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agedpet -> curious older sub (11/26/2011 12:06:46 PM)

hi, I'm an older sub who has had knee replacements , i can walk ok but i have lost the ability to kneel or crawl for a mistress, I'm wondering if i can still attract interest from a mistress , maybe one who would understand that some subs who reach my age range [58] may have certain limitations but still can be a loyal and obedient sub who would still do his very best to serve and please a mistress ...any opinions?



DarkSteven -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 12:43:24 PM)

My opinion is that if you think crawling and kneeling are central to serving, you need to quit watching porn.

Women want relationships. A dominant woman is nothing more than a kind of woman.

If you ate personable, take care of yourself, are able to hold a good conversation and are not fixated on scoring a 20something Domme, you'll get plenty of interest.



MissToYouRedux -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 1:05:28 PM)

Accentuate the positive, and you never know. [;)]

Welcome to CM. [:)]


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Lockit -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 1:06:13 PM)

I would have less of a problem with the kneeling or crawling than I would the female supremacy. We all age, we may have health situations that come about by way of age, genetics, lifestyle, etc. Some domina's have our own issues. As thinking adults, hopefully with a heart, soul, compassion and being realistic, wouldn't it be reasonable to think that we would consider our submissive partners best interest and not have a self focus so strong that it would exclude caring for other people?

What do you think we are? If we could be superior, which I don't believe we can be... would superior mean, being cruel and pleased by unthinking, stupid beings? Think about what you're asking and implying by the question. A superior being with no compassion or realistic thinking? How is that superior?

Only in fantasy, would that be superior.



JanahX -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 1:09:15 PM)

this is a joke right?



Fornica -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 2:02:05 PM)

I dunno, Steven, if he ate personable, he might have a bigger problem ;)
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

My opinion is that if you think crawling and kneeling are central to serving, you need to quit watching porn.

Women want relationships. A dominant woman is nothing more than a kind of woman.

If you ate personable, take care of yourself, are able to hold a good conversation and are not fixated on scoring a 20something Domme, you'll get plenty of interest.




hlen5 -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 2:09:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Fornica

I dunno, Steven, if he ate personable, he might have a bigger problem ;)
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

My opinion is that if you think crawling and kneeling are central to serving, you need to quit watching porn.

Women want relationships. A dominant woman is nothing more than a kind of woman.

If you ate personable, take care of yourself, are able to hold a good conversation and are not fixated on scoring a 20something Domme, you'll get plenty of interest.




Wouldn't that depend on how well he ate personable???

Welcome to CM, OP (original poster).



smartsub10 -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 2:24:48 PM)

I'm with DarkSteven on this one.  Turn off the porn.  Submission isn't about kneeling and crawling.

I have bad knees, have had a few surgeries.  I walk OK, too.  Never had a problem with submitting to a dominant male.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 2:28:18 PM)

Kneeling? WTF?

I think your marital status would be of first interest, then your ability to follow directions. There's not a lot you can do for someone when you're crawling about.



ashjor911 -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 3:29:31 PM)

Welcome To CM



Fornica -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 3:47:24 PM)

Well obviously YOU have never lost a cat toy under your couch.
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There's not a lot you can do for someone when you're crawling about.




stellauk -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 7:19:11 PM)

You claim we change with age.

Surely in six decades (almost) of living existence you have developed a soul, yes?

We are all physically flawed and imperfect. You too have the capacity to be the cherished submissive of someone.

Look for the woman, not the Mistress. Welcome to CM. I wish you well.



poise -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 7:31:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: hlen5


quote:

ORIGINAL: Fornica

I dunno, Steven, if he ate personable, he might have a bigger problem ;)
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

My opinion is that if you think crawling and kneeling are central to serving, you need to quit watching porn.

Women want relationships. A dominant woman is nothing more than a kind of woman.

If you ate personable, take care of yourself, are able to hold a good conversation and are not fixated on scoring a 20something Domme, you'll get plenty of interest.




Wouldn't that depend on how well he ate personable???

Welcome to CM, OP (original poster).

As long as he has no intention of trying to eat my personable, all will be fine. [8D]



hlen5 -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 7:48:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: poise


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ORIGINAL: hlen5


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ORIGINAL: Fornica

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven






As long as he has no intention of trying to eat my personable, all will be fine. [8D]



[:)][;)][:)][;)]



MistressDarkArt -> RE: curious older sub (11/26/2011 10:51:22 PM)

Welcome, agedpet. Everybody has stuff, and dommes are human like anybody else. Treat a domme as a woman first, dominant second. Be a good person. Thoroughly read the Ask A Mistress FAQ if you haven't already. In general, female supremacy is not well received here though honesty, helpfulness, sharing a big heart and obedience are.

Enjoy the journey, and best of luck in your search.



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: curious older sub (11/27/2011 6:21:33 AM)

I´d work around a sub´s physical limitations. Besides, there is more to it than crawling around on the floor. Also, online sessions could be helpful in this regard. Anyway, it´s what the sub can do for his mistress, not what he can´t do, and how well they gel, that´s more important than age.



Clickofheels -> RE: curious older sub (11/27/2011 7:01:39 AM)

Once again, someone asks a simple question that (SOME) "regular posters" just delight in turning into a bullying session! <Sighs>
Examples:

" if you think kneeling and crawling are central to serving, you need to stop watching porn."
That was a real cheap shot from someone who usually reads intelligent in the forums. Why does the submissive have to watch porn to assume this???
<LOL> All you have to do is read a few profiles on this website to gain the same idea!

"this is a joke, right?"
Spoken like a true youngin'!

"I think your marital status would be of first interest."
How you got that out of a knee replacement question is beyond me! <LMAO>

IMHO, aged pet, those of us at the exciting age of 58 are still babes! <Smiles> And trust me when I say, there are a bazillion male subs out there who DON'T have knee replacements and still don't have the concerns of being a wonderful sub that you do!

Yes, there are Dommes who will work around a sub's limitations. And if you encounter Dommes who won't? I'd say you are all the better for finding it out early on so you don't waste your time.

Sending best wishes to you in your search!
Clickofheels









cheilo -> RE: curious older sub (11/27/2011 10:27:17 PM)

HI everyone!  I'm "personable".  Nice to meet cha!  (blush and a handshake)




MissAsylum -> RE: curious older sub (11/28/2011 12:20:27 AM)

ClickofHeels:

I wouldnt call this bullying. The responses are more shooting straight from the hip. Being honest, if a personal who identifies as a submissive thinks he is discounted for not being able to kneel and crawl, i will associate that person with wanting a younger dominant, and that he got that idea from porn.

With all the bdsm femdom porn i've seen, its there 9 out 10 times.

At least this person isnt whining like other older and/or disabled submissive men have in the past. I was taught in speech class that you do not lead with the "negatives" about oneself, because you become that "negative", instead of a person who just so happens to have what people perceive as a negative.



OohAahMrs -> RE: curious older sub (11/28/2011 4:22:24 AM)

Hey age, i sympathise, i get a panic attack everytime i take my wallet out!



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