation in the response. So it is Correct now. Could you edit your response so i do not get punished?




MissToYouRedux -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:40:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

getting into scrapes is half the fun. Just compliment the ladies & they'll let you off.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Embarresd

I have to big of a sense of humor that might get me in trouble though.. lol I edited the mathematical calculation in the response. So it is Correct now. Could you edit your response so i do not get punished?





Be careful what advice you take. Just sayin'... [;)]

And welcome to CM. [:)]



Clickofheels -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:44:44 PM)

LMAO LMAO LMAO

So now there are "levels" of sexiness eh? "Crazy sexy," "sexy," and "more ordinary sexy." I am really impressed!

Personally? I think the aroma of reindeer meat has gone to all of your heads!

I stamp him FAKE/ a PLAYER, and call NEXT!



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:48:12 PM)

C'mon Miss Marie let me have some fun.
xx



MissToYouRedux -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 12:58:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

C'mon Miss Marie let me have some fun.
xx


As if anyone could stop you. [:D]

And to the OP and subs in general, for me humor trumps flattery... though it can be harder to successfully transfer to text well. lol



Embarresd -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/26/2011 2:10:17 PM)

Hi, MTYR: Maybe i should take your advice, it would be boring to follow the advice of 9-0, if it always works. Thanks :-)

Hi, Click of heal: I am not a fake or a player, fake profiles are usually guys pretending to be girls, right? I am flirty and have a sense of humor and i also use that here on the forum, though i would be very careful to flirt here. In my vanilla life i would flirt with the girl at the cafè shop, usually i do not have anymore intention than just for fun and it makes me feel good. But that does not make me a player? I try not to give out wrong signals further than just a inecent flirt, but sometimes that might create a problems. I have differrent sides of myself. One the ordinary guy and the other deviant sexual side. I like beeing dominated sexually wise, and i know i like to be treated like that. Yes i can probably still have ordinary sex, but as the last encounters i have not really been so much into it. Also because it has been a one night incedents. Not that i have had many encounters. I do not get that much excited by ordinary porn, i need some BDSM thing, the biggest turn on is beeing dominated. POV is great :-)

Little boxes on the hillside,
Little boxes made of ticky tacky,
Little boxes on the hillside,
Little boxes all the same.
There's a green one and a pink one
And a blue one and a yellow one,
And they're all made out of ticky tacky
And they all look just the same.

And the people in the houses
All went to the university,
Where they were put in boxes
And they came out all the same,
And there's doctors and lawyers,
And business executives,
And they're all made out of ticky tacky
And they all look just the same.

And they all play on the golf course
And drink their martinis dry,
And they all have pretty children
And the children go to school,
And the children go to summer camp
And then to the university,
Where they are put in boxes
And they come out all the same.

And the boys go into business
And marry and raise a family
In boxes made of ticky tacky
And they all look just the same.
There's a green one and a pink one
And a blue one and a yellow one,
And they're all made out of ticky tacky
And they all look just the same.

I HAVE NEVER BEEN THERE..



OohAahMrs -> RE: Hi, i am a newbie and looking for a Domme. (11/28/2011 5:01:15 AM)

Welcome emb, it must be rough out there, everyone's got blond hair and blue eyes! Hang on a sec, have'nt i read all this before somewhere, you seem like the older version of another would-be guy with problems and reason's why he can't!



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